Life Sucks to Be a Short and Skinny Guy!😓

[guyuser2]

The only nice things that men have is their powerful tall and well built body. They do lack beauty and aesthetic appeal which is blessed to women exclusive.

But what if a man lacks that only thngtrhat his gender has...tall well built body!!

It sucks... obviously!

Being smaller and skinnier and obviously seemingly less power full than all men and majority of women sucks!!!!

All men and women towering over you....😒🙄

Women seemingly having more well built power packed body than a guy...man's guy is bound to feel emasculated and worthless....and ends up being lonely, single , frustrated, irritated, bitter and unsocial.

[utkarshpriy20]

Dude !
It's not like this !
May be there are some conservative, shallow and judgmental assholes !
But it's not the way you are showing it to be.
I am 5'3''. I am skinny !!
I am exactly like this.
By this logic I should have done suicide 10 times by now.
Develop some hobby.
Discover within your personality what you can do better than most of them and then do it.
There is no need to get this much paranoid.
A little something to cheer you up.
When all your tall mates are going to be 50 and going to look old and wrinkly , you're gonna looks like you are still in your early 20s because of your short stature (ofcourse you are gonna have to work a little bit towards it, good nutrition and consistent light exercise).
:D :p

[guyuser2]

How do you feel around women?
How do women behave with you?
Have you ever dated?

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[utkarshpriy20]

@StayInYourLane You have an emotional range of a peanut that does not mean other people also think stupidly like you.
That's called a grownup's point of view !
Which you clearly are not becz it seems that you are in support of the argument that physical attributes play a huge role in a persons performance in life.
so @StayInYourLane stay the fuck in your fucking lane !

[cherryphi82]

My ex was short and skinny. He was the bomb.

[guyuser2]

How short was he?🤔

[wolfcat87]

Men can certainly have beauty.

Something that I have noticed is that some short men do have a hang up on their height. A very quick way to end that if for them to date a tall, gorgeous woman.

I dated a guy who was short and wished to be tall. After dating me, all of the ladies flocked to him. Why? He finally realized that his height meant nothing. Realizing that it meant nothing gave him confidence. Confidence in who he was made women more attracted to him! It was never the height. It was psyching himself out about the height.

I dated another short guy who loved to pick me up and carry me across his shoulders. It never occurred to him to worry about my height, so it never occurred to me to worry about the height difference either. He is very likely the reason why I have never cared about a man's height. He was one of the most wonderful men I have ever had in my life!

Another ex never once mentioned our heights. It meant nothing to him, and it meant nothing to me.

Height is what you make of it. If you make a big deal about it, then other people will too. If you are uncomfortable about it, you will make other people uncomfortable about it. If you are happy in who you are and accept that you have way more to offer than height, other people will see that too!

Not to mention, my short exes have all been far more physically fit than me. If they were not, I bet we'd turn it into a competition and have fun with it.

[guyuser2]

You seriously feel shortness is absolutely NOTHING bad in a man! It absolutely doesn't hamper his ability to attract women?
The short man who you said attracted lot of women later... how tall was he and how tall were the women who flocked to him?

[wolfcat87]

I didn't really pay attention to the height of the women he attracted. Should their height have been important? He was 5'6" though. I think height only hinders what you let it hinder.

[guyuser2]

Nah.. I just wanted to know wether those girls were taller than him or just smaller!🤔

[MikkiM]

My brother is 5'4, 4 inch taller than me, but he acts like the most great guy i know, he is sporty guy and so good at basketball, he even become an mvp out of all the tall guys out there.

The thing is not the height, its about the guy being manly enough to handle his self, attraction dont go that way,

My brother now married and got a child, she married a girl at 5'2

You can find a girl that would suit you. Most small girls are in asia, depends on your preference,. But its great to be in a relationship with a girl smaller than you cause you will still feel that power and it would be a perfect match

[guyuser2]

You are 5 feet 0?
So that's fine. Are most girls taller than your brother who is just 5 ft 4?
Because I feel 5 ft 4 is a feminine height...😂

[guyuser2]

Nad yeah mostly Asian girls are slightly smaller than other girls in the world, but still they want tall men 😂 and most importantly they want less hairy / smooth men 😒

[MikkiM]

No, in philipines, there are lots of small girls, so his height is fine here. My moms side is small, and the 2 of us got the height, my other 2 siblings are tall.

We are just unlucky to be small but we are competitive 😋

[guyuser2]

2 other sisters are tall? What's their height?

