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Why Did He Choose HER Over YOU? The Ugly Truth! (Page 2)
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7. She is comfortable with the idea of sex, acknowledges it is human nature so doesn't get weird about it, feeling ashamed about having sexual desires, whilst slut shaming other girls who she assumes sleeps around without any proof.
Ladies, If a guy is not wanting to be your boyfriend When you want something serious, Move on. It is simple as that.
You're on the right track... but it's still self-entitled solipsism. When you can identify that and break out of it you'll have the key.
The main point you're missing is what is most important to the guy! You're still totally focused on YOU!
Because it's written for the female audience. I am a girl myself, but I would love hear from a guy's perspective what do they find important :)
Why do you write for only half the audience. That's like going to a rock concert and playing jazz, because that's what half of your audience likes. Ridiculous.
Okay... newsflash honey... THE NUMBER ONE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO A GUY:
Your level of attraction and desire. FOR HIM. Almost everything else is secondary. It's hard for a guy to spurn a woman that is TOTALLY into him, adores him, would die for him. Nothing else even comes close, surely not all the grocery list of niceties you've posted.
Or as my wife would say, "she must really be able to suck a dick." :)
There's always the short and much more likely answer. He just wasn't in love with her.
Why would you get into a relationship with someone if you weren't already in love with them? Like I don't get into a relationship hoping to fall in love lol. I wait to actually be in love, before I get into a relationship. so I wouldn't want to call a girl my girlfriend unless we were already there and it has absolutely nothing to do with any of the reasons above that you gave.
I believe there is a thing called compatibility , every one has their own short comings , I don't believe in the thing called 'not good enough'. So at the same time I believe a guy will love you even if you are needy, you nag , you do what ever. If someone doesn't commit, just mean he/she is not the right person, I don't really think people need to overthink about the reasons
Compatibility of course! But I hardly doubt any guy will like having a naggy, needy girl.. it could work out for a while.. till he's super blinded in love.. as long as that feeling starts fading away.. most of the guys will leave, they could even divorce.
Yeah that needs to be solved, see if the guy is willing to help her solve it or leave her for someone else
Short answer is because you suck and not in the way he would have wanted! Long answer is because you and him just wouldn't have worked out for a seemingly infinite series of reasons so best to move on. It's the same for guys stuck on a girl that has a boyfriend, they didn't pick you so move on!
A lot of women don't give their guy want he truly desires. You might be the sweetest woman on the planet but if the guy wants 10 key things from a woman but only receives 5 he will want to cheat, bail or both.
Note that women do the exactly same thing.
Like ANAL sex!!! That's been keeping him for over a year HOLY SHIT...
@DocilexElle That would keep me hanging around too.
That and he's taught me how to deepthroat. So when we fuck, he's got like 3 really good holes XD
@sally421 "DON'T settle for anything less than what you deserve."
I believe this statement has the most effects making these women sad, ironically, as they assume too high of themselves and then think they deserve a good mate (who then proceeds to dump her)
But men never had this problem, as they ALWAYS date below their league
I am sorry about your plight it is so easy to be left behind. Sadly it has to happen to someone hope it is not me. Like being in a compertion ,, there is only one winner.. But when it comes to B/F well they are so fickle , it could just be down to a smile,,, hoping next time you are the winning smile xxxxx
Wrong. You are over analyzing this to death !! He just wasn't into you. Period. All the things you suggest doing would not have meant a shit bit of difference if he's not into you.
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this dude.
if you were male I would look forward to a male version of this. that's some good stuff
Well, I bet you could share the "male version" with us :)
not really I've been out of any kind of relationship for 5 years and there's no spark of hope left haha I mean I am all that but I act like a girl with the same kind of behavoir on your list (the good ones) and by the way I've drank a little and am in a party mood so don't take my words too srsly
You nailed it! save this one, make posters of it, hang at college campus...
when i dated I picked her because I knew
she would have a hard time cheating
meaning she wouldn;t want to
all the other girls would have cheated on me on the first day
example met a girl she liked me she wanted to suck my dick I said no
but by the next day she sucked one of my friends dick lol
yes
perfect girlfriend material lol
I think it may be the second.
But who really knows? It may be that this time was the right time too or... Whatever we say are merely assumptions. But one thing is sure. What's not mean to be.
Better not be.
And chin up your head and see ahead on the future. It may be coming your real one
Or he is a womanizer and you weren't as easy and quick to get into the bedroom as the others... it depends on the guy and on what he wants, you can't generalise.
It doesn't really matter why. The fact is it happened and you kind of just have to get over it. But yeah nice take and stufff
Your advice is to be positive but this MyTake is so pessimistic
I can't believe guys have such high standard
You not only have to be pretty but be a robot and follow his commandments
That's how I feel
WOOOOOW TTHIS MAKES SOOOOO MUCH SENSE!!
THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH!
@sally421 reading this article gave me 2 things..
Weirdest Boner.. 😅😅
&
And a crush on your way of thinking!..
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Thanks for writing
Id say this is fairly accurate. I met an awesome woman about a year ago. Things were cool until she wanted every second of my time. I mean every second. It was very off putting.