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I lost control and beat up my boyfriend? (Page 2)
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The at least he learned his lesson line is bullshit and horrible. He learned that he can't have a healthy relationship with you... Before your next move I suggest therapy. I've had great experiences with it
see update 2
What you can do for him is to learn some tools for your emotions. Therapy will give you those tools. You both deserve a healthy respectful relationship
Keep your hands to yourself. If a person touches you first then you have a right to defend yourself. You are lucky he is not the kind of guy to hit a woman.
if he hit me back he'd be in the local prison for at least 3 years... he's a sensible guy
I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I want to just punch my boyfriend in the face too. But you have to stay in control and sometimes just walk away. I hope that you guys can work through it and he can forgive you.
"And for those saying he should call the police I HIGHLY disapprove as he will be the one arrested and maybe even humiliated by the cops" What makes you think so? is it because your BF doesn't have a vagina?
He will be the one arrested only by the vaginal law which doesn't exist at all.
in these parts, the last time a woman was arrested was in 2007... that too for homicide
Just imagine the same story told by a guy who hit his gf in this way... everybody on gag would whish him into prison for eternat circelbuttrape... I think this behavior is unacceptable and I would definitely ditch you after that.
U need 2 fuckin' apologize to ur bf,& never lay ur hands on him ever again. Treat people the way u wanna be treated
shouldn't he apologize too?
Lol are you sure you really have a BOYfriend? Because I don't think a real man could get beaten up by a drunk girl xD
Wait you knew the cops wouldn't do anything so you allowed yourself to do it?
I guess that was a factor
Why?
cuz I knew I could get away with it duh
That says a lot.
but I really didn't want to doo it
Then you wouldn't have done it.
ok I admit I did want to kick the shit out of him because he was mean to me BUT it was a heatofthemoment thing
Ok I'm calling troll on asker here
I think so too.
What did he say though? It has to have been something really bad for you to have done that. Is he emotionally or psychologically abusive to you?
yes he was
So he's regularly essentially bullying you with emotional or psychological abuse? Calls you things such as a stupid cun- t, dumb bitch, whore, stuff like that.. otherwise your behaviour was despicable. If he does do stuff like that, regularly, then that doesn't necessarily make your behaviour okay either, in my opinion, but it would in my opinion make it understandable.. you have someone just being so horrible to you regularly for such a long period eventually maybe you explode and just beat 'em for it. Understandable, still concerning and not quite right.. some people can deserve a beating but it still doesn't make it right on account of it's not right for the person doing the beating. What's right for that person is to leave the psychologically abusive one, and that's how to avoid such a thing resulting in violence - by leaving that negative person before they drive you to it. Also sorry for the language, just wanted to be blunt about what a truly abusive person might say.
Something to add though, I don't know if you are telling me the truth. Now whether you're telling me the truth or not, that doesn't affect me. If you are saying he is abusive to you when he's not really.. I don't care because it really doesn't affect me. It does however affect you and him. If you are lying to me that he deserved it or that he drive you to it or that he is abusive, then you are lying to yourself to. I am not accusing you of lying, I am just saying that it is a possibility as far as I'm concerned. It is also a possibility that you are very much telling the truth and you are a good person, a victim who was treated horribly and driven to this. I don't care either way, but you should. My advice is to be honest with yourself about what happened. And to seriously consider leaving him either way. Especially if he is indeed abusive - if he is abusive even just psychologically then you need to find someone better really.
Hopefully he will do the same to you! Maybe then you will be even and your conscience eased , do you think do?
* so*
see update
damn you're a mean drunk. wanna go out? :D
see update and no I have a bf
I wonder if she'll have a boyfriend for long...
@Littlett25 probably not a real boyfriend anyways, more like a man-pillow
LOL! https://imgur.com/Dov8L5D
@Littlett25 omgee it comes with an arm! lol!!!
Yes, he learn't to never date you ever again.
If he beat you, he would have his ass taken away to a police station. How in the hell would that be any different for you? "He made me do it. He'll be the one arrested." You disgust me.
Hopefully you go to prison for assault and battery. You're an abusive partner and need serious help.
by the way, fun fact, the victim in assault and battery isn't the one who goes to prison, sweety. It'll be *you.* Saying "well he made me do it!" isn't a valid legal defense, just an admission of guilt.
see update
I read your update, kiddo. Here, let me explain--you're the perpetrator, meaning you committed the crime. He's the victim, meaning he'll be testifying in front of the judge before you get sentenced.
