Nice people snap because they bottle too much shit up. You give and give and give, and you don't complain and you don't assert your own feelings.. after a while you blow up and you blow up so much worse than "normal" people, who do regularly vocalize their annoyances, desires and frustrations.
If you let a little bit out at a time, the pressure inside maintains an equilibrium. If you never let anything out, pressure builds and builds and builds until it eventually explodes.
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That's why people are taking advantage of you. The nicer you are, the more they will step on your face, because they know you will be there afterwards. Know your position, wether it's with a partner or a friend, never be TOO NICE. Once you learn how to say no, and not always be available, they're going to think wow this girl knows her stuff. Take my advice and read the book: Why men love bitches, and you it will change your life completely. Nice girl = doormat.
Sounds to me like you are making yourself a doormat for people to wipe their feet on. It sounds to me as though you give more than you take. There needs to be a balance, and you aren't a fucking doormat. Don't act like a doormat and people won't wipe their feet on you. You need to stand up for yourself.
There are more takers than givers in todays world... sounds like you need some new surrondings & dump all the toxic people out of your life , do it whilst you are young enough... I've done just that many years ago.
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People have issues. It's not your fault. We need to discipline our minds through meditation and prayer.
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