I dont really know much of my family so true I've head many things from them but my best friends family (who basically took care of me from 14-18) knew a lot of stuff about me that I told them
My dad doesn't know me. I don't know if it's because of me holding back and trying to act perfect around him or because he makes me or pushes me to act like something he wants. I once told him I met someone on a dating app and he gave me shit for it and basically made me regret revealing it in the first place. When we have fights I always realize he doesn know me at all and why would he?
He once wanted to put something in my name and he made me sign an agreement he wrote because he thought I would take it away from him. I felt so insulted. I didn't want this thing, he wanted to give it to me. I think told him to not put this thing in my name since he obviously doesn't trust me. He insisted and I reluctantly signed the paper. I would never do such a thing to him but I guess that's the price I have to pay for being a stranger with him..
Yea. Most people are developing their personalities and don’t even know that they are different to their parents until they are in their late teen or 20’s
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im a very sexual person but I feel like I will be exiled from my family if I loose my virginity. im 23 years old
I have to hide my real self because I know no one would approve it’s actually driving insane to pretend to be something I’m not all the time thank god for alcohol
I hid my bisexuality from my family for a long time, they still talk bad about people who aren't straight so I can't be open about talking how pretty girls are
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I dont really know much of my family so true I've head many things from them but my best friends family (who basically took care of me from 14-18) knew a lot of stuff about me that I told them
That sounds pretty sad, I'm sorry. Glad to hear that yor best friend's family took care of you!
My dad doesn't know me. I don't know if it's because of me holding back and trying to act perfect around him or because he makes me or pushes me to act like something he wants. I once told him I met someone on a dating app and he gave me shit for it and basically made me regret revealing it in the first place. When we have fights I always realize he doesn know me at all and why would he?
He once wanted to put something in my name and he made me sign an agreement he wrote because he thought I would take it away from him. I felt so insulted. I didn't want this thing, he wanted to give it to me. I think told him to not put this thing in my name since he obviously doesn't trust me. He insisted and I reluctantly signed the paper. I would never do such a thing to him but I guess that's the price I have to pay for being a stranger with him..
Some parents are not equipped to be parents
So don’t really be too harsh on yourself
Sorry to hear that
Thanks for the kind words
Specifically relating to my political views, as they are Republicans and I am a reactionary.
Makes perfect sense to not want to talk about politics then.
I never hide how I am. What you see is what you get lol
I have been very open with my folks and they know me inside out
That's lovely!
Lucky you
I have never done that, but I know some people have to
Yeah. I mean there is a lot about me that I don’t tell anyone. They just don’t need to know. Would it change how they view me? probably...
Yea. Most people are developing their personalities and don’t even know that they are different to their parents until they are in their late teen or 20’s
im a very sexual person but I feel like I will be exiled from my family if I loose my virginity. im 23 years old
I totally understand that. My family is the same.
In 2021. Unbelievable.
Yea they don’t know much about me either and that’s fine with me, we really don’t even talk much either but I still consider them family.
No my family are not people you need to hide from, or not be yourself.
You're lucky
The only reason why I hide my personality is because they're just so use to be being so "innocent" and a "good boy" but i'm really dark deep inside.
I mean dark and enthusiastic
I can deeply relate to this.
I have to hide my real self because I know no one would approve it’s actually driving insane to pretend to be something I’m not all the time thank god for alcohol
Oh my... That doesn't sound healthy, I hope you know where to get help in case you have issues with substance/alcohol abuse.
i feel like i'm always trying to pretend to be the really quite girl with my parents. But when i'm out i turn savage lol
I hid my bisexuality from my family for a long time, they still talk bad about people who aren't straight so I can't be open about talking how pretty girls are
I have been successfully hiding my affairs and sex life from family. No one knows my real thoughts and secret relationship.
I used to hide things from my parents more; now I've told them some of the things I did in the past that I didn't at the time.
as a guy with a dirty mind, sure there is a lot to hide.
Does one have a developed personality by that time, even?