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Girls-- If He Doesn't Want Sex, Something is Wrong. (Page 2)
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Boredom or sexual incompatibility might cause this? (One kinky, up for anything) and the other conservative.
Yes, that's the point.
I.. think I'm an outlier here.
What is low testosterone?
www.webmd.com/.../slideshow-low-testosterone-overview
Huh. I guess I'm just weird then.
Great take. I'll know what to look for if mine dwindles.
6. He has a small penis and it makes him feel complexed
Hmm. Well... no, not really. I mean he's still going to want it regardless, he'll just be insecure about it.
he'll want sex... but will hide that, and girl will think he doesn't want sex. I heard about a case, where a guy with little penis said he will have sex only after marriage, pretending being religious, but in fact he was afraid she won't marry him..
Maybe. Of course, it would just be another reason the passion isn't there. That is a cause for insecurity, definitely.
Stress has major affects on libido. My boyfriend has been 24/7 stressed lately and it's affected our sex life.
Mild stress will not cause him to not want sex.
He doesn't 'mild stress' that's the way he is. He's autistic and he will overthink what I would consider a mildly stressful situation into something major. Something like an imminent deadline will completely over stress him and obviously if your mind is too busy with these stressful thoughts, it's harder to focus on sex and arousal
I see. Interesting.
You have a prosperous future writing bullshit for COSMO type women's mags.
Thanks; one of the legal forms of prostitution.
Bwahahahahahaha!! They don't let sixteen year olds write for them, even if they pose as 25...
@LuckyEnough Do you not understand that the future doesn't mean NOW?
Woah there. I was agreeing with you, that this guy is tilted. Same team. And yes, I can differentiate between those two words.
I'll solve this: You're both fools.
Yes or in love with another or interested in smthing else.
what about if guy accidently injured his testicals or pulled his dick and rupured a vesal these things hurt and dont want to cause more damage if you have sex
Well... yeah man like I said, 1) he may be injured.
or he's asexual and doesn't care all that much about sex
Unlikely. Outliers. But possible.
That is a pretty good my take, but there are some asexual guys. Not nearly as common, but it could just be that he doesn't like sex
Not really. If so, he's definitely not the norm, but a lot of "asexual" guys really... aren't. They just haven't found a girl that they find hot to actually be into them.
Thats not true. Just because you can experience sexual attraction doesn't mean everyone on Earth does. While its not common, many men and women just don't experience it
You're right-- it's not common. At all.
Anyway, this Take is about male sexual desire, not female. And as a guy, let me tell you that "asexual" guys don't really exist in any substantive number. There are a lot of them that think they are, or say they are, and they're not-- they're just unlucky with girls and have become frustrated. Trust me.
If this was just me saying this, yes. Your view on males would beat mine as you are one. However, I have met a couple asexuals, and some are males. They aren't just unlucky (well some could be, romantically speaking, but it wouldn't be why they are asexual), they simply don't find sex appealing.
Just because you don't experience something doesn't mean no one does. If (assuming you're straight) you find the idea of sex with a male terrible, that doesn't mean every male on Earth does. Everyone is different
Maybe they just haven't had enough of it yet.
or maybe they don't like it and you need to respect that people like that exist
I don't "need" to do anything other than breathe and eat and sleep. I understand why you're phrasing it that way, but again, *some* people are not my concern here with this Take, which is exactly why I included that part at the beginning. Perhaps you missed it. Outliers are not statistically relevant. They exist, and they matter, but they are not the rule.
I completely understand why you wouldn't focus on them in the my take. HOWEVER, you only said this
"Also, this is not a Take about sexual dysfunction, as well, and the inability to have sex; this is about sexual desire." Implying any man who didn't want sex for a reason other than this is dysfunctional; then after that in this conversation you continually said they just haven't had enough sex or haven't found the right woman yet.
Uh... yeah. Pretty much. That's the rule.
You are being extremely disrespectful to asexuals everywhere
No. I'm not.
You are denying them their existence
ah, its a lovely snowflake in her natural habitat. Writing anonymously behind the keyboard, parading as a SJW.
He's also being extremely disrespectful to any man that has a low sex drive, as if its a huge character flaw. Like they are less of a man, and obviously NEED medical help to become a REAL man... dude, your not helping the cause as much as you want to beleive...
There are more low sex drive guys then people think, maybe 20% or so? Which is fewer then low drive women, which by 2 years into a relationship rises to like 40%.
This was a while ago, but opinion owner is such a freaking snowflake. Somebody disagrees with your opinion. Get the hell over it and stop acting like you're two. People are entitled to have their own opinion, just like you are.
Since this got brought up again, if you're a man and are asexual, you ARE dysfunctional, biologically. If all men were asexual, the human race would cease to exist... aka dysfunctional.
@VaIiant I don’t really care whether asexuals are viewed as dysfunctional or not. People just need to know they’re more common than most people realize and need to be avoided by non asexuals.
I dream of a world in which the same applies for women.
How's that
what if the guy isn't refusing sex but isn't in its oh by it. if I dont start it we only fuck for like 5 minutes one every week or even 2
Hmm. Doesn't sound like a good situation. I think this Take is a good example of what may be going on there.
It also could be he is insecure that he isn't lasting very long so he's avoiding it unless you ask. The other is he may be he's a selfish lover who only cares about him.
Or he has a drug or alcohol addiction impairing his ability
Maybe he isn’t into having sex and it has nothing to do with the reasons you listed. There’s nothing wrong with that.
Whatever you say.
Thank you
And if SHE doesn't what sex?
Well... the post isn't about that. Different topic.
6 and most likely) He is mostly or only into men.
Lol hahaha uh... right. Maybe so! Probably not, but maybe so.
And most likely? Really? Only into men in this age, is practically celebrated. Bi males SEEMS (my observations, not an claimed fact) to be what a very quickly growing female gender want. I have a theory why, but to avoid this going waaay off topic with angry women I'll keep it to myself. Bi men are a larger group than most men want to admit, true, and the majority keep it secret, or only shared with a trusted partner, also true, but the majority of men who reject sex one or more times? Really? Usually it's an ignorant male claiming most women are bi...
Most girls don’t want a bi male...
That has been asked several times, in several ways, and the slant IS towards pro bi male from the replies given. Any justification for your claim most men rejecting sex one or more times is because they are into guys? At any rate, if "bi", how would that lower desire for his female partner?
I love this take
Thanks; I wish it was getting more attention.
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