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First I would say that you owe him a big apology. You should consider yourself lucky
if he doesn't drop you soon. Secondly, I have been in law enforcement for 22 1/2 years
and based on the facts that you presented, if he called the police and pushes the issue
the MOST he would get is a non traffic citation for harassment. You would be most likely
be charged with simple assault which is a Misdemeanor of the 2nd degree. This means
being fingerprinted and photographed. You're playing with fire displaying this behavior.
i don't believe s/he is serious... but then I agree with yor points..
Thank you.
just a simple assault? why is it different if a guy did this.
Actually it wouldn't be differen't charges if it were a guy. I would go with Simple Assault
because there were visible injuries but not serious enough to require treatment at a
hospital. Now, if his injuries required hospitalization, the main charge should be
Aggravated Assault.
I truly hope you are just a troll and are trying to get a rise out of people. If not, you are a very sick individual and need urgent help.
"just snapped even before he could finish his sentence" and "I haven't apologized to my bf cuz he made me do it, you know?".
These are the typical excuses of an abusive and violent jerk.
"And for those saying he should call the police I HIGHLY disapprove as he will be the one arrested"
I am pretty convinced you are a troll, but in case you aren't, you are excessively stupid. Why would he get arrested? You are the one that beat the shit out of him. Do you think because you're a female you will get away with everything. My god, whether this story is true or not: grow the fuck up.
Ok I understand that he said something mean... But just as a guy should never treat a girl that way, a girl shouldn't treat a guy that way. If you slapped him (not hard enough to plant him on his ass) that would be more acceptable. Beating him? that is way too far, and the fact that you have not apologized, nor accepted that you made a mistake. That wasn't about him learning his lesson, and that was abuse. It is the truth and i'm sorry.
also, I am sorry for some of the people being so mean to you. But for the most part they are right. Your actions and specifically your responses are really not ok.
Ehhrrr... Did you miss a thing? Your boyfriend is not such a big asshole as you think, because het could of hit you back! Since he's a guy, I'm guessing he's stronger then you and that he could've hurt you much more then you hurt him. Violence is always wrong, regardless of who does it to who. Please do not drink so much again, because you do drastic things drunk you wouldn't have done sober.
no he couldn't have, I'm 5'10 180, and I could hold my own against him in a fair fight if not beat him. I've taken a break from drinking yeah
Women like you should never be in a relationship. You always think that just because you're a woman it's okay to hit men. You are a horrible human being and he deserves better. Or course people on here are going to be rude to you about this. Did you expect sympathy? You ended your question with: he learned his lesson right? So you actually are an abuser if you think violence is the way to teach someone a lesson. You are a bitch and I hope you get what's coming to you. Karma can be a bitch too.
It's not okay and I'm really sorry... I'm a good girlfriend most of the time... Nothings coming to me and I'm not scared of puny bitches with loud mouths lol. I'm 5'10, 180 by the way.
If I were him I would've knocked your ass out. If you're going to hit or try to fight like a man expect to get hit back like one. He should leave you. Drunk or not that's not an excuse to beat the shit out of him. Honestly, if he's smart he'd dump you. Let's be serious.
tell the cops that you dumb, awkward loser
I'm the dumb one? Lol. Tell the cops your pathetic excuse of alcohol controlling you. You twit.
... I don't want to say anything more, since you are getting so much flak for what you did, but just don't do it again, okay?
I'm one of those people that believes that you can still control yourself pretty damn well when you are drunk and using the "I was drunk" excuse is complete bullshit.
Just never pull that again, you're lucky your boyfriend didn't punch you back. You'd be in a far worse situation.
yeah I'll try and be a good girlfriend from now on but he's ignoring me? I'm so lucky to have him and I'd die without my bf (srs)
Worthy of an instant dump on the bat.
There is no way you could make it up to me in this case.
The trust is gone at this point so is the love.
Whatever the circumstances are you are never to beat up your boyfriend like that. After all we can easily find someone more peacefull.
please don't say that ima cry :'( i'd do anything in the world
Honestly, even while being drunk, it is considered assault. If my boyfriend was drunk and he hit me the same way, I would've dumped him right then and there and called the police for assult.
I don't see how your boyfriend would deserve that and how it would be effective as teaching a lesson. So my question is: what did he say to you to deserve that?
