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Why I, And a Lot of Men, Will Probably Never Get a Girlfriend (Page 4)
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Haha just wait until you get your first girlfriend =P
It's not that great... trust me. If you hold hands it means you're not a man. If you don't hold hands it means you don't love her. If you orgasm too quick you're insensitive to others. If it takes you too long you don't love her... I could go on. There's literally no winning. I have given up on happy relationships and am about to leave my current girlfriend in favour of the single life.
Thanks For sharing
I appreciate your point of view, I really have no hate for what you've decided to address. However here are a few facts you'll need to know:
- You're still way too young to be drawing conclusions on women
- Sure they are somewhat complicated and some could tick somethings in your list
- But keep trying and allow yourself to grow a mature understanding of things, don't try everyone though
- Take it easy on yourself, work on your self confidence and accept who you are - it will allow the right people to find interest in the person you are.
Enjoy Relationships
*TRIGGERED*
I'm just here to say, that the reason I couldn't get a girlfriend is because I'm not rich or a super strong and muscular hulk but rather a top student "geek" with actual life goals. But that's just here, where I am. I know, that not all women are like that.
But I am not mad at all. I am happy with myself and with my singlehood but at times, it can get lonely.
Good man. Work on yourself and everything will be ok. Stay humble
Aye, aye!
Besides, I do not want these kinds of women anyway, who ignored me because of given reasons ;) And I think nobody decent should have them as well. It's kind of like a natural filter in the dating world.
Keep in mind that relationships and women do not guarantee happiness or that it would even last forever at all in the first place as over time people can and will change and that can't be stopped or controlled. During the early phases, such as the chase and honeymoon phases yes, both parties may feel they are in complete bliss and fully content with each other.
It's still delusions and illusions from the hormones within us to try and prevent us from completely dying out. Although I would think it won't really make a real difference since if as long as all of us can and will die then eventually everyone and everything that ever lived will die and ultimately die out. Sure we're more advanced technologically and determined blah blah, but we're still very mortal and temporary. Worst off, we will ALWAYS fight among ourselves and kill and destroy each other and poor innocent helpless animals just so the human population would not "starve", and fucked up and compromised our ecosystem.
@JudgmentDay I never forget this! I do know, that relationships and women and hormones and even plenty of hot and sexy sex aren't going to be filling the void in life. We can only bring happiness in it.
What I do know is, that I have to stand on my own ground if I seek happiness for myself. And that includes the no-marriage and no-kids lifestyle, which eliminates 95% of the female population for sure. So I do not get my hopes up in the first place. I live life and I keep living. And I keep observing those around me. And I keep reading horrific marital stories about husbands and wives cheating, beating, gold digging and abusing, and highly likely with a potential child involved to observe all this.
I am smart enough to not fall into that trap.
But still after all, nothing we do matters, aside from our own survival, our own happiness and our own well being.
Pretty much, eventually we'll all be fucking dead anyway. No one and nothing can change that and eventually we'll all be fucking forgotten as well. We're so fucking temporary, fragile and vulnerable, and limited.
@JudgmentDay That's why we better make the most of it. We only got this one life and this limited time of ours. Time goes on non-stop and it's not going to hold on for anybody.
Either make it worth it or you don't. No buts here.
You only live once and you also only die once. What is between it is the content within our limited decisions.
One thing you can bank your soul on is that 3 will endure... nothing else matters to them. Cunts like them are the reason that "fuckboys" thrive, the men know that they will always have women throwing themselves at them... and if a feminazi whore picks a guy for his looks, then she deserves whatever happens to her.
They'll lie and try to claim that men are the picky ones but just look around any wal-mart and see the obese, ugly women who seem to have found and bred with men, while an average guy is beneath most whores' standards.
Dude who cares. People are dying from cancer and you want to complain because a women won't let toys tick your penis in her lol. Get over it.
You're really going to bring a terrible and irrelevant situation into something that is completely different from that?
Whenever I feel sad I always think you know what, life is temporary. We have 85 years to do what we want and then we die. So eat what you want to eat, work at whatever job you want to work at, visit the countries you want to visit, fuck the girls you want to fuck or at least try to anyways lol.
