First, I would say that you are being patient and good to him by encouraging him to have fun when he goes out with his friends and stuff like that. I know it's hard.
Without knowing a lot more about both of you, I would say what I think is going on. You said that he wasn't this way before. This leads me to think that his comfort level with you has reached a place where he feels like he can get back into doing things he used to do before he met you now that he has you close. He might also be trying to show his friends that he can still go out with them even though he's with you.
I know it's easier said than done (I'm guilty of this myself), but I would recommend asking him casually when the mood is good. Talk to him how him leaving you to be with friends without inviting you in the middle of you hanging out makes you feel. Make sure to let him know that it's not that you don't want him to hang out with his friends. If he cares about how you feel, he would do something about it. If he doesn't, then he is rather selfish.
Good luck!
Rachel
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from a guy point, we need are freedom too as much as you have yours. beside you do not own him yet so it shouldn't be a big deal. you're still young and haven't exp much. on the other if you were marry, then there is a problem. just be more patience, let him do his thing and just do your thing. there will be time for both of you guys . remember in a relationship you have to balance things out. if he could hang out with his guys , why can't you hang out with your girls for example.
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