Best friend tried to seduce me! (HELP)

[ChildishGambino]

This girl i known for ages!! she's my best friend and last night she told me to come over to her place.. i thought nothing of it so i come over an we just start talking about stuff an she turns on music and im sitting at the kitchen table and she comes over to my chair an starts giving me a lap dance and i thought nothing of it b/c she plays around alot... BUT a few moments later she's pinning me to the chair trying to make out... i told her to stop an i left her place... next thing you know she is blowing up my phone an whatnot..

Should i just act as if nothing happened or confront her... cause that was awkward!

Updates

+1 y

i also forgot to mention to you guys... that i do find girls attractive an she knows that... i guess she got the wrong idea?

[nicecoolguy]

If you can, try to think nothing of it. She put herself out there, and if you don't forgive her, she will never put herself out there for anyone ever again. Try to make it into a playful joke, and eventually she'll think you didn't really care.

[ChildishGambino]

Your right thanks... but its still awkward

[pedro28]

Confront her and be honest about the way you feel. cut out the foreplay and just be direct.

[ChildishGambino]

Thanks

[pedro28]

you're welcome.

[katydollxx]

let them know how you feel

[noisychicken]

Just let her know your not interested if she tries it again, tell her it's over no need to be friends with someone who won't take no for an answer.

[molan]

Confront her and have a open talk about both your feelings, she is a lesbian and you are not, if you both can respect one another despite it, you can keep you friendship.

[decemberxblue]

Tell her you aren't interested and if she doesn't respect that the friendship is over.

[ChildishGambino]

Through text?

[decemberxblue]

When you're older, no. At your age that may suffice

[ChildishGambino]

She is 23 though o. O does that matter

[decemberxblue]

In that case, you should probably tell her over the phone or in person. Why is she trying to seduce a minor?

[ChildishGambino]

I dont know? We grew up together.. even though she was always older we were always close but thanks lol

[decemberxblue]

I'm not judging, I just thought it was unusual/interesting as you seldom see the older person being a girl. But give her the respect of telling her. You don't have to be mean about it, "Hey, I just wanted to let you know I'm not interested in having that kind of relationship. If our friendship means anything to you you'll stop. I'm not mad at you but this isn't something I'm OK with doing."

[ChildishGambino]

Your so blunt lol... geesh.. but your right...

[decemberxblue]

No need to beat around the bush. :-) Regardless of the methodology you choose, good luck.

[Anonymous]

What's funny is that she knows you have a boyfriend... I mean, did you like it, or was it just so weird you wouldn't become bi for it? Thanks for the "softcore porn" by the way

[ChildishGambino]

O. o lol?