Girls can't be Friend zoned? Who actually believes that?

[KeepcalmandLARPon]

You know that when people think of the friend zone, they think of a girl putting a guy there. All the information on the internet seems to all be about helping guys get out of the friend zone and all of the songs about the friend zone all involve the guy getting friend zoned. Do people not think girls can be friend zoned too? I've been put in the friend zone more times than I can count and for a girl, once you are there, there is no chance for escape because guys don't usually change there opinions once they reject someone. Why is there absolutely nothing for a girl who has been put in the friend zone. It exists for girls just as much as guys, so why do people believe it is not a thing?

[Anonymous]

Well it probably doesn't happen as often to women because of 80/20 for one thing. For another, speaking as a guy who has put quite a few women there, women generally avoid making it blatant. They signal they would like a closer relationship and you just ignore or deflect the signals and they stop. When they don't and you have to spell it out they don't take it well and don't stay around. I suppose it's much more demeaning to a woman to put herself out there and get rejected.

[MaskedSanity]

I've been "friendzoned" by every guy I've ever asked out myself. Some played with my emotions afterwards while others outright told me I was too ugly to be loved.

I accept the fact that attraction has to be mutual instead of throwing myself a pity party like so many guys on here like to do, lmao.

[nileve]

hmmm , in my opinion I dont believe a girl can be friend zone if you offer sex the guy will not reject some may say uugh no but if you ask 3 times they will say oky

guy asks girl for sex she says no it will no , no matter how many times he asks if she does not find him physiclly attractive or is simply grossed out by him

i think and feel that is why there is no songs about women being friend zone because women aren't never truly friend zoned

[KeepcalmandLARPon]

Sex is irrelevant to my opinion, I meant an actual relationship. For one I'm a virgin so my thoughts are very pure when it comes to the friend zone. Hooking up is not always a friend zone make. Also not every guy will agree to sex just because a girl asks for it, some guys have morals

[nileve]

I am saying it from my experience and from other girls experience that i know and others that i heard of
true there is such thing as morals sadly most don't have them and those who do unfortunately ignore them at some point in their lives after all sins is in our nature

is hard for humans in general to do the right thing does not matter the age we see wrong doing from childhood to adulthood

[croxy]

You're actually wrong, of course a guy will say yes if a hot friend wants sex but what does that have to do with relationships.

Relationships isn't the same as sex they are 2 different things. At best it would turn out as a friend with benefits kinda thing. I've been there and a relationship would never come out of it

[nileve]

@croxy no such thing as friends with benefits

its booty call or one friend who is too scare to be honest with their friend

[croxy]

As long as you know what I mean you can call it what you like. The point is it's not gonna end up in a relationship

[nileve]

@croxy if two friends have sex it's no longer a friendship dont you agree
you don't go around having sex with your female friends who have boyfriends or your male friends do you? is sex part of your friendship with friends?

which is why i say girls can not be friend zone men in general and i repeat in general is unwilling to reject sex from a female

[croxy]

Of course it's not a normal thing to go bang all your friends no one does that haha

However there might be this one friend that you end up having sex with without being in a relationship because of the friendship. At least that's what I've experienced

[nileve]

tell me something @croxy be honest if you will... what are your thoughts on female friends you have sex in other words do you find your female friend personality like able

[croxy]

Yeah I actually do, at least in smaller doses. Don't get the wrong idea though it's not like it's a bunch of girls, there has been a few.

[nileve]

@croxy

so DO NOT HAVE SEX with guys !
DO NOT HAVE SEX with female friends who have boyfriends !
DO NOT HAVE SEX with all single female friends !

so would you say sex is part of friendship?

[Rloco]

Well there are many reasons that it mainly is focused on guys. The first being that guys are the ones to ask someone out so they would be friendzoned. Also in most cases guys are more commonly friendzoned in general. No girl has ever revealed their feeling to me, so I haven't friendzoned anyone but I myself have been.

[Bluemax]

Of course women can be in the friend zone. However, I do think it is rarer for it to happen to a woman generally because men do most of the approaching and asking out.

By the way, everyone can get out of the friend zone. Everyone. And here's how...

You walk away. You don't be mean and say bad things. You be polite, you be friendly, and you downgrade the friendship to friendly acquaintance.

Oh, I almost forgot. Insert obligatory remark about how the friend zone doesn't exist. ;)

[aegis_penguin]

Girls do get friend-zoned. Anybody that says they don't is lying.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9U_C_q6WcU

[Luvme66]

I believe it cause I have a friend zoned my friend. I guess the reason why you don't find article for girls is that becz this (frndzone) happens to a very few girls becz most of the time its the guys who approach the girls not the girls doing the same!

[jessicorn]

girls indeed get friend zoned... but i think its actually easier to escape from it then a guy escaping from our friend zone

[Anonymous]

Hm... nah, I'm pretty sure that's a myth like unicorns.

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[StickStickity13]

I guess I've friendzoned a few girls...