5 Good Questions To Ask Your SO

[Library]

I dare each of you to ask your SO these questions. These questions will prove if you're compatible with your partner in some aspects, and if your partner would love you unconditionally in some cases. I know I'm a celibate giving you this advice but who cares.

"How long can you go without sex?"

This can let you know how long is too long. You may not want to be separated (on vacation) from them longer than what they can withstand.

"Would you still love me if I was bisexual?"

Bisexuality is not something a person can choose to be. Just imagine being born bisexual and your partner won't love you because of that. If you are bisexual, you should let your partner know at some point. Your partner should accept you for the way you are. Even if you aren't bisexual, asking this question could also help you figure out if your partner is a hypocrite because they might have bisexual tendencies but might not like it if their partner has them. For example, I watched this girl kiss another girl at a party and then I stopped talking to her when she said she wouldn't go out with a bisexual guy. I ignore her so hard till now. I don't know about you but I hate hypocrites so much. If you guys are on the same boat, then great. Whatever floats your boat.

"Why do you like most about my personality?"

This can remind you to keep and not change all your good qualities that your partner likes about you. If you don't like what your partner likes about you and you want to change it then you might want to let your partner know that you want to change it and why you want to change it. If you guys are not compatible on a personal level, then it's not meant to be.

"What do you like most about my looks?"

This is just an interesting question to ask. Why is your partner attracted to you? What do they like specifically about your looks? Is it the makeup? Is it the way you pluck your eyebrows? Or whatever?

"How many kids would you like to have?"

The future is important. The number of kids is important because it will require money and time spent to raise them up. It's not wise to waste your time with a person who wants kids if you don't want kids or vice versa. Or you could just try to change their mind or talk to them about it. Whatever floats your boat.

[YourFutureEx]

In case if my future SO is reading my post ---

"How long can you go without sex?"
If we're married, then I can wait lifelong. But if we are dating, then 6 months maybe? The reason behind this is to confirm that you aren't golddigger.

"Would you still love me if I was bisexual?"
Yeah sure. *secretly thinks about fmf*

"Why do you like most about my personality?"
Dunno who you are.

"What do you like most about my looks?"
Dunno how you look.

"How many kids would you like to have?"
One. King is only one.

[Smmyskittles]

You're not my S. O., but i'll answer these for you. :*

1. Longest was 8 months I think. Now? Around 3-6 months before I become Godzilla and reek havoc. hehe.

2. You already know the answer to that. <3 <3 <3

3. Your empathy towards others

4. Your hair color ;)

5. I'd like at least 2.

[ThisDudeHere]

Most of these just come off as shit-tests.

So what if I say that I can go without sex for a period of time shorter than she'd like? What then? That should be established early in the relationship. Not way in to it.

A partner being bi should also be revealed from the get go. There are people who don't want to date bi or trans people (or anything in that non-hetero area).

Ok, I may admit that the previous two could be valid questions if asked under the right circumstances, but the "what do you think about my looks" is nothing but a shit test. I mean... provided a partner compliments you frequently, why even ask this? You already know that the answer will be yes anyway.

The last one is the most reasonable question to ask and not a shit test.

[CisScum]

Everybody should ask this to their SO:

"If I killed someone, would you help me hide the body?"

If he or she says yes then they're a keeper

[Bvroon]

These are good questions, I should like to think that more people would actually ask and think about these sorts of questions.

[Kiran04]

#2 is just a dumb question. People are allowed to think whatever they like about bisexuals, and they're allowed to feel different about dating bisexuals than they are about dating straight people. Dumb question is dumb.

[Library]

It's just a question. I didn't say they're not allowed to think whatever they want and there is nothing dumb about the question.. It's dumb to think it's dumb.

[Blitzkrieger]

"How long can you go without sex?"

If they ask me this i just say half of the truth so i am never left without sex.

[Melissa4]

Definitely good questions. 👍

[Saoirse_Nua]

Definitely good conversation starters

[Adigelunar]

thanks for sharing

[MissSakura]

good ones