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I think these are great points. You seem you are all for men, what about the ladies? We should be treated equally as good. What should they offer us? If I do all this I expect a man to give me whatever I want.
Agreed, we should. Must guys will if you respect them.
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Why would someone down vote this? You guys complain about us being unfair, but I get down voted for my opinion...
Is this a joke or are you pretending its joking but you actually think this is proper advice and are hiding behind the joke so you have a defense when you get ripped for making such a stupid fucking take...
"How to make your man what you want... pamper him and be his slave!"
No joke, also there is more to a relationship than this. This is one sided on purpose.
Its not about pampering but rather showing that you care. You think a guy wouldn't do any of the above for a woman he's crazy about?
In. A. New. York. Minute.
Besides, kindness breeds kindness.
This take is a good example of why I'm paranoid with catfish on this site.
@Calex because she has a view that you don't think a woman would have? I have very few doubts that the asker is a woman. I may disagree with her view but I find it completely plausible that she is as she claims and a woman.
I have two things to say and I don't mean them in a rude way, they are just questions and an opinion.
1) Why would you write I take if you didn't intend on it being about something serious?
2) There are women that think they can train a man like he's a circus seal or something and I think that's wrong. You can't train a person to do what you want, that's just wrong. And, I can understand why 90% of relationships don't last.
Well said.
I meant it as, don't get upset by taking it so serious. I knew some people were going to get upset. Bad choice of words, I know. I explained this to a guy ealier. Sorry.
Also, the title was a joke. Bad taste for some, I know, but none the less a joke.
Also, I don't believe you can train people, we have freedom of choice for a reason. I don't care what B. F. Skinner thinks.
This is the link:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22535-putting-your-woman-in-her-place
Reading mytakes like this actually make me feel better about this site, because usually I read things on here which make my brain want to melt. It is a bit funny that the pink posters down below immediately got offended even though there was a disclaimer at the bottom.
Wow.
Did you write number 8 yourself?
I am absolutely , not even sarcastic, impressed !
I finally feel understood ! #8 is DEFINITELY a big one for me hahahah !
Oh and for the feminists, you can just fuck em'
This is one GLORIOUS take !
Dang it, I forgot to put quotation marks around it. Plagiarism is bad and now I am guilty of it. No, actually, it is a old quote, don't know where it is from but it is used, quite often.
Thank you!!! ☺
I'm not letting the joke fly over my head. But I'd like to add that standing in the doorway while he's in the bathroom and having a full blown conversation with him is nice too.
When he maybe getting ready in the morning but when he is in there for a while, it is his alone time. I am only speaking from experience.
I do all of that except for the fact that I'm not cool with porn
That is understandable. Glad you like the list. 😊
So like... Am I going to get this treatment in return or am I just supposed to do this for nothing? Because I'm not about that life.
No, the respect and love should be mutual.
Specify that for us plebeians.
If you support him and make him feel important then he should do the same. It doesn't always go this way but from my personal experiences it does.
Preach it sista!
@9mfeo
I mean, I did all the above and was still left at the altar so no, it's not foolproof.
I never did it was full proof. I state that not all men respond to this and it doesn't always go that way. Look at my last comment before this one.
My thing with mytakes is that you could write that the sky was orange and rain was chocolate chips because you don't have to have any type of journalistic integrity or fact-checking. So like you can spout as many generalizations as you like about how you see the world. I don't disagree with you, but I don't agree either.
Just like a few other people, the title made me think that this was some sort of bs about making men into pushovers, but it's actually spot on!
Thank you for reading and not assuming.
Thank you.
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Thank you, too. ☺
take number 1. and 3. off this list and your golden :) i think those two points should only exist in a relationship, if he does the same for you. so if you take turns doing that for each other.
Thanks! And I was referring to relationships... 😆
😊 sorry, wrong emoticon.
yeah you probably didn´t mean it that way but there´s nothing wrong about a guy making his own sandwich or making one for is girlfriend :D
True, indeed. My husband makes his own food when I am unavailable.
i actually enjoy preparing food/cooking :D so i´d be happy to do it for her ^^
You sound like a true gentlemen. Hats off to the lucky lady that captures your eyes.
oh thank you that´s so flattering :)
lol aside for some variations this isn't far from the truth. obviously there are things are man should do in return, but thats not what this take is about.
