So recently I went on a second date with a guy I really like (we met on bumble), however I kind of blew it. I was in my head the entire time due to some unforeseen family drama that happened like an hour prior to the date. I was super awkward and zoned out and almost standoffish and felt like an absolute piece of shit the entire time. As our date ended, he called me out on the fact that I was acting so off. I tried my best to explain the situation to him but he just seemed really upset at me, which I completely understand. I sent him a text after I got home apologizing for being such a shitty date, and his response to me was “I’m not ghosting you by any means, I just need some time to think.” I told him that was fine but we haven't spoken since, that was like 3 days ago now. I just wonder, is it over? Like, is there any hope for me getting a do over of that date or should I just be preparing for it to be over?
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FOR CONTEXT: Our first date could not have gone more perfectly. I just fucked this one up and I'm nervous.
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