Don't settle for someone, even if you're lonely...

[C3POandR2D2]

If you are in a stage in your life where you aren't looking for a relationship, then my advice may not help you. But for the people who want some thing real and wonderful, and who for the most part want to be with someone in a relationship then continue reading! I fully understand why anybody at all would consider dating someone just because they're lonely. Especially when the only option is someone who wants to fuck with your head, treat you badly, who doesn't want a relationship, who is the only person giving you attention, and you really just want to have someone! I'm here to say that you shouldn't put up with that shit. I'm not saying that dating isn't an option, I'm saying you should'nt stay with someone if they aren't what you want or need. Everyone deserves to have someone, and for everyone that person is out there. Whether you believe it or not. You deserve to be treated with respect and loved unconditionally no questions asked. If things don't seem right with someone, chances are they aren't right at all. You aren't trapped, you aren't tied down, you do have a million other options! DON'T stay with someone if they're abusive and don't treat you right. You have every right to leave them if they treat you like shit. Something truly amazing is definitely worth waiting for. It may happen when you least expect it, or out of the blue, or perhaps it was sitting in front of your face all along. It's perfectly fine to test the waters and date people. But you shouldn't settle for someone just because you're lonely. I'm not saying that you should give up on every person you date if they don't fit your expectations. A relationship is about growing together, and compromising, things may not be as you expected them to be, and things sure as fuck aren't always going to be perfect. It isn't about settling, it's about fighting for someone. If you can't see yourself giving your whole being to this other person, and loving them unconditionally in return, and things don't feel right, and things are always bad, and there's no hope for moving forward then yeah don't settle. Even if you have to wait it'll be worth it in the end. Because before you know it Mr. or Mrs. Right will show up right when you need them. Perhaps they weren't quite ready to meet you yet, maybe you're not quite ready to meet them. It'll happen when it's meant to happen. You shouldn't ever settle for someone just because you're lonely. But when you finally do meet that speacil person, don't hesitate to hold on tight. But whatever decision you make, just make sure it's the best option for you. Because once the right one is gone, you'll regret it forever.

[vekin]

Good mytake for sure!

Weird so many have missed it