I used to think that being single was horrible and the worst thing ever because I was infatuated with the idea of being in love and having that person by my side making me feel happy and special but toxic relationships taught me that I don’t need that type of behavior and relationship in my life if it’s going to damage me because I was always going into a relationship from time to time and never taking time for myself and after an emotionally abusive relationship I think I’m ready to finally do that and put focus on me and not guys. I wanna find that special person and long term relationship but I wanna take my time and focus on myself because I don’t wanna be a more unhealthy state than I already am in. Single isn’t so bad as people make it to be because you can treat yourself! You can take care of your own feelings, pursue your passions and ambitions, be independent, and sleep peacefully at night knowing you’re not getting cheated on!
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People are fallen and depraved and life seems so much easier without them. Then, I get bored... I found it healthier to interact and deal with others than the problems that I can create by myself. People still suck... ;-)
Amen to that! I never dated either, and I still get treated worse as if I went through dating 20+ guys. And I never DATED! it really amazes me how people normalize such toxic behaviors and unhealthy practices. People don't care about your feelings anymore, they don't know how to take care of you, if they do anything it's always with hidden intent, somebody isn't being honest, it's like the freaking twilight zone! As the Bible says. Being single is hard but marriage is harder! If your going to find a partner, why do they need to make it ANY MORE DIFFICULT than it already IS!
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