How have I gone from being a frigid maiden to a raging nympho after one week with my first guy?

[Anonymous]

A guy I work with asked me out last week. I wasn't really interested. I've never been interested in men. He is a junior partner in the business, so I thought it might be worthwhile, just meeting him for a pizza.

He's so incredible, I fell for him straight away and it appears to be mutual.

After one week, I've turned into a raging nympho. I can't wait to get layed.

How could it have happened? Is it any way normal?

[SammyL]

Sometimes two people just have chemistry. That might be it.
It's not super common, but when your hormones and your partner's are naturally on the same wavelength, sparks will fly.
2 things to be aware of;
1) This does not cancel out the "honeymoon period". You might want a lot of sex at the beginning, but it still may lessen with time. There's nothing wrong with you if it does, it just means you have to work at keeping the spark alive, like many couples do.
2) Just because you have chemistry, it does not mean he is necessarily "the one".
I've known someone who put up with a lot of crap from a guy because she thought chemistry = soul mate. Your bodies may be on the same page, but it does not always mean your minds, hearts, or values are.

[Asker]

Jeez! This is about my ex! I am so glad I did not get laid! It only lasted a few months and he dumped me. He could not hack the fact that I would be away at uni for another 3 years.

I met a new guy almost exactly a year ago, in my first week at a new uni. I moved into his flat after 4 weeks. Been together ever since. I am SO GLAD I held onto that v-card with the first guy!

[scooogy]

Wow... he wouldn't get you laid? That's like saying no prayer while being in church. :o

[Sorathevilone]

Sexual frustration. I am still the frigid maiden but I feel am going to be their very soon.

[Asker]

I have been living with my boyfriend nearly 18 months now! A great guy!

[Sorathevilone]

And how often do you leave the bedroom? Lmao

[Asker]

Uni calls Monday to Friday. For both of us! LOL!

[Sorathevilone]

Haha am not at uni I have more free time for the bedroom XD.

[Asker]

All I seem to do is study and sit here on GAG. Then the odd hours in bed.

[Sorathevilone]

I play on my PS4 or fist love. Or GAG just fucking like meh life lol.

[Asker]

I cannot play games. I stare at a screen for most os the day. GAG is my only break. More screen time LOL!

[Anonymous]

Chemistry!! That's what happens! It drives you crazy!! Lol

[Asker]

This question is so old! This was when I met my first boyfriend.

[innerthighlicker]

True that baby

[Mr-chocolate]

This is the first time you have had sex with a man and you didn't know it feels so good. Yes this is normal that first time feeling is so good. U start think about the next encounter and what u plan on doing it is a great feeling this why every parent doesn't want their children to have sex at a young age because u become more focused in sex then school. u are normal don't worry about it 😉👍👌

[BertMacklinFBI]

realizations + hormones

[Together_Way_Back]

Since you have me the MHO with something simple. I'll do the same.

Men like him in the business field have an ability to get things done. its either a profit for himself or for you both. like you mentioned "mutual".
It seems to me though, he flipped your off switch to on. in all honesty it's normal, and you ask, "how could it have happened?"

The man has charm and all the right moves. Enjoy what you allowed yourself to find unknowingly haha.

[Together_Way_Back]

Since I gave you the MHO*

Sorry totally fucked that sentence up.

[JoeQnA]

This probably means that this exbf hit an explored area in your sexual and emotional field. Doesn't mean that you will be good together or anything, it just means that you haven't been paying attention to part in you,, which he actually highlighted.

[Asker]

I was too busy studying at uni to want a guy. Same as when I was at school. I just could not resist his charm and intellect.

Shame he dumped me, but THAT was a blessing in disguise. I am also glad I did not sleep with him, even though I wanted to.

[JoeQnA]

You lucked on this one :)

[iron1414]

Hey to you... I wish it was that way all of the time. JJ. I think when you haven't bad sex in a while it's like refreshing as the Irish spring commercials. You're tired but yet ready for the next round. Ding.. let the fights begin:)

[Asker]

That is about it! LOL!

[iron1414]

JJ... it seriously just came back around as a new question. So are you done w this site then? I feel as if it will take us to answer the questions of the world here:) I wish you a Happy And Prosperous New Year.

