myTakes: Relationships

For me, a guy has never made the first move. Once, a long time ago, I told a guy I liked them and they came back and said the same thing, but not after I'd confessed. I think it's a really good idea to just straight-up...

I'm one of those long time lurkers, who has never posted, but today I want to share something that's been bothering me for a while. I AM NOT COMPLAINING, but simply bringing light to an issue that many girls like me have...

Most people have no idea about society, or at least find it really hard to read social queues. They are desperately trying to figure out if someone likes them or not, or why people behave like they do. I want to share my...

This is my personal belief and Im aware others will have theirs. If giving an opinion try actually give a reason why you feel a certain way. Cursing or complaing about another's opinion without explaining yours is...

I'm sure almost every girl on this planet has been with a guy who never called her his girlfriend or he said he didn't want anything serious. Yet the next girl he's with is not only being called "girlfriend" , but in many...

I'm sure many girls around the world wonder: "Why doesn't he want something serious with me?", "Am I not good enough for him?" , so did I as well for many years. I've met many guys in my life, dated some of them, received...

Emotional Manipulator Emotional manipulators are extremely destructive, very skilful and highly perceptive. Their awareness of your emotions is off the charts. The most powerful mechanism they have for control is...

The attatchment theory (by John Bowlby) is a theory that heavily depends on your childhood and child's relationships with their caretakers such as parents, grandparents and gaurdians. The amount of attention and love you...

I've been cheated on and I've also been the cheater. I won't give you the whole sob story behind why I cheated but it was a nasty relationship, he wasn't a good guy and cheating was the only way I could cope. Before...

There are a lot of questions posted by ladies here about things a man says and what he means and I will try my best to answer them and guys, help me out. Correct me if I am wrong or expand more on what I am saying... 1....

*~*~ Inspired by everyone whom has cheated, or has been cheated on~*~* Don't get me wrong, I have been cheated on quite a few times and have wondered why, but I picked myself up and tried again, I have never forgiven a...

What Is Love ? This goes down to the very question of what is love? The dictionary defines it as "a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone." and "an intense feeling of deep affection." but is this not what...

It's ironic that the thing we use to connect us and allows us to be 'social' can do the exact opposite for some people. I recently thought to myself that I don't feel lonely, but social media is usually what brings on...

Hey guys, this Mytake was written from a girl who has 2 best guy friends, 2 best girl friends and the rest of my friends are pretty much guys. So this is from experience (at least 3 years experience). Pros: 1. New Hobbies...

#Abuse #Relationships I am writing this myTake in response to @ CrazyyChick's excellent take Things You Need to Know about Abuse In Relationships and the comments made by a few select individuals who really don't seem...

This mytake was inspired by another mytake recently written, here. One thing @estoydorado1 had said was. Why a lack of trust is a reason against my S/O having access to my private accounts. True to a point If they are...

Just like the 2003 movie "How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days", we females thought we have been loving our guys all along but we have been doing it wrong sending the poor guy away running for the hills. Let me count the ways:...

Today is Valentine's day. And everybody is talking about what presents should they buy to their S/O,they are thinking about confessing to people they like,what they should do if they are single and blah blah blah. I love...

Financial Compatibility/Incompatibility in a relationship can sometimes be a topic of debate. On one side of the fence you have the people who believe love rules over all facets of a relationship including money and...

Trust can take years to develop, but it can be destroyed in a second. People with trust issues most of the time had negative expiriences themselves in the past OR they've seen people that they dearly love getting...