My girlfriend has had sex with my boss before. I hate it cause he's an asshole and I just hate that she's had sex with him... what should I do?

[Anonymous]

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what sucks to is that they also had sex back when she was a cheerleader in high school

[Anonymous]

Did she have sex with him while you were dating? If she did, talk to her about cheating and why you feel this way. If not, you have to let go of the past and realize that you two are together now and she isn't going back to him.

[Asker]

no we were not together but its just that he is this big muscular guy and i hate it... he always talks about how big his dick is and stuff... its just annoying

[Opinion Owner]

You have to focus on the fact that you two are dating now and he is behind her. Let the past be in the past.

[Asker]

true, i just hate his flirting, he like smirks at me cause he knows he's my boss

[Opinion Owner]

Realize that your girlfriend is with YOU, not him. Ignore him.

[Asker]

feel like she would give in to him again

[Opinion Owner]

If you feel like there is a chance she may cheat on you or leave you for him, talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. You need to have an honest and open relationship. It will settle your mind on the issue.

[rach263]

Appreciate the fact she is your girlfriend not his. You have the girl of your dreams (I hope) and you should focus on your loving relationship not their brief fling.

[Asker]

true but apparently it was really good sex

[rach263]

... but she is going out with you so either you are better or you could ask her what she enjoys and then do it.

[Asker]

true, and size doesn't matter

[rach263]

You're obviously one of the smarter ones... even if you were small (which 90% of men think they are by the way because they compare themselves to porn) it all depends on what you do with it... if I was a guy with a 3" dick I would still be the best lover on the planet!

[xLulu]

Nothing, you can't change who she had sex with so just try to get over it. Jealousy is never a good look on anyone.

[BertMacklinFBI]

unfortunately, you can't do anything. you can't bring those vibes into the workplace let alone bring them up with your boss.

[Asker]

should i bring it up with him, like ask him what happened?

[AustinMan]

What do you want to do? Hurt her? Punish her? What?

[Asker]

i dont know, just want him to stop flirting with him... like she says she wudnt do anything but i still feel a bad vibe

[AustinMan]

You want to try that again? Him flirting with him? Who's flirting with who?

[GreatnessPersonified]

I know I'm late, but I have to say that your boss is an asshole and there is nothing you can do about it except change jobs, or accept it has happened and move on.

[tayoker]

Maan.. it's alright, just forget about it n go find someone else... probably she's just horny or easy laid... hv fun

[Anonymous]

Lose the girlfriend, lose your job, or neither. That's your three options.

[Asker]

ill just have to let it go... he just kinda boasts about it, he's such a jerk too... im not gonna say anything of course

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah because you don't want to get fired. Just give her the best sex of her life. I mean think about it. You're still smashing. He ain't getting shit right now.

[Asker]

i know but apparently i asked for the details from her and they werent pretty lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol.

[Asker]

i should never have asked

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you shouldn't have lol.

[Asker]

what is it with girls wanting to be dominated?

[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea man. I don't get it either. I don't like rough sex really. If I do it it's because the girl likes it.

[Asker]

´like he completely dominated her lol

[Opinion Owner]

There are a looot of girls into getting pounded rough and hard.

[Asker]

i know :( wish i was big lol

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[KidanisCortes]

IF she's not banging while she's with you I see no foul