Over the past few months I've posted several questions as to whether or not men would date women over a certain age and why. My reasoning for this is because I've known since I was a teenager that I wanted to fall in love, get married and have a family however, I've had horrible luck with men so far. Of course I got a couple of red pill answers shaming women my age (not that they weren't completely untrue. It's easy to be bitter if you're a single lady passed thirty and you want a relationship), but if a man is going to be that angry at me because of other girls rejecting him, he's not the man I want to be with anyway. However, if you're in your 20's dating a 30+ man because you fell in love with each other, I'm happy for you. Fortunately I got more encouraging answers than red pill answers.
here is my advice to women in their 20's and 30's.
To the twenty something women. If you want a family, now is the time to start planning for it. You have tons of quality men at your finger tips, even though some may not be the most attractive candidates, give them a shot but make sure you see yourself falling in love with him first. Don't settle just to have a husband, and avoid the red pill club.
30's women: it's still possible to find love at our age. Good men still want to date us, but the rules changed. We have different material to work with now. Don't lower your standards, but realize now that prince charming is not who we're going to get. Mr. average joe, and there's nothing wrong with that. Give him a shot and ask yourself these questions. Is he intelligent, witty and funny? Do you share similar values? Does he love you? More importantly, do you love him? Again, don't settle just to have a husband. Make sure he's someone you know you would be happy with. Not just content, but happy. You still deserve love and happiness no matter what the red pill club says.
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