I would hope he learned his lesson. I know I would have - if I let my woman beat me up. Of course, then again I wouldn't say anything mean to my woman either.
The alcohol did you injustice.
what is with the woman slapping man posts lately?
Yeah... I dunno?
You just simply do not lay a finger on a loved one like that. Why are you surprised about how mean the comments are getting?
What did he say because I've totally beaten shit out of guys sober because of what they said my ex was 7 ft 5 trust me I have experience lol
Hitting is badddd
and the tenth tallest person in the world is 7ft8 and he is in his late 60s, just letting you know.
K thanks if they piss me off my foot will be up there ass 2
you beat a 7'5 ex? O_O
Yep is send u a pic of him but I don't have any anymore sorry
i'm sure he just let you win lol
After our fight we had before I kicked he's ass he wanted me dead so NO
do you do martial arts or?
Boxing, martial arts , any combat fighting activity I love to dance and kick ass
What you did is over The line. IT can happen once that you lose cOntrOl, just make sure it won't happen ever again. I mean he just got beat up By his girlfriend, this might be a turnoff for HIM.
I'm trying my best but he won't talk to me?
Just ask him what he's thinking. He can't ignore You forever. If he doesn't wanna meet up for a talk, call him and if he doesn't pick up then you don't have a choice than just text HIM. Let him know that you're sorry and just make sure iT Will never ever happen again. Apologize to HIM. Now iT's his decision if he wants to let everything go and move on with you or if he wants to move on on his own
He started it, mind you. Should I just ignore him till he either goes away or comes back with his tail wagging?
No you need clossure if he wants to move on at least he needs to give you a reason. He might have started iT But you hit HIM wich made everything 10x worse. Just apologize, and maybe he Will realised what he did to you and Will apologize afterwards too.
What did he say exactly that was mean before you started punching him?
mean things...
Could you give me an example?
I would have wolly whopped you back to the kitchen.
My bf hit me once I just didn't answer his calls or texts and pretended he didn't exist for 3 days made him feel shit if it happens again I will call 911 and find someone else
how did you make him feel like that?
Ignored him pretended he didn't exist I knew he loved me a lot
do you really think he could have been in jail?
If I told police he would have yeah
oh come on, he would've been let off with a warning or a fine
He wouldn't have I would have made sure
O_O
How can you "make sure"?
Have the hospital check me over for bruises and anything that he does
Wow I'm sorry to hear that.
It's ok he's lucky I love him so much if it happens again it's done
guess I'm just as lucky :/ but I'm a girl so slightly less lucky lol :P
You shouldn't even give him the chance to do it again. If he does it again, it'll be your fault for staying. He doesn't deserve you, it'll just get worse.
I'll take the blame them
"At least he learnt his lesson, right? :'("
Troll.
to make it up to him, you could just maybe go out with him, for a nice cocktail or something... you know, just get really drunk!! being drunk is the solution to all problems!
oh wait...
I feel sick now and am taking a break from alcohol
I mean did you really beat him up so hard that his face was bleeding and turned black and blue?/
If that is the case you truly are an amazing cagefighter.
The asker is probably a male user trolling because the ''hitting back women'' post have been becoming repetitive here so the user wanted to write a one-sided domestic abuse of this time only being the woman doing it (and not the typical mutual DV Ray Rice hitting back types stories)... to further bring back the topic of feminism all over all and create a commotion. I don't believe a word he/she said.
My ex bf would have apply the bear hug in that case (as well as blocking the hits) and be calling the cops. Though I'm almost his height myself (5'7) and slightly lighter than him, long ago during our playful wrestling in bed game, I couldn't even get out of his grip. If that's how much he could hold when playing, I can imagine during a fight like the asker.
@Vesuvius87 i get it mam. Since you have mentioned everything in detail taking into account the strength of each other. Its pretty obvious this person must have been trolling and i was just playing around in order to get her to make a story mistake xD
I took boxing in high school :P
I would of called the cops on you. I would of also had taken some swings at you. Self defense.
Cut that bitch with yer clawssss!
regardless of words said, violence is never an acceptable response. so he pissed you off. there are better ways to get back at him than to beat him up. if I were him, i'd leave and not look back. you need some anger management therepy
and his words are acceptable? pffft
Violence against a girl is wrong but you should've been the exception. Yet again you're not worth it he should've called the cops.