[kaylaS91]

.. anyone's life could suck if they choose to have an attitude as negative as yours.
Hell, I'm taller than average but have decided that, instead of deciding that everything/everyone is against me before even giving them a chance, I'll embrace my height as it's not like it can be changed any way.

You've obviously chosen to blame all of your problems on your height but please do realize that the only one to blame in your 'shortcomings' is yourself. Not because of your height, but because of your obvious cowardice.

[guyuser2]

You are a tall person. So, how does being tall be an issue. Being tall is nice and better. Why would it suck to be tall anyway!
It's like saying my life sucks because I am too beautiful / too strong.. etc etc.
Yeah, if you said you are short / skinny/fat and hence it sucks , then I would have understood.
Being tall is GREAT. The taller the better!!
And am sure you do have certain criteria about men now especially if you are talking about dating a man.
And am sure most men who especially are smaller than you might be intimidated by you.

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[MarieWeisman]

OMG, what did you do during your young days, skipping afternoon sleep, sleeping very late at night, hare milk, eat a lot of junk foods? Still, why women do have a boyfriend who is shorter? Maybe that guy has strong appeal, not boring person I mean very humorous. whatever it is he EARNED it

[guyuser2]

I masturbated a lot during my young days.. maybe that's why I am short...
What's your height?

[MarieWeisman]

I heard a lot of stories that if you masturbate often you grow taller but you will get skinny, I am 5'3 by the way

[guyuser2]

Can you feel attracted to a man who is short?

[themetalhead]

look I can tell that from all the questions and stuff you've invited me to, that you may feel less confident about the way you physically are. how we all are can't be controlled 100%, so it is better to rock it than to just feel bad about it. I'm 5ft2in and only 85 pounds. I've been called anorexic before and have been laughed at for having a flatter chest. but what can I do? whenever I gain weight its still under 90 because I have such high metabolism.

i once hated the way i was. but i realized that there's no other way to completely control it all. everyone has some sort of beauty within them. for guys, some women even go more for personality than looks. i realized that what i had to do was accept myself for who i am. and its made me much happier.

so accept yourself for who you are too, because self love is the best thing to gain before someone else's love first.

[guyuser2]

It's okay for a girl to be short and skinny...
Bu not ok for a man

[themetalhead]

its fine for a guy too. its not all about the women.

[guyuser2]

Tell me how do you think about a man who is 5'2?

[themetalhead]

I'd be all good with him, he'd be exactly my height.

[guyuser2]

Exactly your height and always smaller than EVERY man and majority of women... heck he would be smaller than your Female friends... would it be a bit embarrassing for YOU?

[themetalhead]

sheesh most of my friends are short like me. my closest is even shorter. it wouldn't embarrass me because I'm simply not that person who cares so much what friends think about a guy I'm with.

[themetalhead]

or really care about what anyone else thinks.

[guyuser2]

Maybe you all are still young girls who would grow taller with age...

[themetalhead]

eh I don't know.. I mean I stopped growing like a year ago, its pretty rare for us to still keep on when right around the age of 18. I mean some do, but not all.

[guyuser2]

by the way how tall are your classmates and sisters?

[themetalhead]

I'm an only child really. as for the classmates its more various, but there are still even guys around who are pretty much around my height.

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[OmaeWaMouShindeiru]

Life sucks only as much as you want it to. Yes people will notice and make jokes. That's life. You either own it or you don't. I've found some short and skinny men attractive because it does not define them... their personality and humor does! Also there's a difference between skinny depending if it looks healthy or unhealthy. Being skinny and a little toned can go a long way (think of skinny surfer boys, heck yeah!).

Think insecure, then you talk and act insecure. Now THAT is what turns off a girl.

[guyuser2]

How tall are you?
What's your opinion and views about small men in the range of 5'1 to 5'8?

[OmaeWaMouShindeiru]

I'm a short girl, but I have friends who have either dated or are dating men shorter than them as we speak.

as for short men 5'1 to 5'8, it seriously depends on what they look like and how they act. I went to a party recently and there was a guy only slightly taller than me. Looked cute though so I was attracted. Then he feared himself being emasculated when compared with bigger men and focused on his insecurity. Wasn't attracted anymore.

[guyuser2]

Same here.
I feel emasculated around women and men. Every woman and man is taller than me anyway. I feel hellish insecure. Hampers social life and fun.

What did he do to show his Insecurity?
by the way how tall are you?

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[Plumy]

I can understand a little because my height is shorter than my friends, it makes me look like younger and that is a little meh for me because serious guys consider me childish, while flirty guys or guys younger than me try to get my attention...
I don't know how it is really for short men but at least you don't get unwanted attention?
I think even with too much unwanted attention or no attention, you can be lucky and find your love ❤

I was lucky 💕

[guyuser2]

How tall are you?

