If They Cheat on You, it's Basically Your Fault (Page 2)

[NJ_Casanova]

True it's your fault for having such SHITTY taste in partners.

Cowards and POS people that don't have the balls to leave their SO's cheat. Cheaters are as low as people that steal from family/friends... they only care about themselves and not the people they "so called " loved.

[nevermoregirl7]

Somewhat agree with you. I think if your girl is dressed amazing and gets compliments, you should be proud, because in the end, how she is presented is a reflection on you. And believe it or not, most guys like their girl dressed up like that. Also, keep in mind she was trying to fit in with the kardashians, hence that ugly mesh thing she is wearing.

[lord_chilled]

nah i can assure you, most guys dont

[nevermoregirl7]

@lord_chilled Most guys don't what?

[lord_chilled]

Dont wanna see their girl dressed up

[lord_chilled]

Dressed up, as in classy is well. But in am eye candy way, nope, we dont want that

[browning1996]

Rob and Chyna are not good examples. Everybody knew that she dated and had a child with him, with vengeance in mind to get back at his sister, and baby daddy who were in a relationship at the time, and the whole family to be precise. It was an opportunity at revenge for her, and we all knew this from day one so I don't understand the shock when people are finding out more about what she was really up to during the relationship

[frozenhorizon]

I disagree, "normal" looking people who aren't obvious "sluts" also cheat.

[Warmapplecrumble]

I totally agree with you

[frozenhorizon]

@Warmapplecrumble Yeah. I don't know for sure but I doubt there's a correlation between dressing like the photos and being more likely to cheat.

[frozenhorizon]

There may be other correlations that hold true, like being more likely to party or enjoy certain types of activities. But I've heard of plenty of people who cheating who look nothing like this.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Exactly.

I feel like the reserved ones cheat more. The women like these people sure flirt with. No one really bothers to have sex with them. Lol.

[Xx_DeeDee_xX]

Wow! This was very interesting to read and I agree with everything you've said.

[HikerDude]

No, it's not your fault at all. The times I've cheated have been my doing alone. Blame it on the set of balls between my legs, which are what drive me to lift weights 12 hours a week and risk humiliation and physical harm to get a shot at sex with a hot girl.

[Sluthater]

Totally agree. If you see the warning signs and you choose to ignore it I don't feel sorry for you. I wouldn't date women who went to clubs, women who were promiscuous, women with bad credit, or high maintenance women. Call it risk management.

[Heartonmysleeve88]

You took the words right out of my mouth. Risk management. Genius.

[Transigence]

Nobody can tell you how you have to feel, but not feeling sympathy for someone's unwise choice isn't quite the same as actually blaming him for her bad behavior.

So I would say, "Yeah, you should have known she was a thot, but it was still her fault and she's a complete bitch. What're you drinkin?"

[Sluthater]

@Transigence. Everyone has made an unwise choice. Just don't make it a pattern. Girl goes out drinking. Gets drunk. Wake up with someone. On the way home she decides she is never getting that drunk again. She doesn't and that never happens again-no big deal. When its a repeat thing, then its a big deal. Most of us have made an unwise decision in our dating lives. But our dating lives were not comprised of primarily bad decisions. Having an affair with a married man? Sorry, that was not an accident. Stay away from me. You running up a mountain of credit card dept on clothes and vacations and not paying on it? Stay away from me.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Personally, I've seen a lot of good dudes get stabbed in the back by plainly average looking girls.

This rant about guys whining over "thots" seems more due to your own insecurities than any actual logic.

[BlackMaleYou]

Dude, listen to wisdom when u hear it. She is not saying all women dressing decently are faithful. of course there are but at least they hid their devious nature from you by putting on decent cloths on so the signs of attention seeking inst there. at least the guys are unaware and its not their fault cos the signs were never clear. Now who cares about what he or she wears does it for himself or herself but for the public. People will tell you otherwise but thats a fuckin lie (one is already guilty when one asks, "how do I look"). Bottom line is just dont choose a woman because of her looks or extrinsic personality but intrinsic personality like empathy, Kindness, self control, rational thinker, average impulsive sensation seeking/rational risk taker.

[Unorthodox91]

it's not your fault if she cheats once, also it's not your fault if she cheats and you don't catch her... but if she cheats and you catch her, then she cheats again, it's most certainly your fault!

"fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me"

[lacorine197]

Damn this was too long to read, but I'm going to say if this says, "I did everything in my power to show her she's important to me and she still goes out and cheat on me it's my fault" That's what I assumed it would say, if it didn't, well I'm not sure what exactly to say lol.

[lacorine197]

That's what I assumed it would say and I disagree with it being my fault that she cheated.

[Blitzkrieger]

Celebrity relationships are not good examples for the average relationship, therefore i disagree with this.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

You know the best way to tell if someone is a cheater/ho/disloyal/whatever term you want to use?

If they have a vagina.

[RedVulcan]

A dick can be a fairly good indicator as well.
Gotta look for them gender unknowns for loyalty then.

[JimRSmith]

You're getting a recommend from me, not only for an excellent take, but also for the "slums of India" comment.

Fits her like a snug glove.

[askaway2012new]

" EVEN if Jesus Christ himself came down and possessed this type of woman, she will always cheat on you and jump on d*** to d*** like a flea on a dog".
GREAT MYTAKE.

[DonkeyRick69]

You lay with a dog you will get fleas

[serious]

What does your comment mean?

[raspberry0416]

It sounds like you think these women are a threat because they are sexier and get more attention.
Honestly who cares. Stupid people will make stupid choices. Just worry about your own shit.

[Warmapplecrumble]

What's wrong with dressing like a hooker and being slutty? :-I

[Heartonmysleeve88]

I will not dignify that with a straight answer.

[Warmapplecrumble]

But why... I don't see anything wrong with dressing like a hooker or flirting.

[Heartonmysleeve88]

Let's seeeeeee
- will lead you to make stupid decisions
-will make you become a person that you're not
-grievous bodily harm
- risk of pregnancy
-though you are NOT asking for it, you cannot stop the myriad of pigs leering at you
-being called a hooker is the worst insult ever.
-people will make the worst judgments of you
- run the risk of low self esteem

[Warmapplecrumble]

Personally I think people should just wear clothes if it's necessary weather wise. Clothes make people look way more sexual than they really are and make us have low self esteem because we think everyone is perfect - but they just hide the bad things.

I don't understand why being a hooker is a bad term... nor why you'd be pretending to be someone else, nor the stupid decisions nor self harm.

Clothes are just something to cover with because society thinks the human body is too sexual or something like that. When truth is the clothes make a person appear more beautiful then they are.

Pregnancy could happen if the guys rape.. and rape should be not allowed, regardless of her clothes.

[HereComesDrTran111]

Straight up I love sluts. They're the only ones who will bare their slutty soul to you in bed. But they're never yours, it's just your turn.

[MargaritaPeach]

Hilarious... if they want to cheat, let them cheat. They can stay with whomever they chose to hop into bed with. Their loss.

[HereComesDrTran111]

Nuh-uh. You're not getting out of this one.

We chose the good girls first. They were always first.

They turned Us down for scumbags and gangsters.

[LittleSally]

What exactly world do YOU live in?

Where many women don't grow up and are slutty by default?

[Heartonmysleeve88]

I never said that.

[LittleSally]

That's how some of these reads...