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I saw it, but it's still considered assult regardless of how you polish it. my best advice is to just talk to him about it.
That was actually a semi passable troll until you just pushed it over the edge of credibility on the last sentence.
It's a rookie mistake, makes me sad to see it.
I had an abusive sister like you. I sure hope he learned his lesson, don't date crazies like you.
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See idgaf. Iv'e seen your type. It doesn't matter if you're a ''Good girlfriend''. Most of the time. You beat him up!
Is a murderer a good person if they've only killed someone once? I guess it's okay because they just lost control and murdered them.
you're making me feel terrible how can I save myself and my relationship?
Good. You should feel terrible.
You say you don't need help yet you continue to say that your boyfriend "made" you do it. He didn't grab your wrists and force your balled up fists to punch him in the face. He didn't MAKE you use physical violence instead of just talking it out.
Seek therapy.
Read update 2. "I highly disapprove as he will be the one arrested."
That should speak volumes. I just wish this wasn't a troll so I could expose you for the demon that you are. If you weren't a troll I would tell you that you are the fucking devil. To beat up your boyfriend whom you are supposed to love and then pretty much threaten that if calls the cops you will play the victim. Smh. Smfh. Losing faith in humanity as every minute passes by.
WTF? Very sad. Beating up your bf. he was DRUNK. Use common sense! He is going to say random stuff like that. How would you feel if he did that to you. He should press charges. If a guy did that to a girl the white knights would beat him and he would go to jail. If a girl does it nothing happens. And girls want equality. Your ruining it. Smh...
stop bringing feminism into everything... I don't know what I would I have done cuz it don't matter
It don't matter? Listen to yourself. It DOES need to be brought because that IS the issue. Hitting anyone to the point of bruises does matter and he could have hit you back etc, but two wrong a don't make a right. How would you feel if you had a daughter and a husband. The daughter came home drunk and the husband beat her and bruised her. How would this be seen by society including you? Stop hiding from the truth and face reality. You screwed up! Just admit it and deal with the consequences. I mean isn't that what being an adult is?
Indeed he shouldn't say mean things to people especailly to someone who is drunk it was his own fault and he should be the one making it up to you... does he seriously think the horrible thing he said should be left slip? lol i would apologize for getting so aggresive because you were drunk but i would tell him the mean things he says is unacceptable and he should be ashamed for it, if he's not ashamed for being rude then you have a problem definitely.
You are stupendously lucky he hasn't called the police on you. There is absolutely no excuse for what you did. When the cops see him smashed up and you without a mark on you, they'll know you went way too far.
I'd be very surprised if he doesn't dump you after this, he will never ever forget it.
You aren't feeling remorse - he learned his lesson? You think he's had enough? That's not remorse.
i'll never go to jail. I'll scratch myself if such a thing happens just to frame him. Make no mistake, he's important but I can't risk my life
"At least he learnt his lesson, right?" - Are you serious? What the hell is wrong with you?
You don't deserve to be with someone if you're going to physically abuse the like that. I swear if you're not a troll then you must have a defect MAOA gene in your brain as that's not normal/appropriate behavior.
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Why would the victim get arrested if he goes to the police? "he made me do it" - typical violent person bullshit. + telling people to "see update" is futile as no one is going to change their opinion - in fact each update you've posted just shows how much of a bad person you are.
Imagine if the guy was the one beating her, I shit you not the whole site would lose its pants and give him the worst internet abuse and shaming that'd be carved in the books of history. On another note, you abused you boyfriend and you should do whatever to apologize.
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Still didn't change my opinion.
No. That's horrible. Its called domestic abuse. If you're strong enough to bloody and bruise him you should be responsible enough to know better.
Whats between your legs is not a pass. No one should ever harm another person unless in self defense.
domestic abuse is only against women.
No it isn't. I hope that guy leaves you, wow. Not only abusive but uneducated.
wow wtf. First of all abuse can go either way. If a man does it he is arrested if a woman does it she will be arrested. If you called the cops and they saw him all beaten up they would figure out that you did it and he did not touch you at all so he couldn't be at fault. I wonder what he said to you to make you go off on him like that. If I was him I would've probably punched you back then after the fight broke up with you.