I thought but my thoughts weren't thoughtful...

[Anonymous]

There are times when we let the voices of others shape how we feel about someone, even though we don’t truly know them. It’s painful to realize that we allowed negativity, gossip, or hurtful opinions to cloud our judgment. We thought we knew the person, or we allowed ourselves to believe the worst because of the words of people who didn’t have our best interests at heart. It’s as if we let others’ hatred seep into our own hearts, and we began to see that person through a lens of unfairness and anger. And then, somewhere along the way, it hits us—the truth. We realize that our thoughts were not our own, that we allowed outside noise to influence how we saw someone, and it’s a crushing feeling. The regret starts to build as we understand that we didn’t give them the chance they deserved. The realization that we misjudged someone because of external pressures can sting deeply, making us wish we had been stronger, more thoughtful, and less susceptible to the negativity around us. We’re left with the painful truth that our hearts weren’t as open as they should’ve been, and we long to correct the mistake.

[pav616]

Wow, I agree 100% and that is something I have stressed to my children telling them I do not want them to think negative or positively about someone they don't know based on the feelings of others. I told them even if I say something about someone I want them to make there opinion based on their personal experience with that person.

[Jay-_-]

Literally dealing with rumors about me from every angle of my life.

[Jay-_-]

Beautifully written.

[myTake Owner]

Thank you Jay🩷

[Jay-_-]

Thank you for writing it. 💙

[Bklynbadboy12]

Girl you need ro go out and some type of job where you writing or do some short stories I promise you'll get published. The way you write ir powerful it sucks you in. Hats of to you this was well written!!!

[myTake Owner]

Thanks again 🙂

[exitseven]

As long as you are not hearing voices you are okay.

[myTake Owner]

Lol,

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Its ok Jesus forgives us aslong as we forgive others. Humility, repentance and forgiveness are not weak traits it shows vulnerability just as squaring off your shoulders and exposing your neck.

[Manuelwe]

I sudjest that once these voices get out if control seek help. In fact seek help now

[strateguy632]

I agree, be less judgmental.

[ThigJack]

What skimble-skamble stuff, yet wow

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for your skimble-skamble comment, I guess lol

[fish5505_87]

Powerful!

[myTake Owner]

Thanks!