I actually think its sweet and i dont think my boyfriend is weak. We have the best relationship i dont take advantage and neither does he we're very equal because of it. I treat him the way he treats me best 3 years of my life 😁
But pedestal is a very negative and abstract concept, and nothing good can come from discussing about it, it's an idea, a theory, but not a solution to a problem. What does "take her off the pedestal" even mean in the real world? It's not an actionable strategy.
Me, on the other hand, i give you poor souls the real deal, the real solution:
JUST. BE. FUN. AND. DOMINANT.
That is it. PERIOD.
And the only reason that guys can't do that even after me telling them is because they have no balls.
Are you dump? SERIOUSLY @BritGuy212 really you don't understand girls at all! I agree totally and 100% with @LightsOff What if man's mission for life is to be in work etc. Putting work before woman is not a good idea. She'll propably leave him.
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Don't pedestalize no one I would say. By the time you pedestalize a person you lower your self.
I actually think its sweet and i dont think my boyfriend is weak. We have the best relationship i dont take advantage and neither does he we're very equal because of it. I treat him the way he treats me best 3 years of my life 😁
I'm an asshole to everybody, which usually means I don't pedestalise anybody (unless they're Dan Stevens or Patrick Stewart).
Hopefully that's good enough. I mean... Ya know, it's not GREAT, but it's all I know.
I'm guesding these claims are your logic and you have no sources. I'm curious where you got this from.
Years of rejection...
Years of rejection does not make it fact.
You obviously read that somewhere on the internet, which is what I used to do as well.
Here is a better idea:
Throw away the word and the idea of pedestal, and just be someone who is fun and dominant around girls.
AKA, someone who doesn't put people (women) on pedestals, or in other words let's people walk all over them... lol
But pedestal is a very negative and abstract concept, and nothing good can come from discussing about it, it's an idea, a theory, but not a solution to a problem.
What does "take her off the pedestal" even mean in the real world? It's not an actionable strategy.
Me, on the other hand, i give you poor souls the real deal, the real solution:
JUST. BE. FUN. AND. DOMINANT.
That is it. PERIOD.
And the only reason that guys can't do that even after me telling them is because they have no balls.
I can only agree on one thing: Do not pedestalise women.
Everything else: BS
If I pedestalise my boyfriend and he pedestalise me , what's bad about that?
(Is pedestalise even a word xD? )
Indeed. https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pedestalize
I don't think even a single girl would agree with you :D
This has been happening (and discussed) for centuries. It's nothing new.
Are you dump? SERIOUSLY @BritGuy212 really you don't understand girls at all! I agree totally and 100% with @LightsOff
What if man's mission for life is to be in work etc. Putting work before woman is not a good idea. She'll propably leave him.
My manjaw weight-lifting feminist girlfriend says you're full of shit. Sorry, I have to go pedestalise her now. LOL
You can't "pedestalise" something that doesn't exist though ;)
Is pedestalise even a word?
It is now :)
Shakespeare created new words and so will I :)
Yeah but Shakespeare had a brain ;)
I don't swing that way.
Well I do anyways, even if sometimes it gets the best of me.
I call bullshit on about 75% of this.
I agree it's bull
As would most. Because what women say and do are two different things.
no it is completely bull shit
Nice guy? Beta male?
You need Jesus.
Women don't like nice guys. That's a fact.
Lol thats moronic as fuck xD
LMAO.
No.
Respect. Mutual respect. That is all.
this is mega lame