The one thing men want in women - it’s not beauty

[jennifer_bloom]

The one thing guys want in woman is not beauty or wealth or charm or youth but loyalty and trust and emotional loyalty to him. A woman that does not cheat is more attractive than a supermodel with an Ivy League brain. Because a man cannot love a woman he does not trust, no matter how good she looks or how smart she is.

[MuddyMole]

Hardly.
I mean sure, obviously they *do* want that, but that's just something basic that everyone expects, and in itself, is not even close to the minimum requirement for dating someone.

[areddym123456]

kkkkkkkkkk

[7barbieringz]

This goes both ways. Women would like a loyal man too. a lot of men want loyalty but are not willing to give it

[Anonymous]

One thing i don’t get is when a girl says “you seem like a sweet guy, you’re handsome, you have your life together with school/work” but doesn’t want to give you the time of day even if you are loyal. Plenty of girls have told me I look handsome or that I’m funny and yet still single. Finding a girl and winning her heart is not easy at all. I’m not even one of those guys who cares about what a girl does career wise, she could be an administrative assistant for a small company and I’ll fine with that. She doesn’t need 10,000+ followers for me to recognize her “coolness”. She doesn’t need make up on or have a fake ass like Kim Kardashian.

But I’m sorry, girls strive for that high end life and then they go after guys who are a few years older then her but dude looks like he’s 50. Girls will say I want an independent man or guy but fail to realize if she chooses a dude who’s just as broken as her or more and he uses getting tattoos or drinks heavily or does drugs as his “stress relievers” that relationship is a recipe for disaster because she will have to “tend” to his rollercoaster moods as well, I’m spitting facts not nonsense. If people disagree with my comment feel free to dislike it.

[Moose304]

I'm going to somewhat disagree with the comment. While I don't judge a female on her looks, I do judge her on how well she takes care of herself and her body. I won't waste my time with a female that is a couch potato and watches cooking shows all day long. I had rather be around a female that is full of confidence and places herself first. To me, a girl that does this is VERY comfortable with who she is and this means in most situations she is also happy. Being loyal and trustworthy is just as important. I guess what I am trying to say is I place value on the whole person.

[DWornock]

Looks are far ahead of anything that comes in second. Go to any night club, dance, or other social event where guys and girls go to meet and sit back an observe. You will notice, that almost without any exceptions, they all act as if looks is the only thing.

[mantelk]

People are looking for hookups not girl friends

[DWornock]

@mantelk That is often true. However, typically guys meet their girlfriends at social events.

[mantelk]

Yea man, find what your interests are and you will find a good girl friend at places with like minded people. Clubs aren't a place where girls who are worthy of being girl friends go. Maybe go to bars or join a tennis club or something. Do you honestly want a girl friend that is clubbing grinding with all kinds of guys, probably slept with many guys? I don't want that. Sometimes I don't even wanna have sex with girls like that, let alone have them as my girl friend. Girl friend should be someone you actually like and respect, not hoes like this.

[DWornock]

@mantelk I doubt that you will meet anyone that doesn't occasionally go to clubs with their friends.

[mantelk]

Most of the more classy girls that go to clubs go to dance with their girlfriends and ignore the men.

[DWornock]

@mantelk We must be from different planets. At clubs and other social events, that I go to, most girls dance with guys; not other girls. In the movie, "Roman Holiday," in the initial political event, the princess (played by the very classy Audrey Hepburn) danced with men; not women.

[mantelk]

The girls that are hanging out with their own group are the only kind of girls that are girlfriend material. If you wanna call in love with sluts it's ur choice

[shaysh87]

Take a look at what men on GAG worship about. Trust me, its never about loyalty or personality. Typically is just about looks and how "attractive " she is.

[Anonymous]

Sounds nice but it’s not true. A girl who I find physically unattractive can be as loyal as she likes, I still don’t want her.

[TwinkleLily5]

I think men want this and so do women but is this at the top of their want list, I don’t think so—if your a man what is your main want in a woman?

[Sixgunsound]

I think it’s that men want respect and women want trust, but in such a way that women’s respect for a man is impossible without trusting him and a man’s ability to trust a woman cannot exist in the absence of respect. It goes back to early development of peer relationships where boys have to get and give respect to be best friends and girls have to share confidences and secrets and have that trust maintained to be best friends. A mature adult romantic relationship is ideally your closest best friend that you have a family and a life together with, but the schema for that relationship has existed far longer than the relationship itself. If this seems like a logical pretzel to you try being the one to wrestle it into words.

