Fair point. I think perhaps some people (such as myself) feel compelled to try and understand why bad things happen so we can regain a sense of agency and peace of mind. But I get what you're saying, you could be right.
I've stated my side of it as much as I wish to, people can make what they wish of it. I don't have a body of scientific data to draw on for my claims, it's just my own observations and making my own deductions from them. If my theory is less compelling as a result, I'm satisfied enough with the outcome either way.
Of course they shouldn't, but the fact remains that people often do. The purpose of my post was to try to understand what might go through a cheater's mind when they make that decision. It's not a judgement of whether or not they "should" act on it.
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Women are not slaves to our emotions. Give me a break.
This is a lie don't worry they just like to put steriotypes on every thing
long story short: people cheat so they can fuck someone else xD
Yea that's their excuse. but they cheat period. they love cock.
No
Men and women, cheat, to get away with it
That's the only LEGITIMATE REASON people cheat.
Is to try and get away with it
Women are more likely to cheat, because they're better at the cover up
True fact
Or they want to keep things spicy and try new or get out of as rut
Isn't that the same thing really? Sexual/ emotional variety are great rut-busters, regardless of how damaging they can be in the long run.
What about everyone is unique and you can't generalise like this?
cheating means cheating thatlls all there is to it. why search for a reaosn behind it. its useless
Fair point. I think perhaps some people (such as myself) feel compelled to try and understand why bad things happen so we can regain a sense of agency and peace of mind. But I get what you're saying, you could be right.
Umm no. People cheat because they’re scum.
That too.
Their both equally trash if you cheat your trash plain and simple
fabulous take!!!
I loathe to admit it but if I ever cheat (which I might possibly ) in a relationship, this would be why.
I appreciate your honesty! :) (but please don't cheat though lol)
I'd try my best not to!
[citation needed]
Yes, it is just a theory. I'm not an academic by any means lol :)
So - back it up.
I've stated my side of it as much as I wish to, people can make what they wish of it. I don't have a body of scientific data to draw on for my claims, it's just my own observations and making my own deductions from them. If my theory is less compelling as a result, I'm satisfied enough with the outcome either way.
Agreed. There are general differences between men and women, but it's not dichotomous.
Good take add more pictures
No one should be cheating at all.
Of course they shouldn't, but the fact remains that people often do. The purpose of my post was to try to understand what might go through a cheater's mind when they make that decision. It's not a judgement of whether or not they "should" act on it.
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Both cheat because they are selfish.
Men cheat for EGO, Women cheat for EMO.
she's never yours, its just your turn.
I think that opinion overlooks convention
Women cheat same as mn jus wanna fuck
Couldn’t agree more.