I need to thank @StingRayxoxo for inspiring me to write this, and her beautiful myTake Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave"
That said, let's begin
-It's not love if they constantly make question yourself
-It's not love if they isolate you
-It's not love if they humiliate you
-It's not love if they control you
-It's not love if they don't trust you
-It's not love if they constantly take you down because they fear you'll leave them
-It's not love if they hurt you physically
-It's not love if they hurt you psychologically
-It's not love if they just obsess over you
-It's not love if you are constantly scared of them
-It's not love if they threaten to or hurt your family
-It's not love if they threaten to or hurt your children
-It's not love if they threaten to or hurt your pets
-It's not love if they destroy your belonging
-It's not love if you just "have sex"
-It's not love if their only desire for you is to fuck you
-It's not love if you spend more time crying than laughing
-It's not love if you are always "crazy" or the "idiot"
-It's not love if they destroy your world instead of enriching it
This is called abuse, and can take many, many forms.
Actual love is much simpler - it's supporting, sharing, caring, giving and receiving.
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