I woukdve pinned you to the wall and started kissing you. Then we woykdve had hot mad makeup sex. Right?
Woah damm i hope ur not trolling, I've never heard of a case so serious, I've heard bf's beating gf's but this is different, i don't think he'll ever be the same again.
If you hit a man, expect to get hit back like a man.
If that is you in your profile pic... then you have very beautiful lips... Kisses kisses :-0..
Thank you lol😘
guys should never NEVER hit women
Violence doesn't come down to gender. No-one should hit anyone! Keep hands to yourself.
A man shouldn't hit a women. And a women shouldn't hit a man. But if you hit one expect to get hit back.
@Hannah591 she's right everyone should just keep there hands to there self.
Hmm, if this isn't a guy trolling... Then if you REALLY want to apologize to your bf, let him slap you back as hard as he can, to make it even.
he can't slap me I'm a girl
Yup, you are totally a guy trolling, LOL
it doesn't matter if you "lost control", its wrong and its still abuse, and what you did was completely messed up.
If you did that to me it would be a break up, a law suit, and a arrest. You're abusive and that isn't good.
"he made me do it" stop there, and think about what you just said, following this logic, no men will ever go in jail for beating his wife to death
true... but I'm a girl so it isn't the same as a man beating his waifu
@Asker because... ?
You should stop drinking and never get out of the kitchen.
excuse mee?
what you want to make it up to him or you want to beat him up again?
You abused that poor man. I don't know him, but I respect him for not hitting you back. He needs a better girlfriend sorry.
i'm going to try and be the best gf I can... but he couldn't have hit me back... he looked scared
You need to get your life together before you start dating.
Seriously.
Why do I feel u r trolling?
If this is real, I just hope he break up with u. U r too violent.
Bad troll.
@ updates: even worse troll
She's just digging a deeper hole
Bad Teacher.
... and yet guys get in trouble just for hitting a woman
If you really wanna talk about this pm me I might have a few suggestions that could help
put them up here plzz
lolololol...
you need sectioning..
or at the least anger management...
see update
ok, i concede i was harsh...
nonetheless... and be honest here... do you really think this is acceptable/healthy behaviour?
what did he say exactly? even if it was cutting, hurtful or rude, or uncalled for, you don't have to beat him... do you? i would stil say at the least you have anger and/or impulse issues... So yeah, you don't need to be sectioned lolol.. but then this was over the top..
and you're calling others here mean...
well do you see that your post is inflammatory? it's mean to post about beating your bf over shit, and then asking if he learnt his lesson..
and i'm not mocking you. if you think this is acceptable, and don't get why practically ALL people in this thread don't like this/have condemned.. well, that's your own issue..
sorry, but i read your updates..
no...
"society" may say one thing, but the law is the law... if you beat ANYBODY, you get charged, possibly jailed... if he "made you do it.." then wow...
Well you were drunk and he did start it. So you should both apologize and make amends and never hit him not even playfully for awhile hope this helps.
yeah thats what I was thinking! thanks :)
you're a dope..
How am I a dope that isn't even a proper English insult
First Abuser who is a female on g@g... congratulations!!
No, she's not the first
@kheserthorpe... Shit i knew it!!
see update
Hahahaha updates show that this is a troll.. if not then you are a total bit**!!
Congratulations again you made progress from abuser to a bit**!! hahahhhahaahaha
By the way i hope you get dumped!!
How can you make it up to him? Break up with him so he can find a woman who actually loves him.
either trolling (failing)
or really... really sad
You should be put behind bars! Why haven't your boyfriend left your yet?
see update
What if he had come home drunk, and beaten the living shit out of you?--
You sound like a troll. No one in their right mind would think the way you do.
What's the 'mean' thing he said?
I'm curious about that too. what could make someone do that? Maybe if i knew i could understand better. :/
Yea I was wondering about that too... @doodler0706 but looks like the asker won't answer my question.. -.-
Maybe the troll crawled back under her bridge :/
@doodler0706 yea probably.
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Oh wait there she is!
Lmao XD
Everyone loses control sometimes but it gets easir once you begin beating on your love one
I never lose control...
Your trolling skills need some serious work.
I'm sad now. Time to go listen to rap.
your fuckin nuts
see update
I've read it your still fucking nuts
What exactly is your question?
you beat ur bf? lol are you a wrestler?
Well what'd he say?
Need more info
wow, you are dangerous :-O
stop wasting our time
So nice hunting Xper point. Funk off.