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How to train your man into becoming your ideal mate (Page 2)

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  • Maggimay01
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    I believe that those are rules of a great submissive/slave and NO , these are facts in D/s relationship

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Not in my opinion. I like putting a smile on people's face, especially his. To each their own.

      Reply
  • Minxxie
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    Honestly my boyfriend would not put up with me waiting on him like a child for a single day. If I make dinner you better bet he's going to kick me out of the kitchen if I try to do dishes, and rightly so because if he cooks I do the same thing. If we cook together we do the dishes together too. Your take assumes that men are children who need to be waited on and doted on every second to keep them acting reasonable, like a toddler who could throw a fit at any second and I think that is unfair to men. They are adults and they can do things for themselves too.

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Fair enough, that is why I wrote, not every guy would like this. You guys sound like you all have the perfect relationship. You understand each other's likes and dislikes.

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  • SilenRose
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    Lol. I knew this was a joke myTake before the disclosure. Good one! ;)

    I also saw something nearly identical like two years back on another website where this guy wrote an article on how girls can prevent their guy from cheating on them. Some of the stuff you listed was also on his list such as "don't leave the house horny" and "don't argue". Omg, lol!!!

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Wow, that is interesting. Now I have to go find it.

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  • RamyDarwishEG
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    It's disgusting when i see girls calling these points *slavery for her husband* , may all of u fem's burn in hell , they do not know that if they do AT LEAST HALF of those things for their men , their men would love them so much

    But to whom i'm speaking , human rights are being misinterpreted as being masters and slaves

    Hey girl , wherever u are , i ENVY your husband :) u rock

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Lol, thank you!

      Your comments made me laugh. I knew there would be sone who felt this was harsh treatment. That is why I wrote what I wrote at the end.
      Again Thank you, especially for directly stating what I felt to nervous to state.

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    • RamyDarwishEG
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      Ur always welcome , really if i met a girl like you i would do anything to marry her , i hope for you the best in ur life 😂😂

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  • JuicyBrain
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    At last ! A woman that knows her place ! ;-)

    by the way This is sarcasm. For those who need to be said so...

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Lol, you so get it... thanks!

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    • JuicyBrain
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      No problem... And then I would say: Now go make me a sandwhich ! lol ;-)

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Lol, 😂what kind of sandwich?

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    • JuicyBrain
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      Like this
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      I am a vagitarian ;-)

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  • CaliforniaMe
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    The comments from women on here are hilarious, but these are the type of women who probably prefer more sensitive men. Feminine women who like masculine men will do these things no problem, most guys will meet the girl halfway, and things like this are what make men stay around ! You women scoff when he asks for something to eat and watch how his desire for you dismisses because all he did to when you over and all you can provide is sex basically. ...

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    • CaliforniaMe
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      And can we stop saying this is 50's behavior? This has been going on since Abraham and sarah, if you haven't noticed a lot of men and women are turning gay and switching roles no offense...

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  • luvstoned4him
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    I love this, am definitely gonna in-corporate some of it into my everyday life. Nice work

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Yes! Thank you, I received quite a bit of positive feedback. THANK YOU!!! ☺

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    • luvstoned4him
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      np :)

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  • Battooot
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    You, Dear lady, are a real woman.

    Most women don't realize that, but if your man is nice and genuine, this is the best thing you can ever do in your life.

    If i had a wife who could support me like that, although i do clean my own plate (i think if a man doesn't do that Its A LITTLE BIT TOO MUCH laziness and carelessness); I would love her 20 times more than i already do and will really do anything she wants. You have no idea how much i appreciate the little things like making me a sandwich (out of her own will), this alone will really make me fall for her, HARD. and that's only the little things, imagine what would be if it was a big thing.

    Don't get me wrong, i'm not the type that sits on my ass on the couch, i wouldn't mind at all helping my girl with cooking and stuff like that.

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  • PiuBelloAmante
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    <3 yes!!! lol! i think their needs to be some sort of reciprocation though :)
    if i had a girl who did those things, i would treat her like my queen :)
    I would massage her after i was done watching tv and eating my sandwich and tell her how beautiful she is, i would build her things and make sure to always surprise her with flowers and poetry

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Exactly, I was only speaking from one side, but I totally agree.

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    • PiuBelloAmante
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      i love this take <3

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  • pavlove
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    most men will take this woman for granted. i won't throw it on a certain age because men of all ages are guilty of it.

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Yeah, that is why I said not every man.

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    • far2gud4u
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      I agree... I am taken for granted every day for this...

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  • Frost_Byt3
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    All of that sounded great, except she doesn't have to cook for me. I can cook for myself, and for her too if she doesn't know how. Otherwise, nice take though! This is exactly how men want to be treated :)

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      That is understandable and Thank you. ☺

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm not a big fan of the title; "How to train" sounds like the guy has to be trained to fit into a woman's world. After reading the whole post, though, your recommendations mainly fall under two categories: accepting the guy for who he is, and doing what it takes to maintain the relationship. Overall, I like this post. Nice job!

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Thank you! 😊

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  • sawno
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    Many girls failed to see the joke in this one but there is some truth to it.
    If you treat your guy well he will treat you well. It shoukd be 50/50.

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      True, you are.

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  • Anonymous
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    This sounds like a sub's guide to treating her master really well.

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      If you say so.

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  • Sinister
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    This is exactly how I had treated my exgf and she treated me. Some girls and guys just don't get it. I LOVE this !

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Thank you!!!☺

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  • aliencreature
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    so basically dont train your man because he's not a dog, be a good girlfriend and dont be such a bitch

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      My point exactly. Women can't train or trick a man into "obeying" her. He is not a dog. Respect the man and majority of the time most men will respect you.

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    • aliencreature
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      seriously

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Why seriously? Did I offend you?

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    • aliencreature
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      why can i not say anything on the internet without someone getting offended or thinking i'm offended

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      It's just when people use the word seriously nowadays, it means they are either offended or joking.

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    • aliencreature
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      humanity nowadays makes me want to commit genocide

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  • Avenuewriter
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    I just love how ridiculous some of the responses to this take are. To think people would react so poorly to an opinion that can be summed up as "be considerate to your significant other."

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      My thoughts exactly.

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  • ginnyweasley
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    on points 1,2,3,4,6 i am not his mother and if he can't cook for himself when i am not home i guess he will starve
    on point 5 who the hell is bothering their man in the bathroom? seriously

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    • Nettie29Howie
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      Never said, a man could not cook but it doesn't hurt to cook for him. Some people don't understand boundaries.

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    • ginnyweasley
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      I would love to cook for my non-existent boyfriend and I would love to have him cook for me, since I was a culinary student for three years and it would be nice to not be the only one cooking 24/7. It's only a problem when I get forced to cook or forced to do anything really.

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  • Riverock
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    Awesome. I thought that the amount of comments where either men going nuts at you saying "train" or feminists going nuts at your advice but it was pretty good.

    I would say that some men are just a-holes and being nice to them won't change them but I'd hope most men would respect and be grateful to a woman this caring.

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  • lilac_flowers
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    Wonderful Take. Inspires love and respect.

    And the fact that a feminist would have a problem with this shows how disgusting feminism is.

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    • Nettie29Howie
      Nettie29Howie
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      Thank you! !!☺

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