Im heartbroken, my ex is treating me like a door Matt, I love him but I can't do this anymore?( photos of texts )?

[Blondygirl1993]

Im going through a really tough time

The second picture was from a month or more ago when he was really nice to me , I have been through a lot and im really sad , my mom died a few month ago and i have no one to talk to so yes I have been very clingy towards him but I need him so much. The first photo was from about a week ago and I tried to leave him alone and talk to him last night and basically it didn't go very well he ended up blocking me again. I love him but he just keeps comming in and out of my life and now he doesn't care about me at all :( the next time if he ever does try to talk to me again how do I get the strength to tell him I don't want to speak to him, because he is just treating me so bad and im getting really bad depression it's not fair :(

[emmanutelaaa]

Give him some time to think, it really seems like you're pressuring him, and it makes sense cause after a breakup this is usually how it goes, people need their space. However, do NOT wait for too long. Yes, giving time is okay, but all this waiting... trust me you don't deserve it!!! I'm sure you can do better than that. After all, there's a reason you guys broke up, better not go back. We all had bad breakups and were treated like shit. I say just forget about him. Sure it will take time, it's how it goes, you'll be hurting a lot plus with your mom thing. But to be honest, you don't really need him. Don't go chasing boy support. All you need right now is a good FRIEND, not a boyfriend. Friends are the remedy for everything, and they stay forever. Stay strong and do not let any douche bring you down <3

[Blondygirl1993]

Thanks but I am so depressed a month ago he was nice to me and I feel like I have messed it up now he doesn't want anything to do with me and I. Have ruined it all, I am really rock bottom I just wanna talk to him and he doesn't care :(

[emmanutelaaa]

He clearly doesn't deserve you. I understand, I've been there before. I've messed things up and my ex would just not listen to me. But whatever you're done, the important thing is to forgive yourself (although I doubt you've done shit to him, he just seems like a douche to me). If he doesn't wanna listen, then so be it. He clearly doesn't care, why would you? Please please please stay strong, be positive, it's just a phase. I know it's hard, but trust me you'll get over it sooner or later. Stop thinking about what you should or shouldn't have done or said to him, do things for yourself, treat yourself well, have fun with your friends. This phase won't be forever.

[Blondygirl1993]

I havnt done anything to him, we broke up about a year ago but we started talking again (sorry I am really crying so I might miss some info out) anyway he was talking to me everyday and really making a effort with me and he took me for meals and it felt like he really wanted to be in my life, then all off a sudden we started arguing because I was getting a clingy and when he wouldn't text I would confront him and say why and I would panic , and he didn't like it and that's how we started to argue for about 2 weeks now he just won't speak to me at all :( I know he doesn't care, but im heartbroken because a month ago he did care and I was happy to have him there to take my mind of my mom and I was happy to know he cared/liked me again and now he is disappeard and my life feels like hell again he's blocked me and he is being nasty and just doesn't want nothing to do with me :(.

[emmanutelaaa]

He can't play you like that, who is he to get in and then out of your life like that? Calm down and never talk to him again. Respect yourself at least!

[Anonymous]

I would honestly move on from him.
You need and deserve someone who is stable and non flaky!
Let him go and don't look back. You will be a lot happier trust me. I've been there, and although you can't see it yet, it will be the correct decision

[sp33d]

For your own good, for what ever reason I recommend you grey out your name and/or any other important, personal information.

There's nothing you can do, but to leave him alone.

[HighlanderTheOne]

He is an asshole and you are a cute idiot who fell for such a jerk.