[Plumy]

Like ~150cm

[guyuser2]

Me too!
How tall do you want men?
And how tall are girls?

[Plumy]

My friends are taller than me, girls or guys, just taller, my boyfriend is quite taller than me and it's okay for me

[guyuser2]

Do girls ever make fun?

[Plumy]

Yes so many times

[guyuser2]

WTH
Mean girls.
What did they say to poke?

[Plumy]

Some stranger girls are mean yep but mostly it's my friends just teasing me, they know I'd really really like to grow taller but they tell me to stay little it's cute or they say I'm "mini size", pat my head and be annoying a little like that but I can't hate them >w<

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[Plumy]

@StayInYourLane uh why that?

[Plumy]

I was invited...

[guyuser2]

What happened

[wandergurl]

You're being too negative.
I had an ex boyfriend who was shorter than me but cheated on me more than once. Women found him appealing.

I think it's in the way you carry yourself. Embrace your height. Be confident, and positive and women will start to notice you.

[guyuser2]

What's your height and what was his height?
Was he shorter than the girls who liked him?

[StayInYourLane]

It's actually a girl in a guy's account.

[Bellice]

There's someone out there for everyone. This could be flipped around to girls who feel they are far too tall and feel lumbering and awkward next to guys shorter than her. I definitely feel like that sometimes and my last two boyfriends were shorter than me! I still loved them very much and they loved me. Let's all not be so critical of each other and just see people for who they really are, not their height! :)

[guyuser2]

How tall are you and your preference in men?

[Bellice]

I am 5'8" and have recently seen a few guys who were 6' which was very nice! I prefer taller but love is love and height won't stop that.

[guyuser2]

You find men shorter than you around 5'1 appealing as well?

[Bellice]

Honestly I don't find it appealing. But if I fell in love with a person shorter than me then there's no stopping that.

[guyuser2]

And you won't ever be able to develop nice feelings for a man shorter than you...

[Bellice]

Okay whatever you say.

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[Blossom5]

I'm also short for a girl but I learnt to embrace it. The moment you let it get to you, it will really show in the way you carry yourself... that you are not comfortable with yourself and not confident. That will destroy any potential charm you might have. You will be doing so much harm to yourself in that case

[guyuser2]

Being short ist bad for a woman anyway.
by the way how tall are you?

[Blossom5]

It IS bad. When you see all these tall models and actresses. I used to be called a midget in my school, but now I try to look at the bright side, short people usually look younger

[Blossom5]

I'm like 4'9"

[guyuser2]

OMG, you as bad as me.
Well then it's bit bad...
If you were 5'1 woman then it won't be as bad as you feel it.
How tall are women around?

[Blossom5]

Yeah, I'm short for a girl and choosing clothings for myself can be tricky since most of them are designed for taller girls, but I learnt love myself.
Women around me are at least 5'3"
How tall are you btw?

[guyuser2]

How do you weigh?
Do you feel insecure around taller women?
Well I am 5'1

[Blossom5]

Oh there was a guy in my class whom I think was your height since I remember him being just slightly taller than me, but that didn't seem to bother him. He was really smart, cool and outgoing, and I think that is why he was always surrounded by girls

I used to feel insecure about it when I was in school but then I learnt to love it because it that made me look younger than taller girls.

[guyuser2]

This small guy was confident! He was even surrounded by girls who were really taller than him?

[Blossom5]

Yeah some of them are taller than him but he was mostly surrounded by girls around his height. There's more to a man than just his height

[guyuser2]

Ohhh
Only small girls seem interested in him and surrounded him

[Blossom5]

Yes most of them were around his height but some were taller. Lol what's wrong with small girls?😅😅😅
Maybe he likes smaller girls too!

[guyuser2]

Nothing wrong.
Small men are bad... in fact

[Blossom5]

No they can be really awesome when they try to compensate with things that really matter

[guyuser2]

But insecurities mask everything about short men

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[Personontheinternet]

Dealt with a dude that was shorter than me and I thought they were nice. But what's the point of complaining about something if you can't change it? Try doing something else that'll take away from your height. Like your personality, or maybe the way you dress. Or you could not let it bother you at all and just enjoy life. Female on the taller end here, 5'7. But I'm getting close to 5'8.

[guyuser2]

Am envious.
How small was this dude?

[Personontheinternet]

Like 5'5 or 5'4 but he was a sweetie

[guyuser2]

Was he insecure?
Did you feel superior?

