in my woman's opinion , I think a man should make the first move for I feel it makes the man feel more manly when he does do this ! when the girl takes him up on his first move then it should help the man to feel even more manly ! Thanks
I don't personally agree, or emphasize with most of the points and reasoning outlined here, but I do believe that most of the society indeed would and that it would benefit from the overall message.
Problem with sexual harassment is not about approaching a woman and asking her out. It can happen as long as women are around you for whatever reason. So the only way to avoid that is by avoiding women all together. #MGTOW 💪
I'm not opposed to this. I've seen a lot of guys say they'd prefer it if women approached them. That being said, I generally find it unattractive when women try to take the initiative with me.
Hahaha thanks, id llke to think I've been through it all over 25 years online atheism 1.0, skeptics, PUA, mgtow, FA, kek, warski,, metokir, etc. Im open to questions 😁
women have always controlled the relationship... either passively, agressively or otherwise. Not complaining... just patiently waiting for me to be the target demo as HOTTIE. lol
I agree the traditional argument is garbage but though I don't indulge, if some women want to, that's their choice.
I don't see it as a disadvantage or like the "chase".
I know that not all men want sex.
Aside from that, the men saying that they want women to approach them likely have some incompatible personality traits which would make me disregard him (impenetrable shyness, insecurity, etc).
I can and have approached men but I find my interest in him wanes especially after I find out he's interested in me. It's not attractive to me to find out that a man was too shy, afraid, insecure to approach. It's unappealing.
@Anoniemus but if a women shy or insecure of something it's very fair enough of a Man to approach if that becomes the classification to choose someone most girls and guys would alone because one or the other will have such insecurities or may be other and if you come to know the Man has other insecurities later then you will loose intrest in him?
@Aakash_Hangargi Yup. I don’t think most women have the same insecurities as men in this regard specifically because most women don’t approach.
Nope. I don’t think most men or women will be alone. Most men approach. They don’t have an issue. They understand that they are unlikely to get a woman otherwise.
Most women don’t approach. Aside from the asinine sexist reasons, men are approaching us so there isn’t a need to. Should she if she wants to? Yeah. But there isn’t a need since most men approach. The only way to stop it is to limit the amount of men: in essence kill men until they’re the minority. Encouraging women to approach helps but it’s slow going.
As I’ve said, I’ve approached. I didn’t feel liberated in any way. When I found out that they were interested, I lost interest because I find it very unattractive to fear or be insecure over a simple action.
You get shot down. You get rejected. So what? Not everyone will be attracted to you. Some men think I am jacked hideous and I’m not upset by it. Not everyone will be attracted to me. So for a man to be insecure over possibly being rejected and not approach is unappealing.
I love confidence in a man. Not many men around me have it.
That is what I am talking about you approached him he liked you and you lost intrest then it's not really the way to do cause now it's hypocritic if certain men do that lots of name calling will be done. i understand your view is actually quite common i feel its a one side game anyways in general men want beauty and sex and women want everything else that's why many relationship fail but a relation will only build if we understand each other and come up with a solution to gain control over insecurities everybody has one but when we truly understand once they are close everything is forgotten and love and care take the Upper hand.
I don’t care what other men do. That has nothing to do with me. Are you telling me that I should give the guy a chance because he’s so insecure that he couldn’t approach? Why would anyone give someone a chance that they’re not attracted to?
It’s not hypocritical. You’re not using the word correctly. It would be hypocritical if a man came up to me, I was interested, and he lost interest because I didn’t approach. If that happened, I’d laugh because I would dodge a bullet: he’d be the same as the insecure men who want women to approach them.
I just think it’s like another man said: the weak who don’t usually have chance to mate desire to and are now attempting to use this as a platform. What makes you think women would be interested? I personally don’t find any weak (and by this I mean personality traits such as insecurity) to be attractive and the only way to find this out would be to have men approach. I have no problem initiating after that but if a man can’t take that first step, it lets me know what he is.
Because I’m tired of being single it’s all because I’m too much of a coward to ask a girl out on a date and even if I managed to get a date a second date likely and then too afraid to move in for a kiss or stand up for myself
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in my woman's opinion , I think a man should make the first move for I feel it makes the man feel more manly when he does do this ! when the girl takes him up on his first move then it should help the man to feel even more manly ! Thanks
I don't personally agree, or emphasize with most of the points and reasoning outlined here, but I do believe that most of the society indeed would and that it would benefit from the overall message.
Personaly I'd love a girl to take the iniyiativre would take a lot of the guess eork out of dating etc
Problem with sexual harassment is not about approaching a woman and asking her out. It can happen as long as women are around you for whatever reason. So the only way to avoid that is by avoiding women all together. #MGTOW 💪
I'm not opposed to this. I've seen a lot of guys say they'd prefer it if women approached them. That being said, I generally find it unattractive when women try to take the initiative with me.
