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In my opinion cheating is never okay. But that's just men.
Women cheat at about an equal rate. 72% of men cheat, 70% women cheat.
I meant me* not men. Sorry
@peterpan11 this is crazy!!! What are your thoughts? (You still can't use bad words;-) )
(THIS IS PETER) i have been in a relationship where i was cheated on. IT IS NOT OK!!! if you build someone up. one your "love" for them then tear them down by cheating on them. it is the cruelest thing you could do. people have walls for a reason. if you break those walls down saying "i'll never hurt you" "you can trust me" then the break them in the way that those walls were built for. it is one of the worst feeling someone could go through in my opinion. you should be ashamed of yourself.
one um by the way tink i sorta stabbed my head with a sewing needle... funny story really...
(This is Tinkerbell) yeah I think you pretty much summed it up...
(This is Tinkerbell) when did you do that? What happened?
Never Neverland is a tough place to get your relationship experience from, Peter--everyone there are children. Adult relationships have different dynamics.
very mature mr. cheating is ok.
i'll tell you tomorrow. remind me.
(This is Tinkerbell) ok I'll remind you.
it makes one feel uneasy to know that their partner is cheating
You have to speak for yourself, It wouldn't bother me knowing she's cheating, not in the slightest. No different than her masturbating, just that she happens to have someone inside her. So what?
how but I don't and say I didn't. you just want someone to agree with this ridiculousness..
There's nothing ridiculous about any of this. 72% of men cheat, 70% of women. Why be ashamed of our behavior? Just embrace it and bring it out into the open. Everyone consumes some form of erotica, whether it's p*rn or novels, everyone masturbates. The next thing to socially accept is cheating, since it IS the cultural norm. Why deny it?
I have cheated and have been cheated on I'd never do it again to someone.
And why did you feel ashamed? Because you have been conditioned to feel that way--naturally, you wanted what you wanted, and the person who cheated on you did the same. Rather than shaming each other out of jealousy, possessiveness, and selfishness, let's embrace our nature instead.
because I'd rather not be the person responsible for breaking someone's heart no thank you I'm good. cheating wouldn't happen more than likely if people just talked and communicated what they are needing from the other person, and being more receptive instead of being defensive when the person tries to tell them that they aren't giving them enough attention for example.
Ha ha ha, good luck with that bro!
It's been fine so far. I've no doubt I'm being cheated on too. But why get upset about it? It's our natural behavior. It's like getting angry at a dog for going the bathroom on the rug. You put the dog in an unnatural setting and get angry at it for doing what it does--you are behaving rather cruelly, are you not?
Why define it as a wrong when it's our natural behavior? If you define swimming as immoral, then all fish are sinners. Rather a violent way to think, no, condemning them for their natural behavior?
Non-cheaters, imagine the following:
1) You become stranded on an island for the rest of your life.
2) The only people with you are a few monogamous married couples.
3) Many years pass by and you wonder if you’ll ever get laid again before you die.
4) Then, one day, someone’s spouse (that you’re attracted to) starts making moves on you.
I’m not going to ask “what would you do”, because I already know. Case closed.
No way on this face of the earth is this ever going to be OK. Instant DUMP!!
Wow, you are possessive, jealous, and selfish. Why would you treat a partner that way?
Where i come from things like this is never ok and i already explained this to my partner and she totally agrees with me.
I don't believe in monogamy, so cheating is a non-issue for me. There is only honest (she tells me about it) or dishonesty (she does it behind my back) and vice versa, naturally.
Hey, guess what, if she was dishonest, she cheated. Learn the language that you use to better understand what you attempt to communicate.
No, you're wrong there. There are a million ways to be dishonest. You don't have to always have lied about fucking someone else.
You're being trolled people -_-
FFS. How is it not obvious to people?
He who cheats has no room to complain if their partner does the same.
Why would I complain? I assume she's doing it, what's the harm?
I hope you get cheated on.
I likely am, since about 70% of women cheat. Why get upset about it? Why define it as a wrong when it's our natural behavior? If you define swimming as immoral, then all fish are sinners. Rather a violent way to think of them, no?
70% of women cheat? Whoa, that seems like an absurdly high statistic. Where did you find that?
@Jbunk, about 72% of men cheat as well
www.washingtonpost.com/.../gIQANGdaBR_story.html
It's rather silly to keep pretending that we believe in Puritan ideals of sex, don't you think?
stop trying to justify being an asshole
Why define it as a wrong when it's our natural behavior? If you define swimming as immoral, then all fish are sinners. Rather a violent way to think, no? Condemning them for their natural behavior?
How about everyone who thinks cheating is okay stick to polyamorous relationships?
Then this wouldn't be an issue.
Woah, where did you dig up this myTake? I forgot about it.
Anyway... Polyamory and cheating aren't the same thing at all, of course. However, I do agree that open relationships and being selfless sexually are the proper route to romantic happiness.
To some, but not others.
That's why you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who has different sexual view. I would never in a million years cheat on my partner. I am strictly monogamous which is why I must also find someone who is strictly monogamous.
hmmm I'd rather not cheat
Why deny your nature?
i'm a loyal person I don't want to change that
What does that have anything to do with sex?
omg you were always loyal to 🐼🍟🍫
@BeautifulPromisesx yes I am❤
*shares twix and cheeseburger🍔🍔🍟🍫
No we can't have cheese burger for breakfast lmao can you make breakfast tho bc I have cramps?
Sure do u like eggs🍳🍞
Yes but how else will you tc of meeee🙁❤️
We'll cuddle with bacon and chocolate and netflix🍫🍫🍴🍳🍤
I can't eat bacon :O muslim girl problems 😂 Turkey Bacon?
Dammit 😂😂yes turkey
And pancakes with waffles because why not both, and ice cream
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This is bullshit!
This is innovation.
Nope bullshit
I understand this is a radical departure from the norm. Maybe you'll catch up someday.
Maybe one day you will see how stupid you are this is pointless you are blocked
It's not innovation. It's giving up and conforming. It's being fooling the current from weakness
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Don't listen to Take Owner, he is just pushing for the destruction of honesty and integrity. I suspect he likes the thought of there being lots of little girls involved in the sex-trade.
It's fine I have a Bf of my own and will never do anything like that ever
@mef1975
A strawman fallacy and a non sequitur fallacy in one answer.
All of my what.
I call troll.
You're looney.
I'm honest.
Never said you weren't ;)
I may be the only honest person here.
Gag needs more of those.. keep it up
https:// i61. tinypic. com/kbvl95. jpg
YAY! CHEATING IS OK!
Someone who gets it.
DEAR GOD, JACK!
@Prettykangaroos
Haha, I don't really think cheating is OK.
A genuine shame. I'd hoped there would be someone else here who's enlightened on the matter.
There's nothing really wrong with it as long as you and your partner are aware of what's going on. All the concepts you list are true, but people that are not in that mindset for the most part.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but you're talking about a universal acceptance of polyamory/free love without regard to/destruction of the societally developed ego, which had its place in the 1960s and other times in history but will most likely never gain universal acceptance in capitalistic, modern technological society because of the importance of legal unions (marriage) and generations of psychological shaming from other institutions.
But I suppose you can always change the world one mind at a time. Live your own life!
I would say you seem to have an idea of what I'm saying, but no need to split hairs on something like GaG to fully explain, you've got the essence. One mind at a time, as you say.
I'm pretty sure I know exactly what you're saying, just trying to stay realistic/practical about it. But you are right, all interesting ideas are considered radical when first introduced.
Jack I was not expecting this from you :/
You are an idiot.
I am expressing an honest and valid opinion. Cheating is no different than masturbation.