So yes, I'm one of those girls...
Why I'm attracted to the bad guys:
1. He lives.
he's exciting, lives on the edge, is more adventurous, and makes me feel like I'm alive. he's laid back and doesn't judge me if I've had a drink on a Saturday night(that's happened to me before)
2. He's a fighter/protector
All my life, I've been around the mean men, why? Because they were my family. They would defend and protect me against other men if they felt I was in danger. I feel safe with a fighter, because at least I know he will protect me if he has to. He doesn't have to win all the time, but at least I know he tries.
3. He's understanding
He doesn't care I used to smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, I've tried drugs and I've faught, because most likely he's done it too. He understands not everyone was born into a perfect family. He gets why I stay to myself, why I look over my shoulder and trust no one.
4. He will probably stay through the hard times
Because he's already been through them
5. He will think of a million ways to eat and pay bills if it comes to that
Because he's probably done it his whole life.
Just an explanation why I go for the bad guys and possibly why some other girls do too.