Do True Relationships Happen Because of Perfect Timing or Is It Just Fate?

[Lenlexyz]

I've been doing a lot of thinking and reflection of my life and just the universe itself. I don't really believe in any specific religion. However, I do believe that everything happens for a reason. No matter how much planning we do for the next day, week, or month, it's already planned out for us. And several circumstances this semester in college led me to really, truly believe that things do happen for a reason and it can't be just a mere coincidence.

For instance, I met these 2 guys in my science lab. This first guy, let's call him Guy A, was initially in the class, and Guy B was waitlisted for a different lab day but eventually got into my lab day. At first, everything is just casual. We're all classmates getting along until 2 of my friends mentioned that Guy B likes me. But I denied that fact, because I was confused of my own feelings. Then, I wanted to test him by asking for a ride home which that situation failed because one of my friends asked Guy B to ask Guy A to take me home because I couldn't get myself to ask Guy A. But Guy B thought he was supposed to take me home since my friend stupidly gave him the directions to my house. And oddly enough, it turns out we lived on the same street but just on the other side of the cul de sac.

Everything after that situation became a blur because I've just been constantly seeing Guy B randomly. And thoughts of him suddenly occur in my mind out of nowhere and he keeps sending me clues but at this point, I don't know what to do because I think I need to figure out what my feelings are. Everything just seems like it's a coincidence.

The thing is: I know what I want in a relationship, I know myself, but I'm trying to fix myself mentally and improve myself overall. It's just everything about this seems like it has been planned already. I really don't believe in God but I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something. Ever since I've recovered from my depression, I truly believe that I have a purpose in life. That I was meant to do something with it, I just don't know what it is.....What all of this means. The problem that led to my depression was that I felt utterly and completely alone in the world. I wasn't able to trust anyone; however, I've found friends that are helping me open myself to them and to believe in people.

When I'm thinking about relationships, the universe, and life it just makes me feel lost and confused. I'm trying to find the answers to my questions but it's not being answered...at least not yet. I just want to know if there TRUE relationships exist and is it really all about the timing? When it comes to relationships and soulmates, is it a coincidence or is it fate? And if there is anything more to add to this, please do. Enlighten me.

[asceli0n]

Everything has a reason. If you meet a guy and then things lead to break up, there are two possibilities causing that;
Either you are meant to be with someone much better than him or you are not destined to be with someone.
You can keep dating and dating men but at the end, you will see one of these two possibilities. If you think now, there are lots of possibilities but if you think the future, then there are only these two results.
In summary with God or without God (depends on what you believe) you are not here without a purpose. Everyone serves a purpose in their lifes. So the only thing you can do is, knowing that there are two outcomes in this situation you are talking about. If you break up with someone, reason is one of these 2 results at the end.