Why does a lack of female companionship hurts so much?

[Anonymous]

I am 19 and I haven't got a girlfriend yet and every night I feel empty. Why does a lack of female companionship hurts so much?

[TinaBabina]

I think that's a pretty normal part of being human, being alone makes us sad. And that's ok. People get so stuck on the idea of trying to be happy all the time, but as humans we have to feel the full spectrum of emotions at some point...
Don't feel too bad, there's a whole WORLD of girls out there, and you've got years to find em and date them, and do gooey couple stuff...
In the meantime, watch some sappy movies, work out, learn guitar, YouTube some stand up comedy (I recommend louis ck for getting out of the sad pit) etc to keep your mind from wallowing in the loneliness too much.
A girlfriend'll happen when you least expect it, just GO out and enjoy life, make friends, travel, and the rest falls in to place :)

[XRabbitHeartX]

As humans we naturally have a desire for companionship and love. Love feels good and we want someone special. Unfortunately timing isn't always on our side :/

[Anonymous]

humans are wired to want/feel the need to have a companion, someone to spend life with. its not uncommon to feel empty when you are alone.

[Anonymous]

Because you don't value yourself as a human being and are hoping that someone else liking you will validate your existence.

Some advice: stop being a pussy. Find or create a reason to proudly look yourself in the eye in the mirror.

Your life should inherently be valuable. A woman should merely be icing on the cake of your life. You shouldn't feel bad whether or not a cake has any fucking frosting.

[Asker]

But a "cake" isn't always good without frosting. You need to know when to put it on.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be a little bitch. You can go without the fucking frosting.

Seriously, if you need another person to validate you, the last thing you actually need is a girl in your life, because she will walk all over you (if she bothers with you at all). Grow a fucking sack, be a man first. The type of woman who is worth keeping around isn't going to be attracted to a simpering loser who lacks feelings of self-worth.

Accomplish something, feel good about who you are making yourself into, then the right women will be attracted to you like moths to a flame. Don't fucking worry about women.

[Asker]

Lmfao, I love how mad you're getting. I can't go without the frosting because the more I go the sooner I will turn to alcohol.

[Intellectiskey]

Well it is normal because we are human. But honestly, having a girlfriend is not as great as media portrays it to be. Dont worry too much about it, it only is worth it when it is the right girl, so keep working on yourself, talk to lots of girls and wait for the right one.
Anything you rush will end badly, I can say that from experience.

[Asker]

Ohhh I am not rushing. It just hurts only at night time when I am sleeping. After I masturbate the pain goes away and I sleep happy and girls come to me. >:)

[Asker]

I don't give a shit about girls.

[Asker]

Call me an ass, I don't give a fuck. And FUCK MORALS >:D

[Intellectiskey]

lol yeah i get you. Trust me, I decided a long time ago that I will not give a girl the time of day if she isn't the type of girl I see myself with long term. I have rejected so many girls.
I have my hand to keep me sexually pleased till then lol

[Asker]

I actually don't need anyone but my friends. I am a MAN. Not a fucking boy. I dotnt need women. Women are girls and girls are fucking annoying and clingy. Go ask my mom, she's one herself.

[Asker]

When I say friends, I meant my guy friends. I don't have friends that are girls. I don't befriend girls. Sorry but that's the sad truth.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are probably questioning your ability to attract and keep a woman by your side, so ultimately you question your value as a man.

[rthomas43]

Because we're wired to want companionship and you feel that your shortcomings are the reason for your lack of success in attracting a female.

[Asker]

I've had a lot of female attention but it isn't enough. I want one to spend life with.

[Asker]

I want someone to be my side at all times. Someone that I can contact with. Someone who can make me happy. I want a significant other.

[rthomas43]

Then get one?

[Asker]

I'm afraid my mother would scare her away.

[rthomas43]

If she's the right one for you, that won't happen.

[Asker]

My mother sometimes doesn't understand.

[Asker]

That

[ilovchipmunk]

Ask god, he's the one took away your thing and put it on women.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I feel ya bro