I lost control and beat up my boyfriend? (Page 3)
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I have a good idea!!
You could buy him a gift, and write a letter in the box, basically explaining everything, it doesn't have to be expensive, but at least like 20$ on it, make sure it something he likes, if he rejects it, you should leave him alone for a while, and then try and talk to him, give him a kiss every morning or something like that will probably make it better! Just show that you really do care about him!
-RandomGuy
He didn't make you do it... that an abusive way of thinking. You didn't have to beat him up... that was abusive of you. No one in their sane mind would try and justify beating someone up because of something they said.
Apologies to him and bring him food and stuff.
oh cmon, everyone wants to beat up people sometimes... I just fully realized that thought thanks to alcohol
Troll smh..
if this isn't one... You. NEED. HELP.
are you denying wanting to ever hit someone?>
Im sure I have in the past. Even if it was for a moment or two... but I've never ever actually had a desire to act on it.
But personally im a lover not a fighter ;)
neither did I but I did because I was drunk I'm so sorry
Lay off the alcohol and apologize. Gibe him space if he need it. Make him food. Let him know what happened and hopefully he'll trust you again ~
why should I make him food? He can make his own food
Like when someone has a cold you make them chicken noodles soups and such. I would jist make him something you know he likes.
oh.. hmm... i don't know... maybe... it was his fault tho so only if he apologizes
@asker LOL this is an obvious mediocre attempt at a troll. You gave it away so long ago.
You should NEVER and that goes to girls and guys never hit someome or punch them or abuse them in any way unless its self defence. Other than that i dont care if he calls you the worst names you kick him out and end it. You can't just hit him because "you got a little carried away" was it fun? Was it fun in the morning when you saw his face? Get a punching bag not your boyfriends face.
no it was horrible :'( But he was mentally abusive which is just as bad if not worse
You're abusive. I hope he leaves you.
'At least he learnt his lesson' WTF?
see update
I saw update. My mind didn't change. You didn't hit him you beat the fuck out if him. That isn't normal.
see update 2
You don't hit unless your life is in danger.
What you did WAS abuse, and it was ALSO ASSAULT. Should you be held to lesser standards just because you have a vagina?
He should break up with you immediately. Period. No discussion. Just as any woman should do with a man who hits her.
****You are unfit to be in relationships****
And he did not fucking make you do it. Hold yourself accountable for your behavior, your spoiled child.
how am I the bad guy when he made me do it?
you sound so proud, " at least he learned his lesson" I hope he leaves you and files charges on you, your pathetic and then you try and get sympathy from people saying it was his fault! ? I'm pretty sure he didn't ask you to punch him in the face... Grow up. ... hope you learned your lesson and choose not to drink!!!
I'm not proud, i was only looking at the bright side... give me some credit for that!
there's no brightside you should've walked away end of story. ..
Hey, it's another feminist who thinks it's okay to bash her bloke and no need to get the police involved.
He should have kicked seven shades of shite out of you.
"haven't apologized to my bf cuz he made me do it,"
Stuff like that makes me think this HAS to be a trolling question.
barbaric thoughts from an anonymous barbarian
It would have sounded less pathetic had you not said "at least he learnt his lesson?" Really? I understand the whole getting upset thing. Maybe a slap but your punching repeatedly was too much. Yes, its abusive. Control yourself. You just opened up a new can of worms and inviting violence into your relationship. Now, what if he would have done that to you? You would be hurt, probably knocked out. Don't do it again.
our relationship is not even violent :/ I lost control... I'm so sorry :'(
Be sorry to him. If he forgives you and you two can move forward than more power to the two of you.
That depends. If he doesn't leave you, then he didn't learn a lesson at all.
I hope he took a picture, and now calls the cops and get your ass busted. You are no worse than those guys that hit their girls. You're a shame for all of those women that fought for equality.
Looks like there are a bunch of bunnies stopping by around here. If this happened, then you should be charged for assault, spending time in jail.
see update
I did and I still keep my opinion. Either you're a fake or seriously need to be put away.
The only way this makes sense to me is if both you and your boyfriend are druggies or if you're a troll...
Anyways... stupid thing to do. You can't make it right.
Could HE make it right if he beat you up? No...
Same goes for this situation.
but I sacrifice more so maybe I can?
I don't know your situation, but I don't see a way out of this.
If he isn't totally retarded, he'll report you to the police. Or maybe, send someone to kill you.
I hope it's the last one.
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"At least he learnt his lesson, right?"
Obvious troll is obvious.
"At least he learnt his lesson, right?"
this is how you are ashamed of your wrong deed?
You get the whole song!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Z4m4lnjxkYHahaha I love this video!
You feel so bad, yet felt the need to say at least he learned his lesson? Yea you must feel horrible. If the roles were reversed I'd tell you to dump his ass and call the cops. Now I hope he does that to you.
Wow.. Your aggressive when you drunk.. Maybe lay off drinking till you an control your temper..
I guess you have to just let him trust you again.. It sounds like it could take ages though..
what can I do to get his trust back?
I don't know, he just might need to fall back into it again gradually over a period of time
yeah I think so too... I'll just let him be and sort out his own issues
"I'm not an abuser, I just lost control"
Men can't use that excuse so neither can you.
I can because I'm a girl
"I can because I'm a girl" 😂 you still can't use that excuse. You would be the one to get in trouble not him. She's crazy.
I've seen girls get away with far worse... its only a man-crime anyway, this DV thing
"I've seen girls get away with far worse"
People sometimes get away with rape and murder. Does that make it right?
The at least he learned his lesson line is bullshit and horrible. He learned that he can't have a healthy relationship with you... Before your next move I suggest therapy. I've had great experiences with it
see update 2
What you can do for him is to learn some tools for your emotions. Therapy will give you those tools. You both deserve a healthy respectful relationship