Wanting to break up because I want to be single again?

[Anonymous]

from ages 17- now (23) I've been on and off with really steady relationships and i want to break it off with my guy of almost 5 years :( i feel like the sooner the better because I want to be single again, he's talking about having kids and getting married and im so young i haven't gone crazy yet. this sounds bad but i wanna do me and i wanna have fun and i wanna hook up with guys and even try girls and just have my time and if we end up together along the road again thats cool. but i do love him and dont wanna hurt him i just dont know how to express this and break up with him :( help

[Snowe]

So wait, do you want to be single, or do you want to stay dating for now and NOT get married yet? If you're wanting to be single, stop stringing this poor guy along! He doesn't deserve that. If you're just not wanting to get married, just tell him that you don't want kids and marriage until later down the road. If he's not okay with that, well tough luck.

[Jersey1]

Wow. This country is in trouble because so many people are like this. I think a lot of girls would like to trade places with you. Live out your life just don't ask me to pay extra taxes because you can't afford the kids that you have by accident.

[bdeakol]

How is it "really steady" if you guys have been on and off?
Break it off, if you're not feeling it anymore then there's no need to stay with him.

[ilovchipmunk]

You're gonna regret that in 7 years.

[Calex]

Sounds like something a guy would do.