I had the worst fight with my girlfriend - and it could have saved our relationship (Page 2)
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Sounds kind of typical of women to me, they almost always put expectations on men that they dont want on themselves. This shows up mostly in the fact that you have to make them happy but they don't have to do the same.
You have the upper hand now and have compete power. She admitted she wasn't even considering a break up. You didn't. Know she's in the begging position maybe use that to change her behaviour
I just want for her to understand I too have my needs and a right to talk about them
Lmao i hate comments like this but theyre so true. When i realized indidnt have the power with my ex anymore, i gave him the upperhand. But he drove us into the ground. He didn't know wtf he was doing. And wasn't willing to compromise like i at least used to. I shouldve stayed in the lead 🤦♀️
@DizzyDesii I understand what you mean.
In my case it's only that I want a 50/50 instead of the usual 80/20 in her favor.
I'm fine giving her the leverage almost always and doing what she wants, but I'd like to do what I want too once in a while.
Good read. Cool to see things reach a point of agreement for you two
Thank you.
Let's hope it will go well!
I was so nervous, I thought something bad was going to happen lol! I'm happy everything is okay!
Thankfully it all went well in the end, and as an additional luck the other work project got postponed, so we have more time to spend together.
Now we are enjoying the night together.
You’re getting to wound up in ‘romance’. She’s using you. Now I ain’t saying she’s the first woman in history that used a guy. But don’t be a fool & make her your top priority in life or think she’s loyal. She can get sex anywhere.
What a roller coaster night at least it was worth the stay up to bond. So glad you both had the deep convo ;)
She controls you and you allow it. Change it or don't complain.
I'm changing it
Ok sir
Happy to know you are dealing with this the right way.
Remember that sex it's about you both, not just her.
Well if you shout at each other then you don't respect each other. Love without respect is temporary. It will surely end. So if you want to be together start off with respect. Yes couples fight. Its healthy. But being disrespectful is not. You can have difference of thoughts and opinion. That's was the first reason you got together to learn about each other more and fall in love as well. Hope it makes sense to you other wise it is an opinion. Take it or leave it
Don't worry about it too much. Women love drama more than they love men. They go as you said ballistic. Crazy!
Women are like that. Your next rollercoaster ride like that can range from tomorrow to a year at most.
"she's a very thoughtful and kind woman, even if sometimes she loses herself"
Uhm... wut? She sounds like a spoiled, petulant, bitch to me. I'd drop her like a bad apple.
She's only like this at her worst
@Jean-Marie_Céline That isn't a good thing. Whether that's her "worst" or not, that is unacceptable behavior. I'd still throw her ass out. Being at your worst is not an excuse.
Ah man. I gotta ask... what’s keeping you around?
I have a will and I'm no pushover, tonight I demonstrated it.
Holy shit, she sounds very selfish. I hope you can sort this out, but i would be bailing if someone did not want to invest herself in a relationship at least a little or if she would not be grateful.
Dont worry girls r dumb cu*** and take guys back no matter what
Is that dumb twat you?
Yeah so what? I'm a dumb cu** too
I'm glad i dont like guys as much as you lol
They r dumb cun** too. Although most of my friends are boys
same
I find that people who swear unnecessarily and insult people they don't know aren't the brightest people to begin with.
I wish you best of luck, try not to argue tonight.
Thanks, tonight it should go well hopefully.
How did it go
It went quite well, thank you for asking!
We have a romantic and intimate night and same will be tonight.
Keep it that way. It’s really not worth fighting, y'all have an amazing thing right there. Don’t take it for granted.
Well... hope it works out. I would have just dumped her but I can’t stand drama. Best of luck.
At least your girlfriend has sex with you. My last girlfriend started refusing sex, and it only exacerbated things we eventually broke up. That bitch.
I am glad you guys worked it out.
sorry but
you are both fucked up
Thank you for your input, I'll forward it
Never argue with a girl