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The "I trust you but I don't trust them" BS

Days ago I read a question regarding men being comfortable if their girlfriend was away with other males and somewhere along the lines, the aofrementioned sentence was thrown in. My comment on that question was that I wouldn't mind and I'm not so insecure as to say "I trust you but I don't trust them". Well, I got a record thumbs down from girls and of course, insecure guys who felt insulted by my comment ("what are you talking about, I'm a man, nothing scares me, I just don't trust other guys trying to steal my super loyal girlfriend").


Let's get this to a live setting, you are somewhere and your girlfriend is elsewhere with lots of men. What are you afraid of? That she will get raped? That she will be gang raped? That she will be killed? That every each one of them will hit on her? The most likely fear will be imagining that every single guy will grab a number and form a line waiting for their turn to hit on her. Despite of that, the chances of one of those guys crossing the line with your girlfriend super loyal girlfriend are low, getting slapped on the face is painful and most guys don't want find out who her current boyfriend is.


But if you are still so defensive of "I trust you but I don't trust them", it means that you, in fact, are either insecure of your self or scared of the possibility of your (super loyal) girlfriend giving in to someone else's charm. Bottom line, you do not trust her.


And viceversa.

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The "I trust you but I don't trust them" BS
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