Jealousy is rooted in feelings of inadequacy and insecurities .It surfaces when a person's place in life is threatened by someone else.They feel threatened by your success, competence, popularity or attractiveness.The person sees something in you that makes them feel that they aren't good enough.They feel inferior to you.Jealous people hate themselves ,and they either want to be like you ,or they want what you have.Their jealousy is a form of self-hatred built upon insecurity.
You can't be friends who people who want your life
When a person experiences an unhealthy amount of jealousy they become fixated and obsessed with the person they are jealous of.This type of extreme jealousy is toxic,and it can manifest itself in anger and underhanded actions and behaviors.The jealous person will go out of their way is to reduce your credibility in order to make themselves feel superior.
People who are jealous of you ,think you are better than them
Jealous people are emotionally immature.They are weak people ,with no self-control over their emotions and thoughts.A jealous persons behavior is a representation of their own insecurities, inadequacies and low self-esteem.They are psychologically unbalanced individuals.
Jealous People Will.........
1) Sabotage Your Friendships
Jealous people don’t like you having other people in your life ,so they will try to find a way to discredit you to your friends and acquaintances.They'll plant seeds of doubt about your character by saying negative things about you.They do this in the hope that your friends will start to distrust you,and start to view you in a negative light.However ,genuine friends won't listen to negative talk about you.They won't stab you in the back ...they will always have your back
Never explain yourself to anyone.Your true friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe you
2) Gossip Behind Your Back
Gossiping is one of the most powerful signs of jealousy.Jealous people are cowards,that's why they talk shit BEHIND your back ,and not to your face. They put you down by spreading lies, rumors and gossip about you in order to undermine you.Their goal is to devalue you in the hope that it will make them feel good about themselves.Putting you down makes them feel superior, and gives them an ego boost.
Talking shit about someone behind their back while they aren't in your presence to defend themselves ,says more about you than the person you're talking about
3) Fake Their Friendship With You
Jealous people may actually befriend you and encourage you to confide in them. They mask their jealousy by pretending to be a trustworthy confidant. But really, they're gathering information to use against you.Any Information you divulge is then spread around.They will give out misleading information based on what you tell them in order undermine you to other people
Everybody is not your friend.Just because they hang around with you and laugh with you ,that doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real life situations expose true friends .So pay attention
4) Criticize You
Jealous people will criticize you in every aspect.They will criticize you as a person and criticize your life.They will also question & criticize your decisions and choices. Their criticism isn't a true reflection of who you are,it's a reflection of how bad they feel about themselves.They have a desire to feel better than you ,so they criticize you just to demonstrate their power and control in order to raise their self-esteem to feel good about themselves.
People that criticize other people are unhappy about something in their lives,and they take the most pathetic measures to make themselves feel better
5) Secretly Be Happy When You Fail
Jealous people can't wait to see your downfall. They long to see you fail,and they secretly gloat at your struggles and mistakes . It makes them feel satisfied , elated and excited whenever you fail at something.Jealous people aren't usually obvious about feeling happy about your failures .But there's always subtle signs .So look closely,because they may actually be plotting to take you down.
People who try to bring you down ,think they are below you
6) Downplay Your Achievements
Jealous people will disparage your successes and achievements by attributing them to things other than your hard work and/or your skill.They won't acknowledge any good that you do,or they will undermine your achievements ,because they secretly feel jealous of your successes.
Pay close attention to people who don't clap when you win
7) Humiliate You In Front Of Others
Jealous people will try to humiliate you in front of others.They will bring up your past failures & mistakes, and ridicule & belittle you at every given opportunity.They will amplify your failures,and ensure that they reach everyone's ears.If you confront them about it ,they'll tell you that you're way too sensitive and that you're overacting
Those who humiliate you,humiliate themselves
8.) Give You Backhanded Compliments
Jealous people will mask their insults with compliments. With every compliment they give,you walk away feeling as though you've just been insulted. Jealous people insult you because they are insecure about something they are lacking
A graceful taunt is worth a thousand insults
9) Hate You For No Reason At All
Some people will hate you for no apparent reason at all.They will treat you with disdain for absolutely no reason or basis whatsoever .They will openly show hatred towards you,and treat you with disrespect ,and they may even ostracize you .They will treat you mean in any way possible.But remember , haters don't really hate you ,they hate themselves because you're a reflection of what they wish to be.
Hatred is self-punishment
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