True enough. Thanks for respecting my opinion. ☺
It is nice to read but i think it is little bitch too much , especialy number 3 & 10 , i will feel weird if she always agree with me , all the time
Little bit
3 and 10
my phone is weird lmao
I meant it as yelling and fighting, arguing is common, just don't allow it to jeopardize anything. Thank you, by the way.
this is perfect. if I had a women who was like this id move mountains to make her happy.
Good dea for herl. The mountains are so peaceful.
Her.
Why should she do all the cooking and cleaning? Me and my girlfriend both do the cooking and the cleaning.
Never judge the book by it's cover they said.
They're right :)
Lovely take :D and this is how to love and tolerate.
Ikr! Thank you for reading it, instead of having a preconceived notion about it. Although, that was the point of the title.
It worked =)
fuck sandwiches... Make him a proper meal now and then... He'll be your bitch for life... "Never underestimate the power of the pot"
Reread number 6 and 8.
Lovely little take :)
I like the message that I get from this... if you want your man to be a good man, treat him like one, and he'll respond likewise :)
Indeed.
Wow I expected a lecture on how men should behave, but this is great! You're amazing! :) A dream woman
Thank you! ☺
aka. how to train yourself to become his slave. You're in the wrong century, love.
She just wants to be kind to her lover. That's a different thing than a slave. Just thought I'd point this out, in case you later think becoming a real slave makes you happy :)
@Dipsy A man can clean his own shit and make his own food. I'm an egalitarian, this is not equal. This is going back to the 50s and being the house wife who slaves after her man. You can show love to your man without being his slave. I don't think I've ever cooked or cleaned up for an ex but he knew I loved him. If she took out the slave parts, then this would be decent. But anyone sane knows how to make someone feel loved and respect them as a person.
I understand what both of you are writing. @Dipsy, exactly my point, this is a choice not a demand. @Hannah591 he would do the same for me, Sweety. I don't feel I am living in the 50s, especially since I have no issue with it. Plus, he appreciate these things.
You dont get it. It's not slavery at all. A relationship about helping each other and doing things for each other. Everything is getting way to much individualistic. When my future girlfriend would cook for me, I'd be happy and she showed that she cared for me, I would return the care by doing something for her, maybe cook the next day?
When you see your boyfriend watching tv for example and while you're not that busy at the moment, if he asks for food, you can make it for him, because he is enjoying himself at that moment, while you, at that moment, weren't doing anything, I would find it quite rude if I ask for some food (sandwich) and she doesn't want to make it, because I would make it for her if she asked for it.
Anyway, if the boyfriend doesn't want to make a sandwich under any circumstances for the girlfriend, then the girl chose the wrong boyfriend, because appearantly he doesn't care about her. It's not about words or gifts, it's about actions
and women wonder why men won't commit.
Haha, what hypocrisy. I almost every article about how men should treat women by women it says exactly like in this article only the genders are reversed. But when men demand the exact same things, they are mysoginist, unfair
This doesn't make us slaves to our SO...
This has nothing to do with slavery. It has to do with respecting your man and treating him how you would like to be treated in return. If you want a man to treat you good, you need to give him the same thing.
If you read it all it clearly says it wasn't serious
If you read it all it clearly says it wasn't serious, at the bottom
Cuz trying to make your boyfriend/husband happy is a thing of the past right...
Totally agree with you Hannah.
Never leave the house when he's horny or hungry. So before she can do anything, she has to make sure he's fed like some toddler who can't make his own food or have sex with him to make him happy. This is just pleasing a man by acting like his servant. You dont need to be waiting on him, hand and foot to show respect and love. You guys are deluded.
She knew "feminists" would bash it because she knows most women with a brain and self respect would disagree with this. She knows her views are outdated.
@dudeman a-fucking-men
I don't think guys want a servant. Most can take care of themselves, but the fact that women withdraw to do things to help their significant other out whether its food or cleaning or god forbid sex, its just annoying. Who's the deadbeat? The one that likes to do things and mutually work with their special someone to show appreciation, or the one that refuses to do some housework or some cooking BC its "old fashioned"?
you know what else is outdated? marriage and a family. if you want to be a single mother then go ahead and keep being the way you are if you actually want a stable marriage and a good environment to raise you kids then she has the right idea.
LOL look at the contrast in male/female upvotes and downvotes. I upvoted you ;)
@PrincessTashaaaa It says a lot but thanks.