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Why I dated 'bad guys' (Page 3)
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I'm beginning to wonder if maybe women don't understand men as equally as men don't understand women.
That’s brilliant. I hadn’t thought of that, but it actually makes perfect sense.
The other night I was playing a card game with a group of all girls except for one friend of mine. We had to provide one word hints to identify ambiguous photos laid out in a grid on a desk — first team to correctly guess them all wins.
I literally did my best at providing hints and one time this girl literally says to me in shock, “that hint was so overly logical that it actually... (short pause) made sense.”
She couldn’t believe something could make so much sense that it was actually straightforward to her and obvious what I was referring too. It was like it was the first time in her life that she made a clear logical connection. I was flabbergasted.
I had a similar experience! My exception is I was I was explaining something to a woman once and she told me she was confused with my way of thinking. The way my mind works had a logic that was so backwards to her. Another woman who had been married for years had to translate in "girl talk"
🤔hm
No, I don't think we do. We have things in common but men and women definitely seem to view the world very differently from each other.
I'd also like to add it's totally possible to be a nice guy without being spineless. I don't know why people tend to group wimpy cucks together with nice guys. That makes no sense.
It’s because people who stick up for spineless people are revolting to most women for whatever reason. They seem to prefer bullies legitimately on the condition they treat others poorly, but treat the girl well.
But it doesn't make sense though. A man can be a nice man able to treat others with respect, courtesy, and decency without being a male with a tail. Without being a sheep. Without being so easy to push around. A nice guy and a wimp are two totally different guys. In my experience with people, the loudest guy, the toughest guy, the meanest guy is the one with the most insecurities.
That might work on some girls for long term relationships. But seems like the type if guy that would get cheated on.
My neighbor is a good example. He has women coming in all the time and he's a douche. Super jacked, smokes cigarettes, has two kids and has a ring of women flying in and out if his apartment. I hear them having sex all the time and I can identify which girl is in there by her sex noises. This one girl gets really deep breaths and has a hushed moan.
Another girl always does excessively loud slurping bloe jobs and prefers loud rough sex with thumping bouncing around their apartment in every room.
etc.
I don't think regular guys could get women to agree ti doing that with them because they couldn't sell the persona well enough. Just my opinion.
These girls use him for sex obviously, but theg keep coming back and they sleep over all the time. Occasionlly they cross paths and you hear two girls shouting at each other or kids crying.
I don't think the fact he's a jerk equals him getting women. I think he simply found women who are looking for the same thing he is, that is, sex without the relationship and it works out for them. The nice guy doesn't want sex without the relationship and a wimp doesn't know how to handle a relationship or a woman at all.
I once heard a trashy woman say this phrase and I'll never forget it. No kidding, she's been around an awful lot. She said women who are with jerks want something that's good for right now until the woman grows up. A woman knows a jerk isn't the type to marry. He's for fun. She knows the genuinely nice guy is the type to marry, but she's not ready for that yet.
That logic kinda makes sense and kinda doesn't, but it has stuck with me.
But what if an ordinary guy wants to be used just for fun too? That’s the part about this that peevs me.
Regular guys want casual sex just too. They can also be just as fun. Something needs to let this be known to the world.
I don't think you're understanding the colloquial bad guy. For example, a rough cut biker that works as a mechanic is not a bad guy. A rough cut biker that sells meth and guns is a bad guy.
I'll break this down into the most simplistic and realistic version.
Psychologically, misery loves company.
Who are the nice guys anyway...
My ex was the worst kind of woman in private.. Controlling, nasty and manipulative. In public she was the sweetest person you could meet. Confident and amazing. The problem is you can't often recognise a narcissist because they're very good at covering up who they really are..
People need to recognise danger signs of who someone really is.. Believe me abuse is very real. It happens to a lot of people.
The guy in the picture doesn't look like a bad guy, he just looks like some edgy chav prick who listened to heavy metal once and has taken it so far to the point of being cringey.
Actually I guess going by my definition of bad guy, he would sort of fall into that.
Amen. We need more posts telling nice guys what trash they are.
didn't read but you're a young woman, that's the reason why you dated bad guys
What's your excuse?
@NovissimumVirorum nice guys can't fuck me as goods as the bad boyz
I really enjoyed this my take, I'm someone who dates 'bad guys' based on your definition, but if the guy starts treating me bad I leave as fast as I can
Hey, another entitled young girl jumping on the incel/nice guy bandwagon.
I promise you, you'll have your negative experiences alright.
This is only the beginning. There will be more.
They say that women in abusive relationships, that end... will seek another abusive man. I think that factor plays a roll in it, also.
The title of your article I think is wrong , because, there aren't bad/ good guy or bad/good girl in life, the bad and good are different parts of human personality...
while you are right, but that's how the term is loosely used by the young generation
Nice guys are closet sons of bitches. They are the "bad boys", they just do not see that their behavior is abhorrent. Then they have the audacity to play the eternal victim just to lure in some pretty gentle hearted women. No honor...
There are genuinely Nice guys and "Nice guys' which really aren't nice guys.
The genuine nice guys have problems too. They want everything to go well but they also can wrongly be labeled boring
@sonnysunshine I don't see whats appealing about a guys that are bad.
Wtf is “bad” anyway. The last I checked it’s not someone who is going to improve your life.
Agreed. There is also genuine Nutella and store brand "Nutella" which really isn't Nutella. We'll just call it "Nutella" but again, for clarification, it is NOT Nutella! I also have some "water" nearby. It's not actually water cause it has a bit of fruit flavor and few added electrolytes and stuff. It's labeled as sparkling water. But again, it is "water" and there is a ABSOLUTELY CLEAR DIFFERENCE so the quotation marks asr every VERY necessary as the internet says so.
@errorgoodnameunfound not following you buddy. Seems like you are getting off by trolling.
@sonnysunshine wake up dude. Im being realistic. Re read what you said. Read what I said. WHAT exactly is the difference? Am I just trolling or am I "trolling"? Trolling as in legit trolling, pullin a leg, fuckin around, or "trolling" meaning fuckin around, pullin a leg on the face of it, but actually have other motives hidden?
You are explaining this to yourself not anyone else
Your definition of bad guys is wayyyy off
@Muliaklian Go away and stop spamming
It's a 'myTake', my own opinion of the situation. Take it or leave it.
I left it... in the dustbin where it belongs
And it's his opinion and many opinions, really, that your opinion fuckin sucks. Both can be said like it or not, as there's a thing called free speech that likely applies to this site being it's American and I highly suggest you respect that British girl.
Why wouldn't you date bad boys? White collar isn't for everyone ❤️
Get me a beer bitch! And don't stop blowing me while you're doing it!
Is that the way women want to be treated? yes.
I literally just said this to a girl the other night after our first date. Except it wasn't a date because girls don't like dates they like to just be pumped and dumped on a dirty couch and then told to fuck off.
Are they really a bad guy if they have traits you consider positive?
Would this make them a good guy?
Because your stupid. Don’t know what the point of dating is and it’s definitely not so you can marry a guy who uses you and doesn’t want to marry you.
The ideology of types of guys is the stupidest shit I have ever fucking heard, Dating is nothing but just a looks and stupid ass ideologies It's sad and just shows how shallow people really are
I would of just assumed preference honestly. Is it really that big of a deal that some women prefer the bad boy? Are we really at the stage where a partner preference needs explaining to sooth the ego of others?