My boyfriend has stopped doing the little things.

[nursesarah3]

Okay so...my boyfriend is everything I want in a guy...personality, looks, sweet, caring, sensitive...and he has always done the sweetest little things like bringing me my favorite candy to work or just calling to say I love you, he has slept at my house every night I haven't worked for 7 months (I work graveyards) random texts about how much he loves me and always making me feel beautiful and like a princess. But lately stopped coming to see me at work and he ditched me for weed he just isn't doing any of those things anymore and only cares about getting drunk high and working. He is my best friend. What do I do. I love him and don't want to loose him.

[sscream]

if you're sure the problem isn't a new girl, try and find out what's troubling him, it sounds like he's under a lot of pressure. but if he wouldn't talk, don't force him, and let him open up on his own little by little. if you do you might push him over the edge and he'll feel like you're clingy and you might lose your realationship. let him know that you'll be there for him and he can confide in you anytime.

[WeaponZero]

It sounds like the honeymoon phase of your relationship is ending. This getting drunk and high thing, just is who he is and when the relationship was "new" you were the center of his world but that doesn't last in relationships. That's the honeymoon phase.