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It's not about the looks but about the personality. Even, if somebody is good looking that doesn't automatically mean that they are a bitch or an asshole. The same goes with somebody that is less attractive. You will meet people who aren't as attractive and treat you how you don't want to be treated. You will meet people are attractive and nice to you. You will have somebody who isn't as attractive treat you good and have somebody attractive not treat you well. In the end it all comes down to personality of that person and not how they look.
I never wrote that attractive people are assholes... and i never said that ugly people are nice!
I was just giving examples.
Oh... bcz most of the people commented this... so i thought you misunderstood my take...
No problem i understand your example :)
eh it's not really that complex, not that this is very complex anyways. What are people looking for when they go to a club or a bar? ... A good looking person. Looks matters more for sure. It's not hard to be a nice person.
Its a one night stand... i guess... not a relationship!
I think that chart for personality is a little mixed up because tyra banks is beautiful and an amazing person...
I just googled the image... and found the comparision chart nice. :)
Lol well tyra most of the people it says are shitty are some of the most influential people on the planet haha
Meant to delete tyras name oops lol
Ok!!
Wow don't need to get all defensive. I'm just saying you should at least get your facts right Mr. Under 18
No... i didn't get defensive! I accepted wht you said!! Cz i am not a celebrity fan or something.. so i dont know any more details than their face and name!
Once again if you are going to post something g you should probably check your facts first
I'm a good looking guy and my personality doesn't make me ugly to girls ;)
Which means you are perfect! Keep that up!
lol thanks bro <3
It's not an either/or situation, just sayian. I know some despicably mean uglies and some kind and gorgeous babes, as well as ugly sweethearts and beautiful spoiled brats. It's a world of grey, people, not black and white.
So true.
not trying to brag but pretty much every day of my life i've been told im good looking, whether it be verbal or non verbal. and im pretty great socially
If you have a great personality.. its awesome.. if you dont try to develope it!
How you carry/groom/take care of yourself is huge, and how you let you unique personality come through in the clothes you choose and way you express yourself is highly underrated. Everyone except a few genetic rarities look amazing in boring mall clothes and not working out. It is very easy to get people to not notice a long nose or a thick waist if the rest of yourself is fabulous and captivating.
Everyone except looks LESS THAN
I always think about how people like Rick singers or character actors are sexy even when they aren't perfectly pretty. Don't worry about what people say you are supposed to look like. CHOOSE sexy and amazing for yourself.
Geez ROCK I hate auto correct
Ummm you actually confused me? :)
People should worry less about fitting into conventional ideas of "beauty" and be their own amazing selves
Thats... true too... but as i said both matters.. so we need to give our 20% on looks and 60% on personality and 20% on yourself!
I think looks are a first impression. That's what gets a person to talk to you. but amazing personality makes you look 5 times better.
I wonder what celebrities real personalities are like, often. Everything we see on TV is fake-ish, so it's becoming hard to tell who these people really are. I wish more people became famous because of their personalities! I'd feel more significant and capable of more as a girl, instead of wishing I were perfect. /:)
The sad truth is that almost no relationship will happen unless you are first physically attracted to that individual. Then gauge that person's character after getting to know him/her better.
It's human nature
Yes it is a point tooo...
But i guess in a relationship for long term personality is important than looks!
Personality looks will fade. And what if your future happiness was with someone who's looks we're bad now but you'd love them in the future...
"Personality looks will fade?"
@rubberduckie everyone is turning old
By bragging loudly that looks will fade eventually, you are proven to yourself that you are still conformed to the deceptive society where it only values beauty over looks. Importantly, I know that your future boyfriend or husband must be really attractive to you. You will not give the ugly guy a chance.
attractive. removed the words to you.
Very well said, in the past I always went for not just the good looking
girls, but the super gorgeous ones. When I look back, how dumb that
was. There were so many girls who were just average who were a whole
lot nicer. The personality with the average looks or barely average looks
kills the super gorgeous who are stuck up.
both matter...
but then good personality and looks aren't even well clearly defined...
Yes... i will make another take for a good personality!
too bad. People are too stupid to acknowledge that personality truly rules over looks in the long term. However, girls are too superficial in dating that they mostly date attractive, bad guys. Nerdy guys are left behind. Also, race does matter in a relationship.
That generalisation right there... yeah, that's what makes many people unattractive. Claiming to be the "nerdy nice guy" and then making sweeping statements like that is not only a reflection of how you view an entire demographic (one that you are supposedly interested in chatting up, going by that "sour grapes" attitude), but also how you view yourself. Confidence is sexy, arrogance and self-pity are bloody hideous, regardless of how you look. Guys and girls, don't do this, please.
Confidence is sexy. I am throwing up right now. If it happens, men will be happy with no rejections.
Fixed. If this phenomenon happens that women in general like confident guys, there will be single men. Women are likely to reject guys by saying the phase "I have a boyfriend." I must say that ugly men will be single forever. Of course, race matters in a relationship. By the way, all women are preferably going to cheat on their husbands or boyfriends. Why do guys bother asking them out?
Nerdy guys dont have confidence that charm a bad guy has..
But also... they dont have much resposibility... which creates a toxic relationship!
Personality. I feel like if you have a nice personality it makes you "look better." You could be an average joe but if you have a cool personality it will make you more attractive.
Personality matters more but looks are like 30% important to me
basically an ugly personality will make anyone ugly, no matter how attractive.
Attractive people (in my experience) have more outgoing personalities, likely due to higher confidence.
Also, there's no point trying to undermine the importance of looks.
But does outgoing = good?
It does to me.
Looks matter
Personality matters as well
But then you get a girl that has good of both :)
Looks will get your foot in the door but personality will keep your partner around longer
Others should read this... nice 1