He won't kiss me on the lips, but anywhere else is ok?

[Anonymous]

The guy I am seeing hates to kiss (though he will rather reluctantly to keep me somewhat happy) as his says it has "so many feelings and is so sentimental". He will kiss my neck, forhead, cheek, and anywhere else on my body. I just don't understand why he hates it so much (we dated when we were teenagers and used to make out for hours), or why he talks about all the "feelings" when he can sleep with me and cuddle all day long?

[Anonymous]

Makes sense to me

Iv felt like that once before too and many times on average... When he says its has so many feelings and so sentimental, he means just that.

See, you have to see it in a guys perspective at times. Kissing your body and cuddling and even having sex, those are all things that feel good. For a women its more of a connection process.

If he's anything like me, I felt kissing a certain women opened up a can of feelings that I wasn't ready to deal with BUT all the other stuff didn't. Sometimes kissing is much much much more passionate and emotional driven then any of the other stuff

[Asker]

Interesting. So will he ever be able to kiss me? I just miss it so much and it's my favorite part of everything.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes of course, and most likely when that day comes, it will be something you'll know.. you'll know that he's ready to take a step further

I guess in your case you guys knew each other a long time ago and kissed a lot. So its like how old songs can easily bring back old memories and emotions. Well for him, kissing you brings him back to another era and time. Not thats its bad or good, just can feel odd and funny inside.

So im sure he'll come around. Kissing is a major turn on for men and women, there's no reasons why he wouldn't want to taste your lips other than what I think it could be

[Attila]

I dont know... maybe he's no longer attracted to you in the same way when you first met... It happens... its like the boring kiss that your parents have with one another... Dont take offense... since I dont know you... but maybe its your breath... scrub out those end molars since food gets stuck in there... try some mouth wash and chew bubble gum more frequently...

[Asker]

We only started seeing each other a few months ago after not seeing each other in 15 years.

[emmabee11]

Yeh... that doesn't make any sense... maybe he finds the exchange of saliva gross now? ask him the reasons why exactly he doesn't like it.

[emmabee11]

No... scratch that... what he said about kissing having so many feelings... it sounds like he just wants sex, i'm not on far tonight lol he obviously doesn't want to get close to you so i would end it.

[KillerTaco]

Maybe its your breath?

[Asker]

Nope. I always brush my teeth before we meet.

[KillerTaco]

I see... Then it sounds like he just may not be attracted to you like that anymore. Men want to kiss their girlfriends/wife. Its one of the ways they express their affection. For him to say kissing in the lips is too intimate is a huge red flag. Sounds to me like he doesn't want to get closer to you.

[xPoison]

LOL too funny

[Asker]

So he's lost attraction in only a few months, but can be attracted enough to have sex constantly?

[KillerTaco]

I see now. Girl you're wasting time on him. He's just stringing you along. If he wanted a serious relationship with you all this mumbo jumbo about "having feelings" when kissing. He doesn't want to take it to the next level with you. In his eyes why would he when you already give him the benefits of a relationship without the commitment? I'm not trying to be mean or harsh I'm just being 100% honest with you...

[xPoison]

That absolutely makes no sense...

[xPoison]

So is he trying to say he has no sentimental value towards you?

[Asker]

I have absolutely no idea. I mean he will cuddle for hours, hold me while we sleep, and hold my hand while we watch tv (and sometimes even when we sleep). So I just don't get it.

[xPoison]

I just don't understand. If you brush your teeth, then he possibly have breath problem himself? 😞