Not gunna lie, some girls are like that. But some. It bothers me also, which is why I have a hard time making friends that are girls. But I have met quite a few girls who are not like this. You are still young, it'll just take a few years for the girls to mature. & try to look for the unexpected ones
Yeah WOMEN ARE THE FUCKING WORLD’s SOURCE OF EVILNESS
EEEVIL WAHMEN!!! YOU ALL SHALL BE BANISHED BACK INTO THE OBLIVION WHERE YOU ALL WARPED FROM /s
(ironically it's women, who warp new humans in through their wombs)
https://youtu.be/VhnkG1PvuWE
@Unit1 Ok white knight
I wrote this over three years ago. My views have changed
I have no clue as to why this post got featured
Relax man! I am just teasing. Did you miss the sarcasm?
@ mytake author on the bright side you do not post scheiße like this To the men women over the guys they friendzoned I f**cking hate you all. You're all POS's? ↗
@Unit1 i didn’t know who the sarcasm was meant for
Girls had feelings about boys expectations
"Women call anyone who approaches them and tries to meet them a "creep""
No. They call creeps, creeps. And there is no shortage of creepy guys doing creepy things, who then wonder how it is that all the girls they run into, think of them as creeps.
ITS BECAUSE YOU KEEP DOING CREEPY SHIT, YOU CREEP!
If people do creepy shit, then it's creepy. But if you aren't doing anything and get called a creep don't you think that that's wrong? Majority of women do that.
No they don't.
Ergo, you're doing creepy shit and like most creeps, seem utterly unaware of what you're doing.
So women are the cause of all your problems? Okay then. Got it.
The majority are. And most men too
no, but women tend to have unreasonable expectations in a relationship in my experience... ie to always be right, to never apologize, to take but not give, etc...
Yes, seems perfectly reasonable and accurate to me.
Just don't give them power to let all this bother you. Girls like this are insanely insecure. Calling you a creep makes them feel better about themselves. Deep down they probably feel like crap. Don't worry about their preferences. Don't try and be some girls knight in shining armor. don't be real nice to them or agree with what they say. Be a challenge and look out for yourself.
Amen!
I know a lot of people have answered this already, but man you got to just keep trying. My current boyfriend, got rejected time and time again. He signed up to multiple dating websites, and eventually found me.
I'm very picky in relationships, but to me he is absolutely perfect. Other girls weren't into him, but we were perfect for each other. You gotta keep trying because I'm sure there is someone out there for you.
So he's perfect but you rejected him multiple times.
Any man of worth won't ask twice
@WhoDatGuy He got rejected by other women (not me) multiple times (and if they rejected him he would move on). Sorry if I didn't make that clear.
Good take.
At my age it's pointless to go out looking for a girlfriend in my country. I'd be laughed to scorn everywhere I went, or viewed as a sad creep.
If you're 40 +, guess it's best to get used to the idea of spending the rest of your life alone.
Don't give up. Met my current girlfriend when I was 40, after a few years of not meeting anyone great.
I think you're really falling down on points 1 and 2. On 1, not ALL girls play games. And even with many who do, the impact is less in the games they're playing than in your reaction to them. Just be non-reactive and go about your business and you're 95% the way there. On point 2, only creepy guys doing creepy approaches are labelled as creepy. If you're having this problem, it's you--not her. This is an important one to fix.
Solve those and the rest will fall in place.
You’re a kid. You have time and a lot left to learn. You must take some responsibility but I can tell you are at least a decade away from doing that.
Oh yes but the woman gets to have no responsibility then. Typical privileg female.
I didn’t say that.
Lol the only thing that made sense was women play games. Yeah its retarded. Just screw those girls and dump them, or use them to puff up your facebook likes or whatever. They aren't worth shit so dont worry about even being nice to them. If ANYONE man or woman doesn't respect you then you have zero responsibility to them.
The rest is just you whining. Go shoot guns and buy a motorcycle and hit the gym and stop being a pussy. If you were a girl would you date you? Be honest.
