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Women, Don't Try To Change Him, He'll Change Himself If He Loves You (Page 2)
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If a man will change for you, he doesn’t respect himself. You’ll never respect a man who doesn’t respect himself. So don’t take this fool’s advice to heart. Just sayin’.
Love me for me. If you’re trying to change me then you don’t love me. You love yourself and want me.
Unconditional love doesn't exist. So you comment is bs. A person will always wish your weakness were better. If your mean, she will wish you weren't mean. There is nothing wrong with that. You should be trying to be a better person regardless of the relationship.
@BUTIMRIGHTTHO unconditional love does exist. Just because you’ve never experienced it in your short life doesn’t mean others haven’t either.
Being better, yes, excellent goal. But being manipulated to change behavior instead of encouraging improvement is what I’m talking about.
Okay yeah manipulation is wrong.
Age and awareness are not linked.
Personal beings are incapable of unconditional love. (My claim)
I'll give you unrelated hypothetical examples to support my claim.
Parent and Child:
Parents can dislike something in their son and that right there makes it conditional.
Parents love THEIR son and not other people's son and that makes it conditional.
Romantic relationship:
How did they end up with that person?
They liked this about them, that about them... Those are conditions...
Unconditional love is based literally on nothing. Nothing. Humans don't do that.
The closest humans get is loving a person so much that they can learn to accept the bad with the good.
In summary, If I can point to why I love you, that is conditional love.
Humans are incapable of unconditional love.
Anything that can judge cannot love unconditionally.
There is only 1 argument that can be made against my claims.
And any person who would know it, would probably agree with my claims.
Anyway, perhaps maybe you don't disagree with me but have a completely different idea of what unconditional means. And if so that is fine.
You shouldn't want someone to change. If you fell in love with the person that they were when you met them, then why the hell would you want them to become someone else?
Usually the woman trying to change the guy is ignoring the stuff she should change about herself.
It's impossible to change someone. All one can do is encourage them to change themselves, and that only works if they want to change.
I'd make a change to "He'll change himself if he loves you." What's wrong with "You'll accept him as he is, if you love him."? Or even, "He'll change himself if he wants to."?
You are form a generation where people were higher quality than today on average. There's a lot of people who should not even be in relationships, telling others they know best & trying to change others today.
i'm not sure if i want him to change for me but i'm sure i want him to change for God
I think the only time a man will ever change is when he loses the woman he truly loves or if he has a child with her and he loves that child deeply so he changes.
If I'm wrong so comment.
Kid has little to do with it.
There is nothing worse than a woman who leads a man to believe she loves HIM, and then SHOWS him that it is not HIM she loves, but rather who she WANTS him to be.
Women don't really want to change a man. It's a test. Women don't want a man who would change for anything. They want someone strong asf.
Wrong... as usual.
@DermalPunch you know it's true. No woman will ever admit it though. 😂
Some women expect men to change without telling him. Men won't change anything if they aren't told what their woman wants them to change.
A quote from the game Prince of Persia that I'll never forget:
"Seasons change, tastes change. But people... people never change. You delude yourself believing otherwise."
No it is scientifically proven that people can change dramatically. This is basic knowledge.
@BUTIMRIGHTTHO yup
Both must change themselves. Both must be reborn.
Well done. 👏
Thank you its comes from having Greg hair
Grey
Makes sense to me.
True story!