Hello and welcome everyone! It's your boy Hal and you already know what we're gonna talk about- Relationships! Tadaa! So, if you want "da wae" to maintain a healthy relationship with a girl, no matter if she's your girlfriend, friends with benefits or just a friend or whatever, this is for you. What? Oh I'm sorry. I was about to start anyway XD-
1) Make sure she feels safe around you
This is the most important thing to be kept in mind. If she isn't comfortable around you, you won't feel the connection you should really feel with her. Lack of safety is the major reason why girls don't talk to most of the guys. Why would she talk to a potential creep? That's why you're advised to be a gentleman and don't freaking fake it.
2) Be clear with your feelings
Make your intentions very clear. If you like her, give her hints regarding it from the start. If you are simply not interested, tell her clearly. Some of it might hurt but an early bitter dose saves a lot of time and emotions. We have already seen zillions of guys getting friendzoned along with cases where fwbs catch feelings and it all ends up really bad.
3) Tolerate her mood swings
Hold on bud! I know girls can be really dumb and irritating at times and their mood changes faster than the flash catches cola. Girls are super emotional beings, no matter how insensitive they try to come off as. There can be several reasons of mood swings but the major one (as we all know) might be the irregular menstrual flow. Trust me, if you would have to go through periods, you wouldn't survive past a month and I mean it.
4) Be patient
Girls are super indecisive and need you to understand them and tell them that regardless of everything, you still love them. You need to be really patient with a girl. It takes a lot of courage and trust for a girl to tell you how she really feels at a particular moment and if you end up mocking her (as we regularly do among guys), you're gonna make room in her list of *Assholes*.
Please! Be patient with me
5) Don't be too possessive
No one likes to be replaced and want to share their part of love with someone else but wait! Girls don't owe anything to you. I'm sorry but yeah, this is how it works. You need not to be insecure and over-possessive. Being a girl is hard as heck. The number of guys who try to hit on her daily is more than your Super Mario high score. This is surely an ego boost for them and hence you see them behaving like an annoyed rapper. Why? Because they know that there is literally the crowd of guys for them (whether they admit it or not). If something like this happens to you, don't be clingy, have some respect and move on. She simply doesn't deserve you. Her LOSS!
Let's some it up here
Thanks for reading😊