[Asker]

Thank you, and to you as well! I gave up being a moderator to try and stay away from GAG as I have so much work to do before I finish at uni. It did not work. I spend all my spare time here!

[iron1414]

Any plans tonight? Did I ever ask you what country you are in. You have made mention of going to a uni instead of university etc. What degree are you going after. I haven't been on here for awhile either.

[Asker]

We will all be at home with a few bottles of wine and some party food. I am from UK. I am in my second year of a PhD.

[iron1414]

Sweet. Congratulations... well you take care of yourself... it's been great conversation w you.

[Asker]

Thank you! Take care, stay safe!

[Jack1313]

Hey just go 5 WITH it HAVE as MUCH FUN as YOU CAN and ad MUCH AS YOU DARE

[Asker]

Jeez! I am still getting opinions on this two year old question! He dumped me when he realised how many more years I was going to be away at uni. When I went to a new uni, I met a new guy, moved into his flat within four weeks and I am still there after more than a year. Still a raging nympho, as well.

[ohshee]

Yeah I think it only happens with combination pizzas

[toddthemod]

Weird. Libido. Mine was always strong. But now even greater at age 50. Everybody's experiences r different. But just the variety is wild... lol

[suckinurclit]

Shit u love the sex good. Fuck as much as u can and try. New things

[Asker]

I have a new guy. My first and only.

[Ky_Boy_Cummimg]

Something about him is driving you crazy, making you super horny and kinky. Is his D big or is he a freak and has some hot fetish?

[praveensai]

maybe he know how to make you horney... and you fallen for him

[scooogy]

Is that really you? I thought you had a boyfriend? :o

[Asker]

This was all about my first boyfriend. I wanted him so much, but I am glad I did not, as he later dumped me.

[scooogy]

wait, so that new guy would be your second boyfriend then?

[Asker]

Yes. My first only lasted about 6 months. I have been with this guy for nearly 16 months now.

[scooogy]

well, I can tell he's gay. If not a girl like you would make him want sex, then no girl will.

[Asker]

LOL> I was the one that wanted it so bad. I am glad I stayed a virgin. He could not accept me being away at uni for another two or three years or so. I was not going to give up my future for him, so he ended it.

[scooogy]

WHAT? :O Hell girl, I wish I had asked you out back then!
But would you going to uni have meant that you two wouldn't have seen each other?

[Asker]

I met my first guy when I was doing a summer holiday job in a solicitor's office. He was a junior partner. If I had not changed uni after my MComp, I would not have met my current guy. I knew of him the first week there, but we did not get together until the second Monday.

[scooogy]

He's so damn lucky to have met you :)

[Asker]

I am the lucky one. All because of a mug of black coffee! LOL!

[scooogy]

haha, great joke :P Look into the mirror and see what luck he has :D

[Asker]

Just a scrawny, short assed bitch! LOL!

[scooogy]

let me know as soon as he views you like that and I'll be on my way to steal you :P

[Asker]

LOL! Maybe!

[innerthighlicker]

Yea it is normal babe you look likevyou would be a good root and you proved it too your self lucky boy who has you

[Asker]

LOL!! I keep getting comments on this two year old question! I been with a new guy for over a year now! I live with him.

[Dwill2982]

Well some of us guys know how to put it on ya and some women swear I put the Voodoo on em lol

[boredcantsleep]

Maybe you two just click sexually... ya never know till you try. Lol

[handyman312]

sex is like a powerful drug... addictive & euphoric

[Anonymous]

are you are your period? its normal to get horny on your period so that could be it

[Anonymous]

i've been putting my dick pix in obscure places along the dates, subliminals

[Asker]

LOL! Bit late for me! I am living with my guy!

[Opinion Owner]

no need to thank us, we're the angels you don;t see

[Asker]

LOLL!!

[jacquesvol]

It happened to many girls.

[jersos1]

How did that happen? Lol. I can't believe it! Hehe

[Asker]

Read my reply to SammyL. It will tell you about my narrow escape from losing my v-card too quickly. This question was my about first boyfriend.

[yanbbo]

U tried a good dick 😂

[Asker]

It did not happen with this guy, thank goodness! He dumped me. Got a new one now. Been living with him for over a year.

[yanbbo]

Nice? Wish there were more " nympho" arround 😁

[koreanbfinnewyrk]

is. he much bigger than ur previus lover?