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My ex wanted to brake up with me four months ago, so he wanted no contact for one month and said we will talk after that. He hasn't contact me since then and hurt me very badly afterwards. I tried everything to fix our relationship but he didn't want to be anymore with me and gave up on me easily. He hasn't contact me since then, he didn't apologise to me, but we still follow eachother on social media. He always looks everything I post in these past 4 month, many times he rewatches stories I post without interacting with me. Since then I miss him even more like we broke up yesterday. I tought my love for him will fade with time but I keep thinking of him every second. What should I do, will he ever come back? I never got the closure I needed.
Should I text my ex after he dumped me and hurt me badly? It has been 4 months since and I still can't stop crying cause I miss him so much?
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Ugh luv, I'm so sorry you're going through this. That guy treated you really crappy by leading you on and not giving you closure.
From the sounds of it, he's not in a place to give you the relationship you deserve right now. I know you still have strong feelings, but reaching out again likely won't change anything except cause you more hurt.
Some advice - block and delete him on social media for your own mental health. Seeing him lurking will only torture you. Spend time with your girls who love you and build you up. Pour your energy into hobbies, fitness, or a project to keep busy.
It's gonna take time, but one day you'll wake up and realize you feel okay without him. You're strong and amazing - don't let some lame ex make you feel otherwise! When you're ready, get back out there. But focus now on loving yourself until the sadness passes. You've got this luv. *hugs*
He's gone and we rarely get closure. If you want to heal then stop looking at his social media, that keeps the pain fresh. That's like picking the scab off a wound everyday and then wondering why it's taking so long to heal.