It's Super Easy to Cheat, Right?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Say your SO won't let you fuck so you masterbate instead.

It is good that you would masterbate instead of cheating just because your So doesn't wanna smash. But that doesn't mean they should be applauded or rewarded for not cheating.

It should be an easy choice and in fact, not a choice at all.

Either you deal with the fact your SO doesn't wanna fuck or you leave. Cause you're not mature enough to handle your SO just because you wanna get your nut busted and they won't do it for you.

If someone is mad, you're not gonna give them a reward for not killing someone.

It should be expected.

Again it is good to just do it yourself instead of cheating, but it isn't something that should be given a gold fuckin star or a cookie. It should be expected. 👌

[MargaritaPeach]

On the other hand... why be with someone and claim that you love them, and then make a commitment to them, only to deny both of you the joy, happiness, strengthened bonds, stress relief, and fun that sex embodies? I have never understood why people deny themselves that, much less their spouses/significant others--who are by all accounts supposed to be their best friends.

Unless of course, you are a teenager or are waiting for marriage or something along those lines. If that's the case, then by all means keep doing what you are doing! It can wait.

[Waffles731]

its masturbate not masterbate

[Waffles731]

Also is there some kind of filter in your avatar cause you look so pale that you nearly look blue

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Auto correct and yea

[Waffles731]

Someone needs to write an autocorrect fail take

[legs_n_sheets]

I don't mean no disrespect, but I do applaud men who don't "cheat" in a relationship. Not to confuse this with polygamy, because it suggest nothing more than multiple sex partners or simply having multiple wives/husbands and that isn't what I mean, but men are biologically conditioned to engage in parallel relationships.

Parallel relationships is something that women generally don't understand, because their biological imperative requires one male to commit to them, unlike men who are driven to "spread their seeds" and reproduce with as many different females. Of course, reason happens and there goes the desire to fight their instinctual male nature, which is why I applaud them. If anything, monogamous relationships are conditioned by women, I believe.

[Spiorad_Aisce]

Yeah I agree - Why should it be given a special status? - "Not Cheating" should be natural state - If you are inclined to cheat, it means you are not ready for a relationship - As you say if you are not mature enough to accept that someone is not ready for sex then leave, simple as.

[dave1558]

not as easy if you are married and have a family to just cut and run and make your kids life worse.. so do you cheat to get your sexual fix and risk getting caught. Or do you just put your sexual urges ahead of your children's well being and just get a divorce?

Its not as clear cut as you made it out to be

[BaileyisDarcy]

Or you could just masturbate and/or get over it.
Your sexual needs are not important especially when there are kids involved.

You have a hand. Use it.

[dave1558]

@BaileyisDarcy its not that simple to go back to just jerking off like when you where 12.
when 1 person still wants sex and the other does not there is no good options left..

[BaileyisDarcy]

If you have a relationship that is more than just sex, then sex should not be the thing that causes the destruction of the relationship

[BaileyisDarcy]

And if the relationship is just sex then you are simply friends with benefits woth a fancy title. If even that.

[dave1558]

@BaileyisDarcy sex is a part of any adult relationship.
Think of anything else you love about your boyfriend and what you share.. like maybe you love having in depth conversations with him.. and then one day he just stops talking to you all together. he will say hi and by and that is about it.. otherwise he completely ignores you..
so is you just talking to yourself in the mirror the solution?

[BaileyisDarcy]

That is completely different. You can have a relationship without sex. But you can't have a relationship where you dont talk.

[dave1558]

@BaileyisDarcy without sex its just friendship..

[0112358]

@BaileyisDarcy sex problems are one of the two biggest reasons marriages fail, and it's not because the people involved don't know how to masturbate. It's because being fundamentally rejected by your partner takes a brutal toll on the emotional side.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I agree, cheating doesn't have an opposing good, as faithfulness is an expectation and there is no middle ground. I do think, though, that you do get a reward: a satisfying, meaningful relationship. It may not be the sexual gratification you want at first, but it is a reward that is more impactful and meaningful in your life.

[AdamThomas]

Who rewards people for not cheating? Never heard of it. I never expected a reward but I'd love a "gold fuckin star" or a cookie, or both.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Lots of people get applauded online for not cheating apparently. I've been seeing a lot of it

[selmo93]

I really don't get what this has to do with cheating

[YummyLady]

Agree. Did your boyfriend cheat on ya or did you not have sex yet?

[Scrambledagain]

Well for women it's easy, not so much for men. But that said, it takes just one act of cheating to mess up a long term relationship.

[Titanic1912]

It is very easy but I can't do it because it's deceiving and it's wrong in the eyes of my God and my King!

[alice55]

Depend on the person. I can't lie excpecially to the people I like

[Ydude]

this doesn't sound like a healthy basis for a relationship tbh.

[Skeye89]

Sounds like your venting

[Alex88F]

especially if you're a girl, yes