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What to do when your boyfriend says another girl is hotter than you? (Page 2)
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Honestly his behavior is very rude, whether he meant or not. He is your boyfriend, not someone on the street. His interests should be on you not on someone else s. Being beautiful, finding someone more hotter is just bullshit. Relationships are not found on beauty. There are way more important things. If he's not aware of this, then that is it.
He wants a breakup. Then give it to him.
what a dick lol. if you watched The Office, did you see how pissed off Pam got when Roy said to Jim (right in front of Pam) "if I wasn't dating Pam right now then I would totally hit that", fucking idiots bruh hahaa. your bf is just another idiot. his only hope might be to learn the hard way.
its time to move on! this guy is obviously looking at all of his options and will eventualy hurt you. Your young and 2.5 years is a long time. Believe me that you will find more better guys in the near future. Enjoy him for what he is until you find a replacement
After almost 3 years, maybe he's not attracted to you anymore? He may want new girls. He sounds disrespectful and rude.
If he isn't telling you that you're THE MOST beautiful girl in the world.. he isn't worth the time.
Don't take the relationship so far that you get to the marriage stage. You don't want to be married to someone like this.
Well he seems to be a idiot telling you such things. But one should not judge others so casually. Maybe he did that so that you want him more than ever. Thats the best case scenario. Or maybe his loyalty changed and he loves someone else now. (Happened with me once. Luckily I hadn't proposed anyone then. So no harm caused). Thats the worst case scenario.
Talk to him and find out what he actually meant and try to solve them. If some other problem arises, we are here to help.
How do we fall in love with someone when in love with someone else?
Thats really complex man. Even in love we admire other girls right? Due to some circumstances the guy may get fond of that other girl which may result in love. I don't think that common in adults but still no one know what's going on in someone's mind. Thats why I said that. Its just a probable explanation dude.
Relax you took it the wrong way.
While very blunt the way i see it is a sarcastic way of saying you shouldn't worry. He truly thinks she is hotter and yet he is with you , loving you. Thats says something right? While he finds her physically more attractive he loves you way more.
Wtf man :P haha no. Just no. A guy who tells his girlfriend this has no respect for her. He's a douche, just leave him so he can be with this so called "more attractive" girl. A man who loves you will think you're the most beautiful girl in the world so yeah.
I think he's trying ti make you jealous , maybe you should try spending more time together. But I dont blame you for being upset. Im a sensitive person myself so I couldn't imagine. But depending on the type of guy your boyfriend is. But I say he's just trying to make you jealous for most part , if he didn't wanna be with you im sure he would have already gave off hints that he didn't want to be with you or just broke up already. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless its becoming an everyday situation
Well he is a jerk then
what the fuck? Excuse my French but that's horrible. You should say tell him that "if you two weren't dating" he wouldn't be able to get those girls anyway. Sure we all think that people are attractive and there's nothing wrong with that, but to say that out loud or to text you that is wrong.
That is a BIG nono. You can't do anything about what he might be thinking, but he should know better than to say that with you around or with anyone around for that matter. He's made a commitment to YOU and if he can't honor that commitment then dump him. Also, if he tried to defend his words, that probably means that he doesn't see what's wrong with what he said, which, by extension, means he probably doesn't care either. I obviously don't know either you or him, but based on what you said, he is an ass. If nothing else, he could've reworded what he said, but chose not to. That's on him to live with, and on you to decide what to do about it.
... But, hey, that's just my two cents
I find him insensitive to make that remark, guys tend to be insensitive.
why dont u try to compliment another guy infront of him and check his reaction?
tbh, I would be little jealous and if he make that remark on me, I would be upset and tick him off.
Everyone finds other people attractive in their relationships, if he had any respect for you though he wouldn't be telling you he is thinking of other women he would actually like to date, not fuck, but date. That's really horrible of him. Why would your boyfriend want to date other women? Sounds like this may not be 'the one'. Sorry.
I think since u guys were arguing he might said something that he regrets in the heat of the moment. I say wait see whar he says if he is sorry forgive him but if he doesen't either dump. him. or go to couple counseling and resolve some issues. No guy should say that anothervl girl is hotter than the one he dating also he should stoplooking at other girls because he might then cheat.
All guys cheat or eventually get bored. Keep that mentality and you won't be so shocked an heart broken when the next asshole comes around. As for this asshole, get rid of him. You don't need that kind of disrespect.
If any guy says another woman is hotter then his woman, unless of course he is teasing you or joking around, then he is a complete moron and you need to find someone else. No decent man would ever say something that stupid to his woman.
you deont do anything unless his going to start cheating on you. there will always be hotter people then you and uglier people then you. deal with it. as simple as that.
I suggest you to look at his mood. Guys usually say such thinhs but they dont mean that actually. I also say somtimes similar but have never cheated. So i guess he was just pteasing you. So be optimistic and behave like mature girl unless he really do it. Good luck:-)
Dump him and run... Sorry, but when a guy starts talking about our commenting on other ladies he really doesn’t care if you are hurt or not. One of these days he will be with one of them and you may be the last to know... Have a bit of dignity for yourself and get rid of this creep now... It doesn't matter what he says it will be self-serving and until another girly girl is in place. Don't feel bad about it either because he will treat her the same exact way...
Well you are always going to find other people attractive. He's stupid to actually say he would date her if you two were not together. But you did open the door a little when you asked him about liking a photo on IG
how do these guys get girlfriends? Seriously they must have some magical powers.
They're wizards. They use that weird love potion and get lots of girls. They're chronic flirters.
See I would always appreciate my girlfriend if I could ever get one. I would never say anything like that and yet for some reason girls don't find me attractive, but would rather be with some douche.
It makes no sense to be honest; its like some girls like being treated poorly and find guys who would be good to them disgusting. its just so convoluted and annoying. i can't fathom it.
act like you are dead and never move again till he leave the house.. he shouldn't say any stuffs like that.. this is so rude..