It takes years to build the optimal body that women adore. Go shoot guns? Buy a motorcycle? Do you hear yourself or are you one of those “bro, just do this bro. It’s all good bro” dudes.
Anyway, this post was created three years ago. My views have changed
Wtf crack are you smoking? You dont need 3 years to have the optimal body to get a girl. Smh. 1. Body will not keep you from getting a girlfriend unless you literally can't get out of your bed. 2. Not all women like super ripped muscle dudes. 3. From where most guys are starting out at you can get an athletic body in 1 year or less. I was 20 lbs over weight like 5 months ago and now today i sent a girl a 6 pack pic. Sure its not super chisled like muscle mag but it looks great to women. And 4. Most girls dont like that shit. I had plenty girls get with me over muscled dude because they were lame asf. So 5. All goes back to dont be a pussy.
I already have an athletic body. I’ve been training for four years. What I mean is that I don’t look like David Laid and my muscles aren’t visible unless I wear a size small (and sometimes a size medium) shirt. My head looks disproportionate to my body size, which means that I have to work hard on growing my body to proportionally match my head shape. I’ve done the research. I’ve been trying to attract attractive women for four years now
you're an idiot. Why do you need to look like david laid to get a girl? Do you have no personality and no confidence? Id suspect that would be why. Guess if you have nothing else to offer then you need to hit the gym. Personally i have a lot to offer and i could get girls to choose me over you even with a big flabby belly when i was overweight. PS. I had the hottest girlfriend in hs everyone wanted and i was super out of shape back then
“PS. I had the hottest girlfriend in hs everyone wanted and i was super out of shape back then“ Someone peaked in high school lol.
Do you not realize that girls care about your looks then your personality? Dating is a giant competition.
You obviously aren't hot enough to be so superficial. Sucks to be you. Or you could try being a normal person, might work better for you.
I can try to be “hot enough” to be superficial. Settling for a normal girl isn’t in my agenda
You dont like hot girls with normal personalities? You like hot girls with superficial personalities? How strange.
Didn’t say that. I said I don’t like average girls with normal personalities. I only date hot girls. I actually prefer if the hot girl had a normal personality, but I guess beggars can’t be choosers.
#3, Women ARE picky! Here is a short video is a great example.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kSq4RPWfrz8"Lets just blame women" - more than half of the guys on this site
"Men are the problem with society" -the other half of this site.
Did I say that was right either? This is why Im glad the men, or should I say boys, on here dont represent the actual population.
It's the harsh truth. A lot of men, like myself, go through this. Only men who don't have a problem don't go through this. These men are usually handsome or rich. Or both.
I haven't heard any of my guy friends have this problem
Well then they must be the minoritu
Minority*
Or they just live in reality
Reality are the things listed. They must be the type to automatically attract women
not really, all my friends are nerdy
Your definition of nerdy is everyone's definition of a bad ass then
Yeah no...
MyTake Owner, you are not a man. You are under 18.
@astrOnaut01 I'm 17. So yes I'm a boy. But other people I've talk to were men
Obviously a guy who can't get a girlfriend isn't going to be your friend.
I'm too awful at socializing to make any female friends.
Yep, unfortunately, you are right, I'm in my late 30's, and never had a girlfriend... your points are understandable.
PS, I know women use that phrase: "But all guys want is blondes with big boobs and a big ass" - Girls, that's not true, first of all, I never liked big asses or boobs, and the right girl doesn't necessarily have to be blonde.
Ikr! I hate it when girls use that phrase! Thanks for understanding!
You are very welcome pal.
Sadly most women want the bad guy persona. If you aren't the bad guy then for the most part you won't fit their needs. Women love mind games they expect men to know what they need.
The silly feminist doesn't want a man so you will never meet the need.
Yes a lot of women look down on us nice guys. But keep trying at least you keep trying and dont quit.
There is a woman for you.
Just can't let then destroy you.
You're making a wise decision not to. No matter how the girl is good girl or bad girl, all girls have the potential to change and go against you. And that's a huge risk to all guys because the laws, the system, the courts, the preferential treatment, are all against men.