He Should Move The Mountains

[Anonymous]

Now, Now, Now, we have all heard it. A man that wants you will move the mountains to be with you. ain't a thing in the world could keep him away. Last month I thought I finally found that. For once the tables had turned. I didn't have to reach out to the guy first. I didn't have to convince the world that he indeed liked me back. My love was not taken for granted.

When we first met it was like an explosion. Never before had I ever seen a man like this. I swear that for a moment in time we were the only humans on Earth. People pray for chemistry like ours.

It has been driving me nuts wondering when I would ever see him again. When would we rekindle the flame?

Tonight, I saw him. But, it was different.

1. He gave attitude

I asked him what church he went to. He replied with a harsh, sarcastic tone. "Uhhhhh...A church in West Palm Beach." It wasn't like I asked him what his address is! It wasn't anything too personal. Did I strike a nerve? His tone reminded me of how men have treated me all my life. So cold. So heartless, with no love in his heart. It hurt.

2. He Made excuses

Granted he only came to get something from his friend.

I told him to stay longer (so that I could talk to him and get to know him) he claims that it'll take too long. So fine, I say that he should come Sunday night and yet again he blocked that measure. He says that he has homework that he's been procrastinating on.

Do you just not want to come and spend time with me? Do you think that I am not worth the trip? Had it not been for your friend would you still have visited eventually? Over the past month, did you even think about me? Did you miss me? It makes me feel like I am not worth it. A man that wants you will move the mountains to be with you. ain't a thing in the world could keep him away.

3. It Is Gone

That same man that would not take no for answer. That same man that pursued me. That even when I ignored him he continued to drive at me. He was persistent. He fought for my love!

It was that that attracted me to him. I felt like he would swim across the Atlantic Ocean just to be with me. There was no limit to what he would do to declare my love.

Where is that man? Tonight that man perished. You came to do one thing and get out.

It wouldn't have made a difference if I was there or not. Or if I ever existed. You didn't make me feel special in any way like you did a month ago. It breaks my heart that you don't care as much as I care.

I have learned from my mistakes though. I will not stop the waves for a man that won't even step foot in the waters. My love is nothing to be played with. A man that wants you will move the mountains to be with you. Ain't a thing in the world could keep him away.

*3/30/19*

What Did I Do?

[HumanClay]

Since you mentioned cgurch, i say that love is not always a feeling it's an action. You never have to ask if someone loves you, because if they did, they will show you. You want a guy who loves you like Christ loved the church and gave up himself for it.

[Gavyn]

This ^^

[LeoLionEye]

In modern times a man shouldn't have to move mountains to be with a woman. That's expecting way to much. Especially since modern women aren't even willing to ask a man out most of them time. It isn't fair to think a man should do such extreme feats just to spend time with you, especially if you yourself aren't willing to do those exact same feats. By what I read it sounded like you were all about playing games anyway, hell you said you ignored him at first. Playing games don't work it just confuses people and wastes their time. I say you're games made him feel like you weren't interested in him so he gave up wasting his time on you. And lastly no man needs to move mountains anymore for a woman. If a girl expects that of you then she expects to much of you and thinks to much of herself. Loving a girl shouldn't be hard, let alone compared to an impossible task. If you think he should move mountains to be with you then he is just going to do the smart and natural thing anyone would do, go find someone else. If a woman thinks this highly of herself that she believes guys have to do this for her just to be with her, he's just going to go find a girl way less difficult.

[Felinegirl]

I think it's give and take. If you don't move mountains back, why expect him to continue?

Also you might have unrealistic expectations. Me are also just humans you know.

[loveslongnails]

So... how long did this "thing" go on initially, and how many times did you actually SEE each other during that period? How far apart were you? I feel there's a lot of info missing that I need to understand this.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

So unfortunate that he mislead you. Don't automatically assume that it's your fault.

[Snakeyes7]

The problem with me is. I always move mountains for the people who don’t love me back and not realizing it until I’m done moving it. So now I’m not going to do anything so drastic unless I make absolutely sure that she is going to appreciate it.

[Champ78]

A person that wants to be with another person should put the same amount of effort into getting to know them. Im sorry that you’ve had bad experiences with men and this guy your speaking of, I honestly think he just lost interest in you because maybe he didn’t feel a connection. It sucks but it happens.

[Miristheiss]

He should move mountains
should he work miracle, work a miracle,
Should he keep you like an oath
May nothing but death... you... part?

[CuChullan]

He got what he wanted, he worked for it. You have to face the fact you're history as far as he's concerned. Until he hits a dry patch. Then he may be interested, again.

[Lightning8]

I wanted to for my ex. But I felt like I'd just be labled a creep or a stalker / harrasser.

[zagor]

Move the mountains? Who is he, Mohammed?

[Secretgardenblood]

Good take.

[John_Doesnt]

That's a long story.