[TwinkleLily5]

@sixgunsounds good point..

[DermalPunch]

@Sixgunsound Very excellent articulation!

[Kkstarzz96]

How do you gain trust by living proof of something? Do you have examples in mind?

[jennifer_bloom]

If you are trustworthy you will look trustworthy once people spend enough time around you to read you.

[Anonymous]

The one thing? Not so much. It is one thing they want, and an important one, but there are plenty of others.

[anylolone]

That's such a beautiful text.
And a demonstrable lie.
Yes, the thing men value the most isn't beauty, but certainly it ain't loyalty.

[bluesy33]

Then what is it?

[anylolone]

@bluesy33 In a lot of ways, the same thing women are after.
Power, influence, status, superiority, finesse.

A lot of women don't understand how "superior men" favor "inferior women", they are just too retarded to understand those women are superior in all the relevant ways, way superior in their ability to navigate social environments because they needed to learn how.

And it's not like men are more honest about their tastes and inclinations.

That pisses me off, a lot.

[MannyFrs]

better than being pissed on though am i right?

[mantelk]

It's laughable that you think all that nonsense is more important than looks and loyalty. Your values are all degraded.

[anylolone]

@mantelk It's not what I think is more important, is what I observe is treated as more important by men in their mate selection processes.

[mantelk]

The culture has become perverted from pornography. First of all sex is just one aspect of a relationship but it's been blown out of proportion. People are addicted to sex and are compulsive slaves to lust. These things you mentioned do not matter to healthy men at all and they can even become a burden. Shallow men who waste their life have become materialistic and degraded. A healthy man wants to be with a simple, good, loyal beautiful girl. Those other things have got nothing to do with love. It's trashy to even value these things. The whole superior inferior status thing is the creation of retards. To think someone is superior or inferior than another is a disgusting, nasty, distorted, almost abusive way to see the world. Rich people who often get rich through exploitation and manipulation want you to think like that and it's a narcissistic deception. Snap out of it my man

[anylolone]

@mantelk That's a staple of humanity, don't blame the culture or pornography, blame evolution.

[mantelk]

It is not the staple of humanity in fact it is the very lack of being in touch with humanity and relatively new phenomenon. Also a phenomenon more prevalent in Western materialistic cultures. People have lost touch with truth and reality and awareness and you see it as human nature. Culture and pornography are direct causes and just because the masses are now retarded doesn't mean retardation is human nature.

[anylolone]

@mantelk Have you seen tribal cultures? They don't have porn. Their taste isn't much different, be it in men or women.

[mantelk]

Culture and Tribal are opposite. Humanity and Lust are also opposites

[anylolone]

@mantelk Nope, cultural and tribal aren't opposites. Tribes have cultures, actually basically all legislation they have is raw culture.

[mantelk]

Culture is the aesthetic humanitarian refinement of tribal compulsiveness. Unfortunately Western nations have no idea what culture is. Ugly things don't survive in strong cultures. They are looked at as parasites, not worshipped.

[anylolone]

@mantelk Nope, that's not the definition of culture.

[mantelk]

I dont think you have any experience with culture. There is no culture in North America.

[anylolone]

@mantelk You made a wrong semantic argument, all I'm doing is correcting it.
Culture doesn't mean what you think it means.

Also, I'm not currently in the US and I'm not American.

[Babygirl_S]

I love your beautiful thoughts but I doubt it's true 🤔.

[mantelk]

Facts. A cheating woman is less attractive than cow dong

[Creampiekarl420]

No that’s not what men want we want cooperation which you should know this as a Christian woman

[MannyFrs]

as if being a "Christian" means anything lol

Define Christian lol

[Shiningtempest]

@jennifer_bloom I find a loyal woman who enjoys playing video games more attractive than a woman with beauty & brain.

[notwoke]

nope, wrong. Rules for girls:

1. Don't be fat

[Avicenna]

You’re right about this

[ElizaPam]

Men want our submission

[Chiarac2003]

Both ways with that.

[justsomemale]

Faithfulness

[ElvenMr]

You would think that's a default lol

[BadTameez_DJ]

Should be more caring than men :)