Guys, why does my boyfriend hate when I ask questions?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months and here lately we've had the same continuous problem. First off, I'm with my boyfriend almost every day. He's the type Ithat isn't really big on opening up and sharing his feelings, he's extremely manly and stern. Recently he's been getting mad when I ask him questions. Questions that make him think I don't trust him. I ask questions just so I CAN trust him. If I'm wondering about something, I'm going to ask him? I told him I'm not just going to bottle everything up. But he said that I shouldn'f bitch about stuff that doesn't even matter. Then he gets mad because he thinks I don't trust him. What should I do? I do trust him even though it sounds like I don't. I'm just insecure and sensitive I guess.. But I just don't know how to fix this problem for the both of us.

[jjmarvin]

Honestly i don't attribute those qualities as manly. Stem and short fused people are honestly just a pain.

You don't want to bug your partner with paranoia, that's rude and hurtful. But you also don't want to be dismissed all the time and put in the "quiet corner" by someone who is supposed to be there for you emotionally.

You both have issues to work on but honestly, the type of guy he is never wants anyone else's perspective or to better themselves emotionally. Just quiet fucktoys.

[FreeLunch]

What types of questions are you asking him? I'm sure he doesn't mind when you ask him questions, it's certain type of questions that bother him.

Most likely you are asking him questions that have no answers or solutions. Those questions irritate men, because they are a waste of time and the answers have to be invented and are meaningless.

[reptocarl]

Led Zeppelin has a song from their first album called Communication Breakdown which is what you have here. If it isn't fixed your relationship is doomed

[Anonymous]

First don't ask questions like it's a interigation and secondarly if you don't trust him after 7 months you have slot deeper problem and lastly when I guy like that breaks there a lot a shut that's gonna come out so be sure that what you want

[Anonymous]

Questions can be not only intimidating but also just annoying. It's OK to question people but not EVERY little thing