[Personontheinternet]

nope and I don't know I didn't ask him at the time

[guyuser2]

Are you still open to dating small man around 5'3?

[Natalia_Atxa]

I understand you... A lot of women will say something like: "oh, he's cute, but he is too short, it's a pity." However, I have felt attracted to short guys, I didn't care a lot about it. The most important thing in a guy, as I see it, it's his face. But of course body, muscles etc helps a lot lol
Also if you're funny and confident and laugh at yourself, you can overcome that.

[guyuser2]

How tall are you?
Can you date or feel attracted to men shorter than you?

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[BlueLights]

It's kind of true, but only to some extent.

When I was younger I really liked tall guys. Now I realized that a guy's height doesn't matter: it's the mentality and personality that does!

There are so many attractive short guys. In some countries, most guys are short (Turkey for instance, Asia).

So don't feel bad about it. Believe it or not, the days of the tall guy=handome guy are gone.

Everyone can be attractive by having a special style.

[guyuser2]

by the way what's your height?

[BlueLights]

1.56

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[MyVoiceHeard]

Height does not make a man a man... who he is inside does. Don't be like this about yourself... accept yourself as you are... why does it matter? some will be attracted to you an some won't... we all goes threw this even tall guys. Just be cool with yourself, trust me, confidence goes a long way with women no matter what you look like.

[guyuser2]

I feel insecure
Inferior
Emasculating next to tall / average height women

[MyVoiceHeard]

I understand... but you shouldn't be... just see yourself as a man... that's it... carry yourself with confidence... an it'll be ok. Don't go threw life like this ok, accept yourself, know that it's fine... an be confident.

[GirlOfApathy25]

🤔 I guess, but I like short men... And I also like being in charge of a relationship.
So I don't know.

[guyuser2]

And it's easy to dominate a short weak man?
What's your height and do you dominate physically and mentally as well?

[GirlOfApathy25]

I've never actually been with a short man. I'm 5"3, and it's kinda hard to find guys shorter than me.

[guyuser2]

So what's the Height of men that you like and Prefer to date?

[GirlOfApathy25]

I like guys shorter then me, but will date any guy that's average-goodlooking. As long as he isn't chubby or fat.

[guyuser2]

But in reality you haven't met a dream man who is short than you?
What if he is shorter than you and weak as well, physically weaker than you?

[GirlOfApathy25]

I wouldn't mind.

[guyuser2]

Great!!
How tall have you dated men , Generally?

[GirlOfApathy25]

Dude, I came to answer 1 question.
I'm done 😒

[guyuser2]

But your answer interests me

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[Cursewords]

Being skinny is fine, being short isn't such a big deal either. There are plenty of attractive short women. Unless you are insanely short it's really not an issue. It seems only really American women seem to care so much about a man's height. It's probably to do with their own insecurities.

[guyuser2]

Do you know that even shorter women dislike short men

[Cursewords]

Not all of them.

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[tartaarsaus]

Only if you allow yourself to be so insecure about being small and weak. Being weak can be fixed with dedication. Lack of confidence is the thing here.

Also "They[men] do lack beauty and aesthetic appeal which is blessed to women exclusive" is extremely subjective and probably based on the perspective of a male. A straight female will obviously find men to be aesthetically appealing

[guyuser2]

Ask any straight female and she would agree that makes lack aesthetic appeal which a woman has in abundance

[tartaarsaus]

Is that why straight women are attracted to masculinity and men? You're clearly bitter. One can fix being weak, so that's already half your problem fixed

[guyuser2]

Male lacks beauty

[tartaarsaus]

You're clearly saying this from a straight male perspective. Apparently, masculine features and males are attractive to females. That you're not attractive to them does not mean male aesthetic appeal is non-existent.

[tartaarsaus]

Being weak, so that's half your problem solved

[tartaarsaus]

*can be fixed

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[guyuser2]

@StayInYourLane FOFF dude

[StayInYourLane]

I'll expose you!

[elizamichale2]

One of my ex was short but he was soooo good and i loved him

[guyuser2]

How short was he?

[elizamichale2]

Shorter than me
He was 5'6

[guyuser2]

Wasn't he insecure and uncomfortable around you?

[elizamichale2]

I never let him think that way

[chriss]

Why would he be?

This girl likes those type of guys.

Remember that everyone has different tastes when it comes to dating

Some girls prefer overweight men

[guyuser2]

Never let him? " Let him?"

