The Struggle With Reading Social Queues Too Well

[inlovewiththesun]

Most people have no idea about society, or at least find it really hard to read social queues. They are desperately trying to figure out if someone likes them or not, or why people behave like they do. I want to share my view on the world with you today. Because I can say about myself, that one of my best skills are reading social queues. I love interacting with people, but I also like to spectate sometimes. There are so many things I am figuring out. people wish they could read society like that, but here is why I love being so good in it but also often struggle with the fact that society is transparent to me:

Nothing is ever a surprise for me

You may ask yourself if this guy/girl likes you and you try so hard every day. But you know, sometimes I wonder if my mind is tricking me and convincing me to believe something or not. Because when a guy like me, I don´t take long to recognize it, but often I just don´t want it to be true and I convince myself he doesn´t. The other way around it´s even worse. When I like a guy, and I know he doesn´t like me back because that´s not hard to figure out either, I am so desperately looking for signs he does, but deep down I know he doesn´t. So frustrating. Sometimes you´re just happier with not knowing.

I always know it better than any advice I could receive, but I don't want to know it better

I actually just have to dig in my mind to find the answer to social problems, but I still keep asking websites like this one or my friends to help me out. I actually don´t need help. But asking gives me somehow the feeling to give up responsibility and also just getting things confirmed.

I know who's fake and who's not

thats actually a great plus. A bit disappointing sometimes, because I can see how many people in this world are actually fake and will tell everyone your secret. But of course it´s a great way for me to avoid toxic people.

Avoiding embarrassing situations

also a great plus. people are so predictable how they´d react that I don´t even need to try it when I know it couldn´t work, like revealing feelings or stuff like that.

Human behaviors make so much sense

I just love to see all those connections like a huge spider web of actions and reactions. I know that no action and reaction is random and I feel like some kind of detective figuring out the backgrounds. Humans are freaking interesting! Sometimes I even keep doing my own little social experiments to test out more and explore more of society.

Thanks for reading my thoughts and view on the world :)

[Logorithim]

Very good Take. Most of us get better at discerning this stuff as we get older, and, of course, the dynamics change as well.

[DocilexElle]

You're a smart girl. Never stop writing <3