Wow pretty good read, thanks!
I can tell you've been round the internet a while😂
Hahaha thanks, id llke to think I've been through it all over 25 years online atheism 1.0, skeptics, PUA, mgtow, FA, kek, warski,, metokir, etc.
Im open to questions 😁
women have always controlled the relationship... either passively, agressively or otherwise. Not complaining... just patiently waiting for me to be the target demo as HOTTIE. lol
None of these are applicable to me and the type of men that tend to want women to approach them or the ones who we wouldn’t be interested in.
But I agree with the points made about men.
How so?
I don't feel vulnerable.
I don't mind hearing no.
I agree the traditional argument is garbage but though I don't indulge, if some women want to, that's their choice.
I don't see it as a disadvantage or like the "chase".
I know that not all men want sex.
Aside from that, the men saying that they want women to approach them likely have some incompatible personality traits which would make me disregard him (impenetrable shyness, insecurity, etc).
I can and have approached men but I find my interest in him wanes especially after I find out he's interested in me. It's not attractive to me to find out that a man was too shy, afraid, insecure to approach. It's unappealing.
Ooh I see.
Fair enough.
Sounds like an awfully convenient preference
Sounds like you’re ignorant.
@Anoniemus but if a women shy or insecure of something it's very fair enough of a Man to approach if that becomes the classification to choose someone most girls and guys would alone because one or the other will have such insecurities or may be other and if you come to know the Man has other insecurities later then you will loose intrest in him?
@Aakash_Hangargi Yup. I don’t think most women have the same insecurities as men in this regard specifically because most women don’t approach.
Nope. I don’t think most men or women will be alone. Most men approach. They don’t have an issue. They understand that they are unlikely to get a woman otherwise.
Most women don’t approach. Aside from the asinine sexist reasons, men are approaching us so there isn’t a need to. Should she if she wants to? Yeah. But there isn’t a need since most men approach. The only way to stop it is to limit the amount of men: in essence kill men until they’re the minority. Encouraging women to approach helps but it’s slow going.
As I’ve said, I’ve approached. I didn’t feel liberated in any way. When I found out that they were interested, I lost interest because I find it very unattractive to fear or be insecure over a simple action.
You get shot down. You get rejected. So what? Not everyone will be attracted to you. Some men think I am jacked hideous and I’m not upset by it. Not everyone will be attracted to me. So for a man to be insecure over possibly being rejected and not approach is unappealing.
I love confidence in a man. Not many men around me have it.
That is what I am talking about you approached him he liked you and you lost intrest then it's not really the way to do cause now it's hypocritic if certain men do that lots of name calling will be done. i understand your view is actually quite common i feel its a one side game anyways in general men want beauty and sex and women want everything else that's why many relationship fail but a relation will only build if we understand each other and come up with a solution to gain control over insecurities everybody has one but when we truly understand once they are close everything is forgotten and love and care take the Upper hand.
I don’t care what other men do. That has nothing to do with me. Are you telling me that I should give the guy a chance because he’s so insecure that he couldn’t approach? Why would anyone give someone a chance that they’re not attracted to?
It’s not hypocritical. You’re not using the word correctly. It would be hypocritical if a man came up to me, I was interested, and he lost interest because I didn’t approach. If that happened, I’d laugh because I would dodge a bullet: he’d be the same as the insecure men who want women to approach them.
I just think it’s like another man said: the weak who don’t usually have chance to mate desire to and are now attempting to use this as a platform. What makes you think women would be interested? I personally don’t find any weak (and by this I mean personality traits such as insecurity) to be attractive and the only way to find this out would be to have men approach. I have no problem initiating after that but if a man can’t take that first step, it lets me know what he is.
OK anyways I may not be able explain to you what I really meant but I beleive someday there will be a life experience all the best to you enjoy😉❤️
lol. Nah. I like my men who are confident enough to approach. It weeds out the uninteresting ones.
Sure whatever you desire👍🎉
This take is designed only for the young millenial guys. Multitudes of reasons. For men that are men , we all realize the irony of this take.
It is designed for women...
Lmao... at the down votes. Y'all that lame
I don’t want girls to take the lead, I want to take the lead
And why is that?
Because I’m tired of being single it’s all because I’m too much of a coward to ask a girl out on a date and even if I managed to get a date a second date likely and then too afraid to move in for a kiss or stand up for myself
This is a good my take. 😄
😮 🤗 🥊 nice
I bet you have no problem being assertive and direct 🤼♂️
I can be very assertive lol 🥊
@1828avaava1828 is a gorilla from the Congo! She fought for her survival when her siblings turned on her out of jealousy of her mighty talents and physical dominance. People nursed her back to health and took her back to live with Irish society (which is on hiatus due to COVID-19).
It would benefit me cus im still a dateless virgin
Quite an interesting take right here
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Of course, many men wish more women would approach