[elizamichale2]

@chriss yea u r right prople have different tastes

[elizamichale2]

I didn't say "Let him" in a negative way all i meant was this that whenever hr would say or suggest something about his height i would stop him right there and would tell him that he shouldn't let such thoughts come in his mind and trust me many times i made him stop thinking about it just by saying that if he would keep on thinking like this then i won't talk to him and i always said that whether him or me or whoever we should all be very confident of ourselves n our bodies no matter what type we have and if it is possible to change the shape then we should as much as we can and if nog then just be ok with it and i used to tell him that when i am ok then why should he be concerned about his height compared to mine
I always reminded him of his positives and good things to motivate him and to prepare him to accept himself and thank gosh eventually after some time i was able to change him
So "let him" means i wouldn't let him talk about it and instead i would encourage him to be confident

[guyuser2]

How come you were comfortable with being 4 inches taller than a man whom you were dating?
Am sure you would wear 3 inches heel as well and obviously would be towering over him.
What about the society?

[elizamichale2]

He was a really good person and was very caring and understanding and he had good heart so why i wouldn't like him
Society never lets you settle coz it will always find one thing or another to point out but all i care is if its ok and not wrong then i should be concerned with my life not society coz when anything goes bad society doesn't offer any shoulder so its better to look after myself

[guyuser2]

Was he more powerful than you or you were more powerful?
He approached you or you approached him?

[elizamichale2]

We were not having fights that we needed to be powerful come onnn
And he approached me

[guyuser2]

I mean supposed you both got into fight. you could easily pin him down and beat the hell out of him, right?

[elizamichale2]

We didn't and i am not a fight person anyways
And guys are stronger thsn girls whether short or not

[guyuser2]

That's a myth that guys are always stranger than a girl even if the guy is smaller and skinnier.

[elizamichale2]

Well maybe but i dont know

[guyuser2]

Do you have a full body pic with him?

[elizamichale2]

I dont keep pics of my ex

[guyuser2]

Do you have a full body pic of yourself?

[elizamichale2]

Of course

[guyuser2]

Can't you put it up?

[elizamichale2]

I did at the start but i prefer this one

[guyuser2]

You can put this back...
I want to see long leggy tall girl

[elizamichale2]

Hehe

[guyuser2]

Your short boyfriend might just be up to your boobs?😂😂😂🤔

[elizamichale2]

No he wasn't that short
But not a bad thought lol

[Imafreespirit]

You have 2 options:
1. Feeling miserable and sorry for yourself

2. Own it, be confident and carry on with your life.

Height is not everything and it becomes a problem if you allow that to happen

[guyuser2]

What's your height and personal opinion on small men?

[Imafreespirit]

I’m 5’3”. I’ve seen plenty of attractive short men and they come as attractive because they own it. Confidence makes a MASSIVE difference.

[guyuser2]

How short can you accept / like a man?

[Imafreespirit]

Look, I’m gonna be honest. I’ve never been attracted to a guy shorter than me (less than 5’2”) but that’s me, I’m 5’3”. There’s millions of girls out there, a lot of them shorter than me. You gotta accept what you have and own it.

you either accept the way you are or feel sorry for yourself (which is extremely unattractive) I’m gonna give you my example. I have curly hair, a lot of guys find that unattractive. That doesn’t mean that the entire population will. A lot of guys get turned off because I don’t drink, that doesn’t mean that the entire population will reject me. I genetically can’t have a tiny waist, that doesn’t mean all men will reject me for that. I own all of these things, I’m confident and I’ve learned to love myself, I transmit that energy and a lot of people find that attractive. Transmit good energy and you will receive it too

[StayInYourLane]

It's a chick in a guy's account!

[VaIiant]

Dudeee stop hating on yourself you've posted stuff like this so many times. I mean cmon now. And women find particular men super hot, just like men find women hot.
And yes @StayInYourLane i know what you're gonna say xD

[guyuser2]

Okay.
by the way what's your height? And how do you personally feel about short men?
How about a man who is significantly Shorter than you?

[VaIiant]

I'm 5'4. I would never date a guy shorter then me, (I'm sorry, but there ARE plenty of women shorter then 5'0.) Maybe If I was, like, 6'0, because then the guy would still be relatively tall. I've only ever dated guys above 6'0, because thats just the type I seem to attract, though I'd be down for a guy closer to my height.

[guyuser2]

Ohh that's sad. .. but ok.
So the shortest you can be attracted to a man is 5'7?

[VaIiant]

Probably above that. But then again, if I liked him, him being 5’7 wouldn’t effect me dating him or not.

[guyuser2]

And I am 152 cms only! And you say that I shouldn't hate myself?

[VaIiant]

In the pacific islands the average height, is, like, 5'0 ish.