My boyfriend spites me when we get into arguements. How come? Is he needing to mature a little bit?

[Anonymous]

He spites me when we get into arguements. He will do things that he knows hurts me, to feel in control, to feel superior. I do not do that to him, and if I do, it is not intentional, ans I tell him sorry. But his actions, they are intentional, because he has admitted it to me in times.

What do I do? Or Um, how do I deal with this. I do not want to break up with him. :)

[KillerTaco]

When you know he's doing something to be spiteful IGNORE him. He only does it to get a rise/reaction out of you. No matter how much 8th irritates you ignore his childish escapades. Just like a child that has a temper tantrum he does it because he can't have his way and he knows what to do to make you give in.

[XNicholeMariex3]

Some people never mature.
All you can do is tell him to grow up and stop being a little asshole.
Good luck.

[singlebee]

Yes he defiantly need to be a lot more mature... arguments happen in every relationships... but no one does this kind of bull shit... this is wrong... you say you dont want to breakup but you should know that he will not mature overnight... and not until and unless he realises it...